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does anyone know how to change your screen name on aim? any real answers and i'll rate high!!! thanx

to completely change it, you go to the sign on window and go to "get a sn" and then follow the steps. to just change the format (i.e. supergirl34 to SuPeRgIrL 34) go to "my aim" (on the buddy list) then to "edit options"->"format sn" then type in what you want to change it to. hope this helps!

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one of my really good friends and i got into a fight with this other girl from school (shes now my enemy). and now my really good friend is becoming RLY good friends with the person we got into a fight with. i really dislike that....ive tried talkin to mi friend but shes always like 'oh im going to the movies w/ her today' and my friend CLAiMS she doesnt like her. but now shes doing EVERYTHING w/ her. and when i ask her why shes like 'oh its because im bored and have nothing better to do' and i have a feeling thats not why. and its really bugs and annoys me. What should i do?

oh false friends there, eh? ok i bet that girl says the exact same thing to the other girl about you. thats not right, shes gonna get caught some day...this happend to a girl at school. i tried helpig her and i found out what she said about me and everyone else and the whole grade disowned her. find a new good friend, thats what i would do. you deserve better. well thanks for asking!!

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well tomorrow i'm going to the doctors for a check up and i'm 14/f and last time i went they looked down my pants and i think its VERY preverted! ( is that normal for most doctors to do?) is there a way i can stop them??

signed: grossed out

yes for check ups they do that...its retarded i swear! i think you can actually tell them to stop and still be healthy. they havent checked that out since like 2 years before i started puberty and my downstairs is perfectly healthy. if you dont like it, dont let them or ask to have a female doctor check you out.

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does anyone think its bad to bring your bible to school or stuff like that? I mean my friend does and i want to but am scared someone might hurt me because of it! but i really LOVE god and want to like spread him with people but am scared to! thanks!

well heres a way to spread good: do it by making yourself an example of a child of god. do good things for others and just do what god wants you to do. i dont reccomend preaching and getting people involved in your religion tho, not because they will think you are odd but because people choose theyre own religion and have no desire to change just because someone brings a bible to school. i think a more practicle way to do this is to wear a cross necklace or a wwjd bracelet to show that you support god in your life. honestly, i dont think ive heard of anyone getting hurt by someone for doing that...(if you are catholic, one of the beatitudes says something about that) but people around you will get annoyed by it, really its not the best idea...people dont appreciate the effort. try participating more in your mass/service by reading or singing or being a greeter to welcome everyone to worship. hope this helps, stay true!

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Hey you guyz...well im a guy and i have a shag..well everytime i go to tha place to cut my hair i dont know what to tell them...like last time he didnt...like i want it sheer looking if that makes sense but still with a shag...what do i tell him how i want it...

WHOA dont tell him to buzz!! my bro has the shag thing going on and im pretty sure he asks for a "trim" to kinda keep the hair but just straighten it out a bit. you dont have to tell them an exact thing, just be like "this is what i want..." and they should know what to do.

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ok well my parents have been divoced for 2 years and i live with my dad and see my mom on the weekends. well my dad wants to move out of the city,far away from all of my friends and family, and i have never moved before.i dont want to go to a new high school and i dont want to move away from my family and friends so my mom offered for me to come live with her, but if i do my dad will keep my sister and we will be split up and i will never see her. and if i go with my dad i will never see my mom and i will be stuck with my stupid step mom who is a bitch, who should i go with?

i would go with your mom and beg for your sister to come too. its better than living with a step mom is a far off city.

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2 days ago me and my sister were running outside in my uncles back yard and i ran around her and i stepped on a 2 1/2 inch rusty bolt and it went 1 inch *or more* in my foot and i had to go to the hospital. well now im back home and i have no crutches or a wheel chair or anything and i really want to walk around my house but when i hop on my good foot it makes my ribs and knee hurt too much does any one know a way for me to get around until i get crutches?
thanks
i rate 5's for good answers

ok i dont know extreme you wanna go with this but when i was younger i always had injuries so i would sit on the ground, feet in front of me and i would drag/scoot myself to wherever i needed to go. sound too immature? hop on one foot, limp, or wrap it a lot so it wont hurt when you walk. hope this helps!

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I went to a friend's camp this last weekend. She told me that there was this guys a few years olded then us but he was annoying, stupid, and ugly.Then we went out onto the lake and he came along. He had this really big tube and we were all just chillin on it and pushing each other off. then one time it was just me and him and i justed to like him but kept myself from liking him because of what my friend said. i know it doens't matter because i probably won't see him again but should i of let what my friend say keep me from liking this guy?? please help!

well if youre never gonna see him again you can just keep it to yourself and it wont really make a difference. if you wanna just tell her i think it should be ok...not all annoying people are annoying all the time or to everyone so its ok. stupid and ugly...hmm i think this girl just hates him. ask if theres any reason WHY. ts something like "oh he kissed me when we were little and i thought it was gross and ran away" its no big, just go on liking him. if it something serious "he did drugs and ended in juvey 3 times in 6 months and then..." then stop there and listen to her opinion this time. hope this helps!

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Hey guys, i like to read a lot, and i've read many famous books like To kill a mocking bird, Catcher in the Rye, Harry potter, and so on. Anyways does anyone know any really really good books, and authors for when i go to the library next time? And i dont want books that you have heard sound good, but actual books you guys have read and really enjoyed, like an "i never want to put it down" kinda book if that makes sense. Thanks luv ya!

well i hate reading and some books that i had trouble putting down were "shattering glass" "the sisterhood of the traveling pants" and "the v club" theyre all like teen books so if your not into that stuff, sorry. hope this helps tho!

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okay so me n my girlfriend have been going out for a while and shes moving faster than i want to weve done everything but sex...i dont want to be one of the young tenn fathers even if we use a condom it could still break... if you could answer this i would really appriciate it

tell her you dont wanna go further. seriously, she should understand. try pleasing her in other ways that couldnt get her pregnant. its good that you are concerned about it, im proud of you.

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This is going to be my first date in my life, so I'm not so good at this right now. We're just going to watch a movie at my house and I don't know of any good movies that we'd probably both like. I want something funny, but a little romantic too. I'd like any suggestions.

50 first dates is great! so is hitch!

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is it just me, or have some of the questions lately been seeming fake, made-up, and unrealistic? i have no desire to answer some lately because they seem like they`re put up on advicenators to get laughs.

YESYES! i completely agree with you! that one about "mindy" or whatever taking pills blah blah blah yeah it pissed me off. if you are a mod then you can rate it down and ignore it. otherwise just pray they get deleted by level 2s. dont quit tho...they do get better, trust me. just give them a stupid answer and if they rate you a one because you told them there is no way on earth they could ever be pregnant, then delete the answer and move on. :sighs: well just stick around for a while and wait for some good ones to answer.

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what is the title and artist of this song:
if i go crazy will you still call me superman.

"kryptonite" by 3 doors down on the better life cd. its a great song. here are the lyrics:
I took a walk around the world to
Ease my troubled mind
I left my body laying somewhere
In the sands of time
I watched the world float to the dark
Side of the moon
I feel there is nothing I can do, yeah

I watched the world float to the
Dark side of the moon
After all I knew it had to be something
To do with you
I really don't mind what happens now and then
As long as you'll be my friend at the end

If I go crazy then will you still
Call me Superman
If I'm alive and well, will you be
There holding my hand
I'll keep you by my side with
My superhuman might
Kryptonite

You called me strong, you called me weak
But your secrets I will keep
You took for granted all the times I
Never let you down
You stumbled in and bumped your head, if
Not for me then you would be dead
I picked you up and put you back
On solid ground

If I go crazy then will you still
Call me Superman
If I'm alive and well will you be
There holding my hand
I'll keep you by my side with my
Superhuman might
Kryptonite

//Oh whoa whoa//

there you go!

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Ok well I think I have a yeast infection..ok so what do I do should I like go to the family health council? or will it just go away in a matter of time?

Thanks

well i dont know what the rest of the world is gonna say but i would go to the doctor and get it treated.

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How can get to be so loving like you?! We need more people like that!! Is it true that the more you love a people the happier you are?! How can i be so loving and nice like you?! its just so awesome!

wow this is like the biggest complient ive gotten!! who is this?! how to be loving : accept people for who they are and be there for them. yes its true that the more people i love the happier i am...i live to help people out. its a thing. thank you for the question/compliment!

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Lately me and my mom have been fighting about EVERYTHING. We cant even tlak to each other without getting into an arguement. But a few days ago, she found out im more than likely clinically depressed. Now shes being all sympathetic towards me and i dont like it. She is never sympathetic towards me for anything until she found out about my depression. I wish we could stop fighting, but not because of depression, because i dont wanna keep keep fighting after im treated. We have already tried a psychologist person, but she doesnt listen so does anyone have any ideas on what i could do get along better?

I rate!

thats very common actually...you got kinda lucky actually. my friends mom actually gave her more grief and sent her even lower than where she was. just go along with it, its better than no sympathy and hopefully this will help end the fighting. try talking to an adult you trust and write in a journal.

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ok,i went to NH with my friend and missed this party. There was a girl there and i didnt want her to be friends with MY friends. 2 girls -- Jill and Sandy are my friends and i didnt want her to be friends with this girl Tiana. I just dont want them to like her more than me..i know im being a bitch but i dont want Tiana to be friends with Jill and Sandy..Sandy told me she was acting like her bffl...and that made me kinda pissed.. how can i accept that Tiana is going to be friends with them? Tiana used to be my good friend but we split up..and i just want everyone to be friends and i can accept it.

o dear. ok its fine this happens to everyone, just dont let the jealousy get to you to the point where you do bad things to tiana...it will only make you look bad. my friends did that to me a number of times so what i didnt is became friends with the tiana in the group. that way, if jill and sandy ditch you, there is a potential friend to be with and she wont turn your friends against you because shes your friend. your not sure that tiana doesnt like you...maybe you should ask her or just be really nice to her and see what she does. being mean to her will hurt you more that her. it will take time but i think you will overcome it!

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I've never been in a relationship before & I'm 13 years old. I've liked guys & they've liked me back but I've never really gone the extra step. Well now, my guy friend likes me & I like him too. We want to be more than friends but what should I expect from a relationship? Will things be weird at first?

yep things will get really weird between you. if you guys used to talk about just anything, that will change...it wont be as easy. as time goes on (give it a few months) youll get more used to it and be a bit more comfortable.

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I dont want to be left out from my friends...how do i make it so im happy and im loud and boy crazy and just described as "awesome" please i really want to be outgoing and like this!

well its ok to not be like that but i do see why you would want the attention that comes with it. just smile a ton and do crazy things...skip across parking lots or anywhere with your friends, laugh a lot, mention guys a lot and talk like crazy about anything even if its stupid.

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i dont no what to do anymore im obssesed with my diet and when i eat something bad i get depresessd i work out everyday and i keep thinking that im fat im 5'0, 120 pounds is that big? all my friends tell me im crazy and cant be artound me anymore help!

ok im going to prove that you are perfectly fine! heres the link for the BMI (body mass index) thing. http://www.seventeen.com/health/bmi/spc/0,,665141_665142,00.html
actually im gonna do it for you...23.443. thats it. the normal range is 15 to 18 to like 24 or 25. so therefore, you are fine. dont believe me? heress the link with the asnwer! http://www.seventeen.com/health/bmi/spc/0,,665141_665143,00.html?pounds=120&inches=60&x=84&y=12
hope this helps!

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