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Question Posted Tuesday July 5 2005, 10:49 am

Lately me and my mom have been fighting about EVERYTHING. We cant even tlak to each other without getting into an arguement. But a few days ago, she found out im more than likely clinically depressed. Now shes being all sympathetic towards me and i dont like it. She is never sympathetic towards me for anything until she found out about my depression. I wish we could stop fighting, but not because of depression, because i dont wanna keep keep fighting after im treated. We have already tried a psychologist person, but she doesnt listen so does anyone have any ideas on what i could do get along better?

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Sammerz619 answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 2:09 pm:
Well to start off...do you know if the depression was caused by the fighting? Either way, your mom is probably scared shes making it worse and doesnt want to fight with you, and probably feel guilty about the whole thing, saying to herself that shes the cause of why you feel that way. I think you and your mom should have talk about how each other feels(without yelling)And if she doesnt want to listen you have to get straight to the point and make her realize whats happening.Say something like "mom, im depressed and i want to do something to change it. But if you wont listen to any ideas i have on helping this then i dont know what will happen." She will give in to that, shes your mother and she cares. I hope i helped. Sammerz

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mixmasterkat answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 1:25 pm:
ask her if she wud mayb want 2 go 2 da cinemas with er sumtime den if she accepts get 2 know er more and eventually u shud stop fiting just keep ur distance at da moment ok
good luck
kirsty

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Teza answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 1:23 pm:
Instead of fighting about every little thing with her I think that you should just sit down with her and take the time to talk to her about it. If she starts yelling at your for something unreasonable dont fight back. I know that could be hard at times but just go back to your room and dont talk to her for a while. Both of you should just calm down. ♥//

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LoveNJstyle answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 11:58 am:
thats very common actually...you got kinda lucky actually. my friends mom actually gave her more grief and sent her even lower than where she was. just go along with it, its better than no sympathy and hopefully this will help end the fighting. try talking to an adult you trust and write in a journal. <3

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