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why? does it mean im not straight?
okay so i had sex like a week ago for the 1st time and before i did my partner ate me out and i liked it alot and i gave him a bj and that was fine too like i like that but when he gave me sex i didnt like it, i had my eyes opened and looked at his walls and it didn;t appeal to me..for some reason i feel like ill like anal sex more but does it mean b/c i didnt like intercourse im not straight? i dont like girls i mean ive been eaten out by a girl and i liked it but i dont like girls what does this all mean? was it just that i didnt like this guy? who by the way is my ex. we were being fbs but screw that now
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Most girls don't enjoy intercourse because it's simply not as arousing as stimulating the clitoris. It's completely normal and I promise you can still be straight if you don't enjoy intercourse.
It's entirely possible that you didn't enjoy sex just because you didn't like the guy. There are lots of reasons, but I'm certain the main reason is that you need to have your clitoris stimulated to enjoy sex.
If you're interested, there are lots of things you can try that can make sex more enjoyable for you. You can leave a message in my inbox if you want and I'll give you some websites.
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Just because you didn't enjoy the sex doesn't mean that you aren't straight. If girls don't appeal to you, but you like to be with them sexually, maybe you are bi curious. You just have to figure it out on your own.
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I think it is probably more likely this guy
is just a typical me oriented young man. Most
young guys are. It takes years sometimes to
really get to know each other physically.
Not to mention outside factors such as will
we get caught, will I get pregnant etc. that
are on both your minds.
So, I don't think this experience means
you're gay. I also don't think it necessarily
means you don't like this particular guy.
This was just a bad experience.
Besides, if you had satisfying oral sex before
this, then it could have just meant you weren't
in the mood for more at that particular moment.
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You're young. It's hard to say what you are - straight, gay, bi. Right now is a time for experimenting.
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