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my first kiss
hey 13/f
all my fiends that i hang out with have all kissed a guy at some stage i feel really left out and stuff sometimes and they treat me like a baby..i just want to get it over and done with but want to like the guy as well
Please help me!!!
thanx mwa
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Ok, first of all, calm down.
It's really no big deal. I didn't get my first kiss until I was 14 almost 15. It dosen't matter, because it really isn't all the great. It's just a kiss, nothing more. And don't rush into it, or else you'll end up kissing some loser and you'll regret it forever. Just wait, and your time will come.
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Find someone that you like and get them to like you by flirting with them and being their friend and stuff like that and then ask them out or ask them out and then get to know them better and then if everything works out you will be going out with them and will be able to get your first kiss. You said that your shy so get one of your friends to go up to a guy with you because it always helps me whenever I have someone there with me because I don't feel like im on such a spotlight. Good Luck.
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chill! its okay if you haven't had your first kiss yet. it doesn't matter. you should kiss a guy that your comfortable and you really like him. and its okay if a guy doesn't like you. there plenty of guys out there. and if they do like you and you like them don't ignore them. talk to them and flirt with them and you just might snag a guy and get your first kiss! i hope i helped!
nikita♥
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You are only 13 for a strart, there is loads of time to grow up, heck I am fourteen and havnt had kiss yet and I am ok with that.
Dont give in to peer pressure just do what YOU want to do.
Dont waste your 1st kiss on someone you dont LOVE make sure its with someone you truly feel like "Hey, I really really like this person and I am fine around them"
your friends obviously arent as sensible as you and I think that you are doing the right thing, like not having a kiss or going out to get a kiss.
there must be someone who likes you and this is what is goes back to.Boys are that age can be only be interested in one thing and because they do not know what love is and there are girls out there who just want to kiss,they are going to go for the easiest girls that just dont care {no disrespect to your friends}instead of mature, with-it girls like you.
It is ok to be shy around a boy that you may like and what do you mean you dont do anything with them, you shouldnt be doing anything with them.
All of my friends have kissed and stuff but i havnt and I am fine.As long as your yourself there will be a special someone for you but you dont need one right now.
Dont feel like you just have to get it over and done with. it is a special thing and dont waste it because you feel left out.What will it achieve, 10 mins of fame and excitement with your mates and that is that and why follow your mates.
Kissing at young age leads to doing things more at a young age..what if your mates had sex?You'd want to feel you'd have to do it too?
Just do what you want to do.
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Dude, chill.
I'm 15 and I haven't had my first kiss. The majority of my friends have. If I really wanted it, I could easily go up to a guy and say, "Kiss me." They probably would, too.
Most people that know me know that I haven't had it yet, mainly because I tell them, hah. I think it's stupid to put yourself in the aforementioned situation.
When I'm dating someone that I really like, then I'll kiss them/let them kiss me. I don't envision myself going through any brutal breakups, especially this early in my dating career. Even if I don't like him anymore, I will always remember who my first kiss is, and I don't want to remember some scumbag.
All but one or two of my friends have been in realtively serious relationships, and when they talk about them, I'm interested, just as I'd want them to be for me.
And, no, I don't think it's normal to avoid guys. You certainly won't be kissing any if you avoid them. Playing hard-to-get really isn't worth it, nor is it effective.
Trust me on that one.
IGAM (15/f)
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don't feal pressured by your friends! but honestly to me its just a kiss! i'm one of those annoying girls who say they lovee you all the time, just because i can! so, just go up to anybody and be like lets kiss! hah, i know it sounds GAY, but then when you meet a guy that you want to kiss it won't be weird! id really knwo you, so it might not help, because i don't know if your shy! but i know a lot of my friends who still didn't kiss, and i don't look at them different, so just wait because it matters what you think! and, maybe if one of your close friends is treating you like a baby then tell her or him that it bothers you, a lot! they might stop! ohh and about the additional info, sure i guess, you don't allways have to do what your frends aer doing, just try to see behind the guy a little more, to see if hes flirtiing with you or being friendly! sorry this is long! hope it helped though! ily, morgan♥!
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dont worry about it. if your friends are treating you like a baby and making fun of you or whatever. then they just are not good friends. they need to accept you for who you are and not have you feeling peer pressure. because thats what it seems like this is. peer pressure. i didnt get my first bf or my first kiss until i was 16. im still with him. i didnt care what ppl said about me, i waited for the right one to come along, no pressure.
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Relax, don't worry about it. You're only 13 years old. You're not even in high school yet. These things take time, and sometimes the longer you wait the better it'll be once it happens.
I'm 17 years old and I had my first kiss two months ago! I was definitely a late bloomer. It took me that long to have my first legitimate boyfriend. Sure, I felt like there was something wrong with me and that guys didn't like me and that I wasn't pretty/skinny/fun enough. I've been through it all.
But once I got my first boyfriend, I realized what I'd been missing all those years. The reason no guys became interested in me is because I had no confidence. CONFIDENCE makes all the difference. I heard this all the time, but I never believed it until now. My first boyfriend gave me confidence that a guy really could like me.
After I broke up with that guy for cheating on me, I at one point had NINE guys trying to talk to me. It was crazy, I'd never experienced anything like that before. And I know it's because of the newfound confidence. That confidence made me able to go out and meet new people and it gave me the courage to be outgoing, even with guys.
The only thing I ask is that you don't settle just so you can have your first kiss. Don't have your first kiss with a guy you don't like just because he's willing to kiss you. That's just ASKING for the kiss to suck. And this applies to everyone looking to have a boyfriend. Out of those 9 guys that were into me, I'm interested in exactly ONE of them. And he just got out of a long relationship that ended with the girl cheating on him, so he's scared to get into a relationship. I've known him for about three weeks and even though we both obviously like each other, all we've done is flirt and hug. He's not an easy guy to get, and some of the others would have been. You have to wait for the one you really like to make it count, even if you have to fight for him. Not everything in life is easy.
Good luck! :]
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