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aghh women.. hah
first things first--15/m.
ok so like i said, im 15 and theres this girl(lets just call her bonqueesha lol) who is basically all over me, and shes really cute and all.. but shes only 13. see in my opinion i think it would be wrong/weird for us to hook up or go out or whatever, so what do all you advicenators think?
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Two years is not much of an age difference, but if you think it would be weird and are not interested at all in this girl then just tell her straight up. Don't lead her on or let her think there's a possibility you would even consider going out with her. Just tell her that you like her better as a friend, even if you don't. (It's probably the easiest way to let her down
and break her heart)
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i'm 16/f. i tried to put myself in her position just now. think about it... if she knows that you may be interested, of course she's going to be all over an older guy. so basically you say yay or nay to the whole relationship because you know she is all for it. if you think it's wrong/weird, then it's wrong/weird. i don't think it's wrong necessarily, i just think it's weird. as in i wouldn't do that. i mean, it's summer so do whatever you want... but i would just be friends with her. i think it would be a little different if you had just turned 15, and if she was about to turn 14. that's not so weird. but two years is kind of a lot.
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i do not think it would be wrong for you to go out at all but i think hooking up might be a problem....
I KNOW there is a whole thing about what age is right to have sex and everything but personally, i think she is WAYY too young and you are pretty young too.
But its only a 2 year age difference so i think if you went out you would be finee.
hope you guys end up together
<3taylee
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alrightt i was in the girl you like's situation. likee if you really like herr then i would go out or hook up with her or w/e your going to do. i mean i think you should kinda keep it on the down low for a while i mean only tell your bestfriends about her..so then you can hangout with her and your friends. but like dont tell you know like EVERYONE,because some ppl may think its a bit weird. so if you like her i would go for it but if not then i wouldnt. and then if you do end up dating quietly or however then later when she gets to be 14 or 15 it wont look as differentt! i hope that wasnt to confusing and that it helped
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you know theyres like age differences. like theres a big difference between say 14, 17. but not like 29 and 32. even though theyre both only 3 years, its more drastic
I'd wait until she's 14, because then youll either be 15 or 16, depending on the birthdays, which is better
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Hey Bro,
Let me tell you why I think it would be somewhat of a bad idea. If you get involved it isnt going to be with just her, shes gonna tell all of her little friends and it will be totall chaos!! I am also pretty sure that if you two do get together, your boys will be raggin' on you a ton!!!
Dont get me wrong but unless you really wanna pursue a relationship with this girl, DONT GET INVOLVED!!
I have been through this drill before and it blows!!
I hope everything works out with bonqueesha
-DF4237
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i think that age doesnt matter. but yes she is a bit young to have a boyfriend or get involved wth a guy.
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I personally dont think thats a problem, if you like her then give it a shot. You never know you guys may be going out for a long time, or maybe just for a week. You will never know so go for it. However thats what i think but if you think its weird then you might be uncomfortable around her when/if going out which isent something you would enjoy. I still think you should at least try to go out with her cause you might be regretting later.
Hope i helped :D
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Well i mean it IS only a 2 year difference. However at 13...I dont consider that a real dating age. I mean she hasnt even hit her teens yet. I wouldnt , if you did, make sure its not physical , just emotional.
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