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Miserable.
It seems that now my friends are friends with this girl cait that im going to be left out. There all gunna be tight and im just..there. I think im the least outgoing one there and that makes me sad. Cait it just going to have fun with them and im going to be all left out and stuff. Cait changed and now its like she fits in so perfectly and i just cant. Im trying to fit it,be loud,nice,awesome..but im just a small girl. Befor i moved here i was outgoing,popular,nice,and cool. Now that i live here i changed and i wish i didnt. I REALLY wish i didnt change. I wish i never moved. And why? All because this one person is friends with my other friends now.
I missed out and im miserable. How can i get through this? I just want to be outgoing nice loud and cool again. I dont know why but not that Cait is friends with Taylor and Carry its like there going to be calling people,going to the movies,all this with out me..and i get sad. I think of Cait as a threat and i wish i didnt. How can i just not think about Cait as a threat? and How can i deal with this situation?
[[how do i become loud,outgoing,cool,and nice again?]] Please help.
Signed,
Miserable. :( :'(
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I think that you should have a chat with your friends, but WITHOUT Cait and talk to them about how upset you are feeling and ask them if they could include you a bit more and your friendship should grow again from there.
Good Luck, I really hope this helps =)
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well if you want to be loud outgoing cool and nice again is gaining the confidence back so you can be. People wont want to approach you if they see u as the quiet shy type because it makes them shy around you but if you just become all out out going it makes you more approachable. And think of this Cait girl as just another person who is a friend theirs just like you are.
Stay Strong
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wow it sounds bad but dont worry and DONT CHANGE!! I mean you can't help changing how you changed it's probably just because your not as comftorable in your new place that you live but if you really were outgoing and loud then once you get a little more used to this place it should all come back. and don't worry because your friends like you for you otherwise they wouldn't of became friends with you. tell them how you really feel but don't try to make it sound like your jelous and you never know, you and Cait could become really really good friends if you get to know her a little more.
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wow, your problem is alot like some problems ive had...except with me theres multiple girls that all my friends like! And all these girls are georgeuos popular girls too...it came to the point when i wasnt even invited to my best friends party, but all of the popular girls were! And i talked to my best friend about it and let her know it upsetted me that she didnt invite me, and when the truth came out from her, she didnt think i would have wanted to go, and she thought i would be uncomfortable...so the advice i give you, is that you just be you, and let your friends know that you would like to meet this new cait girl, and bring up the idea to go to the movies with your friends and cait! I completly understand what you are going through...and just to let you know, if your friends completly dump you for cait, then they werent good friends in the first place! Just remember that, and dont change yourself to fit what you think they will want you to be, be yourself...be true to YOU!!! If you need to talk ever just im me on AIM i will be there for you hunny! my screen name is x3T1FFANY
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...Well this kind of reminds me of something when i moved in 4th grade. At my old school i was like really fun,outgoing, and i had a lot of friends too. Just try to fit in and make more friends. I really think you might want to get to know this Cait girl. If your friends really care about you they would never leave you out no matter how many more friends they have. Just try to mkae yourself feel liek shes one of your friends and act the same around her as your would around anyone else. I hope i helped a little. If you want more advice you can IM me at Sammerz619
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Aww... okay well instead of feeling sad most of the time I think that you should also start being friends with Cait. She isnt a threat and its fine that you think that because you probablly feel like she is taking your friends away from you and thats not true. I think that you should invite her and your other friends to your house or to go to the movies or something. Start talking to Cait and maybe once you get to know her you would probablly think that she is really cool and stuff. You wont be left out but just all of you should really hang out together. You will make a strong friendship and no one would end up feeling left out or jelous of the other friends. I think that you seem really cool and nice right now but if you want to prove it to everyone else just try to make friends with a lot of other people. Have fun and just joke around with everyone!!! Once you get used to and more comftrable with your friends and Cait you will start being more outgoing! Just dont worry ang you will go back to your normal self soon. You dont have to deal with this situation .. but yes you can fix it. Like I said.. try to make friends with Cait. Your friends probablly like her because she is nice and you should really give her a chance. Maybe later you will relize that it wasnt such a bad idea. If you want to go back to being popular,cool,nice,loud && outgoing then you have to be nice to a lot of people. I mean just because someone doesnt fit in your own group of friends be friendly. More people will notice that you are a great person and everyone will like you. When you go out with your friends like movies mall and stuff go up to some people and talk to them. Its a good way to build confidence in yourself and to make new friends! Good luck babe! ♥
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