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I really like this guy. But i dont know if i can trust him. we've been going out for a year, and whenever we hang out he shows me pictures of his other girlfriend naked. We do threesomes sometimes, and dont get me wrong, she's really nice, i just dont know... is it normal for me to be jealous? im crying because i feel like im not as special as she is. I admit she looks better naked and has a vagina that tastes really good, but i feel really left out. what can i do to win him over? i really love him and he's really good at doing stuff to me. and i really dont want to let him go.. advice?
(13/f)
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if you are being for real and not joking, then wow this is quite the situation for a 13 year old to be in. you should be hanging out with friends and going to the movies or swimming. not being involved in some messed up relationship. i cant beleive you would go out with someone who has ANOTHER gf! and to get involved in such sexual activities at your age is honestly disgusting. My advice is to dump your bf and stay away from sex for a few years until you find someone who REALLY loves you. Im not going to lie to you, this is a disgusting situation. You are only 13 and getting involved in stuff like this? Do you want to end up pregnant or with an std? You should be spending your time being a KID, not in bed with two other people. Gross.
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Having sex at 13 isn't "normal". Having group
sex is just bizarre. Most adults wouldn't get
themselves involved in a relationship like that.
He doesn't love either of you. Sorry, but if
you think you are old enough to do this, I see
no reason to sugar coat the answer. He loves sex.
You and the other girl are just so infatuated with this clown you will do anything for a little
attention from him. He knows that and takes full
advantage of the situation.
He will never even consider either of you as
a serious girlfriend. He probably blabs about
it to anyone who will listen too. Don't expect
any other guys to want much to do with you after
this except to use you for sex too.
You have gotten yourself into a situation you
need to get out of as soon as possible. Have
a little self respect. Stop allowing yourself
to be used this way. Don't trust this guy at
all.
Sorry to be so harsh but you need to listen.
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Dear 3 some,
my advice that I could best give to this would be to leave him alone. He seems like the type that is only intrested in one thing and that would be to get into your pants,and yes it is ok for you to be jealous I would be to. I would never share my bf with someone else but if you want to continue on like this than go for it, but if not dump him and find someone who wants you and only you.
~MESACHICK51~
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umm.
woah.
i think your a little too young to be having threesomes.
I think you should dump your boyfriend since he already has a girlfriend. I think thats the best thing to do in the situation. I'm sorry to say that, but when your in this situation sometimes its just the best thing to do.
and p.s. nice descriptions on the stuff....
I hoped I helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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Think about the facts for a second.
-You are thirteen years old.
-Your boyfriend and you are having sex.
-He has another girlfriend.
-You 3 occasionally have threesomes.
-You feel unloved.
There is something extremely wrong with this picture. First off, you are thirteen years old and have your whole life ahead of you to have sex. Hate to burst your bubble, but chances are you and this guy will not be together forever. I mean, having two girlfriends should really be setting an alarm off in your head. He's going to have to choose one of you eventually. Which brings me to my next point: it may not be you. If your intuition is telling you he likes her better, he probably does. You aren't feeling right in this relationship, therefore, you need to get out.
You are only thirteen years old, and the guy you're dating has another girlfriend. This is not a situation you want to be in. Sure, it may be fun and the like, but you really don't deserve this.
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