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my bff had sex with my boyfriend
ive ben dating this guy for a long time about a year and one day my boyfriend and my bff were hanging out my bff said go buy us some pizza so i left to get the pizza when i came back with it the door was locked so i went in the back door and when i came in i didnt see then i looked in the hole house ecsep her bedroom so i went in her bedroom an they were both naked having sex.what should i do about my friend and my boyfriend?
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Wow, that's wrong. She isn't a true best friend if she had sex with your boyfriend, and your boyfriend is just messed up for doing it. Don't talk to either of them, honestly that's skeet that they would even think about doing that yet, still did it. But it happened and you can't change that. Just ignore them both and find new better friends & a boyfriend who's better. ♥
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that's an extremely bitchy thing of your friend to do. i would never talk to her again.
although, you shouldn't be the one to run around doing things for them or even leaving them alone in the house. that probably wasn't the smartest thing to do. it sounds like your boyfriend took advantage of you being gone and being with your "friend".
i'd never talk to either of them again. that's absolutely rediculous.
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Hun, I'm sorry you had to go through this. your boyfriend with your best friend? wow.... Those two are suppossed to be the ones in whom you can put all of your trust and love, and for them to have done that to you in unforgiveable. I would advice you to put them both in the past. You don't deserve having that done to you. You for sure deserve better, and i'm sure you'll find a much better friend, because lets be honest, no real friend would do anything to cause specially her best friend any harm...
And as for your boyfriend, if he cheated on you, you can't trust him. How do you know he won't do it again? or has done it and/or has been doing it already? I definitely say give him the boot!
Good luck hun =/
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wow. i would write them both out of your life. your friend is no real friend, especially if she would do something like that. and obviously he doesnt care about you or your feelings if he did it two. dont take the "it was all his fault" excuse or "i couldnt stop her" because it takes two.
i hope i helped.!
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That's harsh! You need to tell your soon to be ex-boyfriend to grow up, get a life, it's over and nobody cheats on me and gets away with it or expects to be forgiven.
Next, tell your so-called bff that what she did was ruthless, cold, inexcusable, unforgiveable and downright heartless. More or less hand her her head on a platter and tell them "I hope you'll be happy together as you deserve eachother" and let her know she's not welcome and he's not welcome either.
He's probably cheated on every girl he has ever been with before you and after you and she's probably done this with a host of other friends and guys.
It's a behavior that is repeated in patterns with both of these two and people like them. Tell them that once someone cheats on you they are done.
Then I would get even and let every girl in your grapevine and every guy know just exactly what these two did to you. Once that is out they will be done in by their own actions. He will be 100% undatable and her peers as well as guys will view her as trashy and a tramp which is the nicest words I could use to describe her.
He's going to want to be forgiven and maybe remain with you but it's asking for trouble to let him stay and the same thing with her. Kick them out of your life and move on. Don't cry over him or her as you haven't lost much of anything and you'll see that's the case later.
You deserve a great guy and great girlfriends and I know you'll find each once people know how you were wronged. Trust me, their peers will be as disgusted as you are. They cannot justify it either so you're in a good position to strike back.
Once you've done so be classy and ladylike and don't discuss what happened with anyone or fuel the rumors. It will more than take care of them after you tell one person who tells another.
Definitely make this jerk undatable and expose him as someone who cheated on you with your best friend while you went and fetched their dinner. That info will sink their ship and really make them think as they'll be ostracized for sure. Who would want to know them?
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She is no friend of yours. She sends you for pizza so she can put the moves on your guy?
Please do not believe any "Its all his fault" lines
They both are equally responsible for this.
Write them both out of your life. Feel free to tell
everybody why too. :)
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There is only one thing that would make sense to do. Dump the boyfriend, he's obviously scum and he doesn't deserve you if he's not going to cherish you. Your so-called friend isn't exactly a friend either so you should dump her too. They're pretty much the same person, but in different bodies. They both knew it would hurt you, they both did it anyway. And if you stay with your boyfriend he's going to think it's okay for him to cheat on you.
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Dump both of them!
WHAT JERKS!!
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thats horrible! dont be friends with a slut like that. forget her. and as for your bf, dont ever go out with him again. thats so horrible. you desserve a lotttt better trust me
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Dump them both. Obviously your boyfriend doesn't care about your feelings, but what's even worse is that your best friend would do this to you. Or should I say exfriend. Cut them both out of your life, they will only bring you heartache.
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omg im so sorry! :( I personally think you should confront them both - tell your "bff" that youguys are no longer friends because you need a best friend that you can trust and she broke a major trust barrier no true best friend would ever do that, and as for your boyfriend i think its time you move on find someone else, someone better i know it'll be hard but it'll be worth it! You need to be able to trust your bestfriend and your boyfriend and when you cant do that then you need to find someone new, hope things get better for you
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I don't think your bff deserves your trust anymore. And as for your boyfriend : Leave him. He's a scumbag for doing that to you.
I hope all works out well.
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ok thats so sucky!!! sry but break up with your bf hes an ass and talk to your friend and if she thinks she did no wrong then dont talk to her ne more im so sry!!
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