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Left Out


Question Posted Tuesday July 5 2005, 10:08 am

I dont want to be left out from my friends...how do i make it so im happy and im loud and boy crazy and just described as "awesome" please i really want to be outgoing and like this!

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X_Amanda_X answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 2:23 pm:
NO NO NO NO NO! NEVER EVER CHANGE JUST TO BE FRIENDS WITH SOMEONE! Sorry about the yelling but you are going in the completely WRONG direction! If your so called "friends" aren't happy with you the way you are, then they are not your friends. Never, ever,ever,ever,ever change yourself just so someone thinks you are cool.

I hope this helped..sorry about the yelling lol

X_Amanda_X

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xOlUvChAdoX answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 1:43 pm:
i'm always left out with my friends.. but i've learned that if you have to change yourself just so they will notice you more.. there not worth it.. if you really want to change yourself, then try being funnier..and just loud but not to point where they don't want to be near you!!

*jEn

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SuGaSwIRlXoOx answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 12:55 pm:
well maybe you should spice yourself up! you know strat actin funny change your wardrobe stuff like that! if you wanna be crazy you gotta act crazzyy!! good luck!

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KATAxTHExADViCEgURL answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 12:09 pm:
so you wanna fit in with your friends?.. well, if your being left out from your so called "friends" i don`t really think that you wanna be friends with them in the first place?! i think that you should just be yourself, find some new friends, and whatever happens, happens you know!? you shouldn`t have to change yourself just to make friends? i say, just go with what your heart thinks.. who cares about those other girls.. the best way to make yourself happy and to gain more friends, is to be true to yourself and to be true to everyone around you, thats it.

hope i helped!
xo0x- Kata

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Teza answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 11:39 am:
Not to be rude or anything but to me and probablly to other people.. you just want to change to fit in with other people. Thats fine but if you want everyone to like you and be described as "aswesome" then you have to be yourself. Most of the teenagers are loud and boycrazy. If you are'nt then thats just not you. If you want to be more outgoing go out with your friends to the movies or the mall and just go up to some people and say hi. Dont be shy about it or you'll just never learn. If you want to be loud then just have fun! Make jokes, and just laugh! Good luck with that! ♥//

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LoveNJstyle answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 11:36 am:
well its ok to not be like that but i do see why you would want the attention that comes with it. just smile a ton and do crazy things...skip across parking lots or anywhere with your friends, laugh a lot, mention guys a lot and talk like crazy about anything even if its stupid. <3

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cicci answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 11:29 am:
It sounds like you just want to change to fit in, but if you have to change for certain people to like you, is it really worth you having them as friends? I know it might be hard, but if you find people who like you for who you really are then you'll be alot happier. And I'm sure some people find you 'awesome' even if you're not loud and boy-crazy. Just relax and feel confident in yourself and you'll seem happier to people around you.

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sweetjewel answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 10:22 am:
you cant change yourself to be like other people, if you do that people will know that your being fake and acting like a poser. just be yourself.

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