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Hey Everyone :) I'm Kate and a level 2 mod on here. I've had this account since July 2004, so I've been on here since I was 13! Wow ... crazy for me to think how long ago that was. I will admit I don't check in as often as I once did, but being away at college, being in a sorority, and having a job when I'm not at school is very time consuming. I still try to help out as much as possible, and if you send me a question I WILL answer it. This site helped me a LOT when I was in high school and had a lot of questions, and I'm here to help anyone who needs it :) Feel free to write in my forum or send me a question any time!
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my voice maked me uncomfterable because im a girl with an incridably low voice, like whenever i talk to a guy, they always ask if i have a cold and some people make fun of me because of my voice. i just wanna know a way that maybe my voice can sound a litlle higher.plz!!!!
there isn't much of a way to change it, I have a pretty deep voice, except when I sing. I used to just make excuses, but a lot of guys actually like that. And when people make fun, just go along and lauch. My science teacher last year used to pick with me (i knew her really well 'cause I'm friends with her daughter and I also had her in 6th grade) Just laugh with them, and make fun of yourself. There are probably remedies, or superstitions that'll make your voice higher, try go somewhere like bored.com, and see if they have a page on superstitions.
Sorry I couldn't be much help
i'm a 5 foot 3, 13 and a half year old girl. how much should i weigh?
www.am_i_fat.com
That'll tell ya what you wanna know
If the site doesn't work go to Help, and FAQ's
first and foremost, i wouldl ike to add one thing to moderators. delete me! i do not care! you may delete at will! i trust you in your power, and the rest of us lower ppl should! quit saying dont delete me ppl! theres only like 11 or 12 levels 2's! if your deleted, theres a reason! so with that in mind, delete to your hearts content. and please, please, from the bottom of my heart, delete the next question that says do not delete. and thank you everyone, for reading this warm, heartful thing on deleted questions. or something. hm, i wonder if this makes any sence, what so ever.
Matt
I must say, I have to agree with MFS, It's one of the most brilliant, and well put together recipies I've ever seen.
hehehe, I'm so glad people are starting to realize, that we can't stand it when people say I rate, rate me, Please Don't Delete
Thos things usually mean, this question isn't worth being asked, you only care about ratings, or you're so insecure about your question, or problem, that you'll do anything to get it answered
FINALLY SOMEBODY SAYS SOMETHING!! well things have been said before, but you know what I mean.
my girlfriend has posters on her wall of a bunch of celebrities that she thinks are "hot". She claims to me all the time that she doesnt check them out or think about them in any way but i think she is lying to me. I dont know what to do now. Is she lying to me about checking other guys out or what. She claims they are stupid little pictures, well if they are so stupid why are they up?
Not to sound rude, but so when you look at porn, or at magazines, like playboy, or just any other magazines, or the cheerleaders, or any other pretty girl, and say wow she's pretty, or dang she's hot, you assume that that's all right
They're just posters, it's not like she'd have a chance to be with any of those guys, they're way to old, and they're famous, thel probalbly live nowhere near you. Besides, if she's going out with you, obviously she likes you THE MOST!!
Don't worry about it
My best friend and i are really really close at home... but not at school... she kinda ignores me. Its not as bad this year as it was last year... but it makes me feel really bad. I've tried to talk to her, but she just ignores it. Maybe i'm pmsing or something.... i don't know... advice would be great though!
well, not to seem bad or anything, but I sort of treat a friend like that. It's just I feel like I'm maturing, and she's not, and I mean I don't mind hangin with her around the house, it's just that were totally different, and so I'm not always totally into hangin with her, and we have different friends in school and stuff, so it's akward for me. Maybe your friend feels something like that. Confront her, and see whats going on.
I just don't want to hurt my friends feelings because we practically share backyards, so I see her EVERYDAY, so it would be so weird not being friends with her, or not hanging with her.
So why don't you see how she feels, and be prepared it might be something you don't want to hear.
I dont understand how to put on the column backgrounds suggested by Advicenators! I just need help understanding what to do! For example: It says put the copied code into the option box...but I dont see an option box. Please help!
when you copy the code, go to column settings, if you scroll down there will be stuff on backgrounds
In the second box that you are able to type in, paste the code, it'll say sumthin like page background URL, then click submit
It should work
OMG...i really need to help my friend she needs help fast! she is 14 and she had sex with her boyfriend and she just found out that she iz pregnant. please dont leave advice like "oh she shouldn't have done that because she is a slut" and stuff because we really dont need to hear that and she isn't a slut because she really loves her boyfriend! she doesn't know how to tell her mom and she has no clue what to do she is just crying and crying and i'm trying to comfort her but what should i say
okay, well I've already answered a questions just like this, and my parent/child development teacher game some pointers.
The first thing she wants to do is get a good friend, or somebody she's close to, and have them take her to the health department, and get her checked for STD's or whatever else she might have on her mind.
She needs to tell he rparents, and her boyfriend that she's pregnant, and she needs to start thinkin if she's going to keep it, put it up for adoption, or what I'm against, abortion.
Don't tell her it's going to be fine, because it won't. The first and last trimeseters are going to be painful, and not very fun, the second one will be better though.
Pregnancy is a rough thing, especially at that young of an age, and the best thing you can do is be there for her, she REALLY REALLY REALLY needs a good friend to talk to.
Tell her that you will support whatever decision she makes, whether or not you agree. and really try to support it.
Tell your friend Good Luck with whatever decision she needs, and if you have any other questions, leave one in my inbox!!
that birth control makes you gain weight?
It's just a side effect, it won't neccisarrily make you gain, but it could
well i just got my period yesterday and i wear pads but i have gym today and im scared the pad will fall out/off when we are running , ect! HELP!
well it should have sticky stuff to hold it, but just incase maybe you should get the kind with wings. Thats the kind we have at the house.
Or try tampons, like tampax pearls, I think thats what their called, that should help
My dad got a job in San Antonio, Texas. I'm EXTREMELY happy!!!!! But the thing is, in a way, I don't want to move. I live in Central Pennsylvania, so its definitely a big move. I know I can't stop my rents from moving. But, I'm just going to miss my whole life. I grew up here, I'm going to have to start all over. Is this normal?
It's normal, I have to Move from Syracuse NY, to NC, thats a 12 hour drive of a difference.
It really depends on how old you are. It could be worse if you're over the age of 10, because then you really have friends, and you will truly miss everything. But once you move, you meet new peolple. Whenever we go to NY to visit, I still get together with my old friends, and the people that lived on our street, but if I had the choice to go back, then I wouldn't.
okay i was just wondering if it's normal that i 14 and dont have my period....i was at the doctors and he said that hey will have to investagrate to see wuts wrong if i dont start sooner but then again in my eyes hes a gay doctor and i dont like or will ever listen to him. but from experienced ppl and everything is it normal that i haven't started? i will be 15 soon in january. thank you guys in advance.
hey, I'll be 14 in less than 2 months, and I haven't gotten mine, it's no big deal, kinda embarassing tho.
I was a moderator...then The site went down for like a week. The when it was fixed... I wasnt one anymore. How do I get it back?
I'd like to know that too, I'm also no longer a moderator, and Whenever you figure it out, do you think you could let me know?
okay, if someone has been smoking pot for 3 years, normally how hard is it and how long will it take for them to quit? and when htey do try to quit, what are soem withdrawal syptoms that me, as his girlfriend, could face with him? and how can i help him through it and be supportive of him without being super pushy. will i have to keep a close eye on him and ask him all the time how he's doing? i have never helpoed anyone over an addiction...so i really dont know what to expect...soem one please help me
Well, it's VERY hard to quit, my friend has been on it for three years, and she's tried and tried to quit.
Be as patient as you can, make sure whenever you see him he has none on him, and whenever you're at his house SEARCH.
He might need somebody to talk to, or just to cry, or whatever it is he will do to get over it.
Make sure he has a steady diet, because since he won't have the pot, or whatever else drugs he does, he might turn to eating or something.
I think it's awesome that you're trying to help, but be careful because he might get som anger issues. A friend of mine tried to quit, but he just couldn't, he'd get angry REAL easily, and he hurt so many people, and now he's back on it.
If you do all that you can and it doesn't help, try to let his parents know, or a conciler, or somebody who can help him stop.
But most of all, DON'T BREAK UP WITH HIM unless you really really really have to.
He's going to need you now more then ever
Let him know how much you love him so that he'll know he has somebody to be there for him in his time of need.
Make sure he knows that you want him to be healthy, and that you're rooting for him to pull through
If he really loves you, he'll try not to give up, he'll hold out as long as possible, even if that means forever (which is a good thing)
It'll take a while for him to quit, for all you know it'll take a year or longer.
If worse comes to worse, get counciling, or anyother type of help you can think of!!
Good luck, and I really do admire you for trying to help your boyfriend!! :-)
hi! okay well im 11 and i just started my period! ahh! well i live with my grandparents and my grandma is on her way home right now but i havent called her and told her. when she gets home what are some good lines to say to her? plz help! i rate really good!
Hey grandma, could you give me a ride to the local drug store, I've started my period (or say menstrual crycle)
She'll probably cry, or be like oh your so grown up hehehe.
I just realized that you asked this like 3 hours ago, so I don't know if it's too late, so I figure I'd answer and find out
all of my friends have sex now, im 14! and i dunno i can't ever have sex with anybody if they ever ask me, and i know many people are going to tell me to wait n stuff, but i love my boyfriend and i really want to have sex with him!! but i can't im too afraid, or im just uncomfortable w/ my body, how can i do it??! please gimme sum help!
If there is any doubt in mind, DON'T DO IT!!!
Okay, just because eveybody else is having sex doesn't mean you should. Majority of my friends do pot and drink, but I don't, I have too much going for me to end up dead, or pregnant from having sex while drunk.
If you have sex, you could get STD's, or pregnant, and at this young of an age, you could die during pregnancy.
So don't follow the crowd, be unique, and independent!!
BE YOU, do what you're comfortable doing, not what you want to be judged on doing. Having sex isn't the best thing in the world, it's like what 15 minutes of pleasure. You can't be in love, and you have SOOOOO much going for you, no matter what you think. Just hang in there, atleast wait till 16 before you have sex, that way you'll be developed enough to be able to have a somewhat easy birth if you get pregnant. Believe me, sex isn't something you truly want.
Just wait, have fun while you still can!!
how many teeth is the average person supposed to have?
thanx
well including wisdom teeth, I think it's like somewhere in the low 30's, then subtract four, because usually people get them pulled, so then 20 sumthin,
sorry this isn't much help
Ok.. Im 14.. and I really love my boyfriend.. well.. last night.. we were talkin for a REALLY long time on the phone.. and he proposed to me. Its was really cute the way he did it. I of course said yes cause im so much in love with him.
What im wondering tho is: Do u think it can work out.. hes 16 and im 14... and also... do u think im too young to be engaged?
I think your definitly TOO YOUNG.
Your only 14, you still have time, it's probably just s teenage romance.
What do your parents say????
Maybe if you guys are still together 3-4 years from now, then it probably isn't a teenage relationship.
Besides 2 years from now it'll be illegal for you guys to be having sex. or maybe thats just if you aren't married.
Marriage will add a LOT of stress, and your what in 8th, 9th, maybe 10th grade. Your much too young, at the LEAST wait till your senior year.
Good Luck with him, and I hope you atleast consider this, because I assume what I've written is something you don't wanna here.
ok, this is for the guys! If your girlfriend kissed you and she was wearing flavoured lip balm, would you like that or find it disgusting?
I know this is pointless, also I'm a girl, but I asked some of my guy friends, and my ex, they all said they liked the taste
My ex said he liked it when I used the Jessica simpson stuff.
Like the Jessica simpson brand (Dessert) perfume and lip stuff
It's supposed to be edible, and taste REALLY good, and it does considering 14/15 guys said they liked it
Ask your guy just to be sure tho!!
ok lets make this as simple as possible.
i have a b/f..who i love with all my heart. i was at a afootball game with him tonight at the high school. he went to get food. my ex came over to me, who is now my best friend i gave him a hug and a kiss on the cheek. my boyfriend saw and is all upset. is that wrong of me? i don't see that as a problem! he is my BEST FRIEND! i hug every1 & it was just a kiss on the cheek..like i love him, hes my ex, yeah, but hes also a friend! does my b/f have a right to be so mad?! when he knows i only love and want him .. =/ thanx
I kinda agree with xplisit15.
Hugs are no big deal, and actually not many girls see a guy and kiss him on the cheek
Hugs are okay, and if he had a problem, then he isn't bery secure, but the kiss, even though it was on the cheek, it still wasn't the best of ideas.
Well im 15 and i have a WONDERFUL boyfriend. we've been together for 3 years!! and u have to admit thats pretty long..anyways, he gets horny a lot, and he tries to get me to have sex with him sometimes, and im just NOT ready!!! He understands tho of course since hes a real understanding person, but last night, he tried to have sex again!! and of course, (as always) i stopped him. And this morning he came over, and gave me a letter, and then left..here's whut it said..
Dear Nicole,
This no - sex thing just isnt working for me. Im sorry, its just that i get sooo HORNY whenever i see you..i jack off, and i just cum and stuff. I dont have a very strong will, so i think u should rethink about the no-sex thing. you know that i love you either way tho..and i cude never break up with you..but ur a fantastic person, and i neeeeeeeed you..
Love,
Chris
should i just have sex with him and get it over with? or should i stick with my first answer? PLEZE HELLLLLLLPP ME!!!!!!!!
No, don't have sex with him. You're still young, enjoy your young days while you can.
He's not as wonderful as you may think, especially if he's trying to get you to have sex with him even though you said no. A guy that makes you second guess your original, GOOD opinion like that isn't a GREAT guy.
If you seriously think you're ready to do something, then first head over to the health department and make sure niether of you have any STD's. Then start of fondleing, or making out, like go to first and second base, and if you feel comfortable, then 3rd base. But don't hit a homer yet, you're too young. And what would happen if you got pregnant? Thought you think he'd probably claim up to the kid, chances are he wouldn't. Plus having a kid this young in your life would be TERRIBLE.
Wait, if you feel comfy making out, or giving head, or haveing him eat you out or something, then thats fine for your age. But sex, your too young, and you had a GREAT first opinion.
And if your Chris is really as wonderful as you think he'll find that all right
But if he tries to pressure you again, and your not ready then DUMP HIM!!!!
And just a hint, if when it comes to sex, you have even 1% of doubt, then the answer is that you are NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT ready!!