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Member Since: July 5, 2005
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Last Update: July 5, 2005
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It seems that now my friends are friends with this girl cait that im going to be left out. There all gunna be tight and im just..there. I think im the least outgoing one there and that makes me sad. Cait it just going to have fun with them and im going to be all left out and stuff. Cait changed and now its like she fits in so perfectly and i just cant. Im trying to fit it,be loud,nice,awesome..but im just a small girl. Befor i moved here i was outgoing,popular,nice,and cool. Now that i live here i changed and i wish i didnt. I REALLY wish i didnt change. I wish i never moved. And why? All because this one person is friends with my other friends now.
I missed out and im miserable. How can i get through this? I just want to be outgoing nice loud and cool again. I dont know why but not that Cait is friends with Taylor and Carry its like there going to be calling people,going to the movies,all this with out me..and i get sad. I think of Cait as a threat and i wish i didnt. How can i just not think about Cait as a threat? and How can i deal with this situation?
[[how do i become loud,outgoing,cool,and nice again?]] Please help.
Signed,
Miserable. :( :'( (link)
wow, your problem is alot like some problems ive had...except with me theres multiple girls that all my friends like! And all these girls are georgeuos popular girls too...it came to the point when i wasnt even invited to my best friends party, but all of the popular girls were! And i talked to my best friend about it and let her know it upsetted me that she didnt invite me, and when the truth came out from her, she didnt think i would have wanted to go, and she thought i would be uncomfortable...so the advice i give you, is that you just be you, and let your friends know that you would like to meet this new cait girl, and bring up the idea to go to the movies with your friends and cait! I completly understand what you are going through...and just to let you know, if your friends completly dump you for cait, then they werent good friends in the first place! Just remember that, and dont change yourself to fit what you think they will want you to be, be yourself...be true to YOU!!! If you need to talk ever just im me on AIM i will be there for you hunny! my screen name is x3T1FFANY




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