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The Big Move ):


Question Posted Monday September 27 2004, 10:10 am

My dad got a job in San Antonio, Texas. I'm EXTREMELY happy!!!!! But the thing is, in a way, I don't want to move. I live in Central Pennsylvania, so its definitely a big move. I know I can't stop my rents from moving. But, I'm just going to miss my whole life. I grew up here, I'm going to have to start all over. Is this normal?

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lildesidevil143 answered Thursday December 16 2004, 5:50 pm:
Yes, it's very normal. I had to move from Seattle, Washington to Dallas, Tx and i miss all my friends but when i think about it i;m sometimes happy we moved. And it is definetly normal...I cried for weeks...But since i have moved i have made great friends on the way and hopefully you will too!
hope this helps!

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rOcKiN4GoD2010 answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 4:55 pm:
course its normal...but texas is osm!! may not get snow..may be pretty hot..but bsides that...its so cool!! and san antonios osm u got tha river walk and tons of malls...hole bunches of fun..dont forget the concerts!! hope i helped!!(im me for stuff bout TEXAS!!!) rOcKeR4GoD

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VisionsofLife answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 1:18 am:
Yes, it is normal.I was born in VietNam, but I have to leave my country when I was 9 years old...It was hard to start ovre , but you get used to it...Make friends in school...Just be who you are!

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rachey answered Monday September 27 2004, 5:17 pm:
totally normal. i know exactly what you mean. i moved from Pa to Ny to LA to MI, and i stll have managed to keep my closest friends. yea you are gonna have to start over, but think of it like this: When you move to Texas and no one knows you there then you have a clean slate to start over where people wont judge you on what you did last year.

hope i helped <3333

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Uniq_The_Geek answered Monday September 27 2004, 4:19 pm:
it's totally normal. and i can realte. i have moved ten times. it sux but u get used to the new place ur gonna live.hope i helped...

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AskMegan answered Monday September 27 2004, 3:25 pm:
Of course it's normal. No one wants to pick up a good life, with friends and family around them, and then move to a strange new town, surronded by people they don't know. It's very normal.

But, you'll make new friends, as clice as that sounds, you will. And you'll love them just as much as you will your old ones.

You'll love it in San Antonio, love the nice warm weather! You'll make lots of friends, and probably go to a nice school, plus Texans have great accents!!

The Best Of Luck, Dear.

AskMegan

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S_C answered Monday September 27 2004, 3:13 pm:
It's normal, I have to Move from Syracuse NY, to NC, thats a 12 hour drive of a difference.

It really depends on how old you are. It could be worse if you're over the age of 10, because then you really have friends, and you will truly miss everything. But once you move, you meet new peolple. Whenever we go to NY to visit, I still get together with my old friends, and the people that lived on our street, but if I had the choice to go back, then I wouldn't.

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Roxybabii922 answered Monday September 27 2004, 1:07 pm:
Wow that sounds familiar, yeah it's really hard to move and not be used to things and its absolutely normal to miss everything... I've lived in Virginia almost all my life and I moved to Italy, and its definitely a big change, it will probably take you awhile to get used to it... just try to focus on things happening there, that way you arent depressed like and missing everyone because then you'll just be upset the whole time you're there

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jbdreamer answered Monday September 27 2004, 12:47 pm:
Of course you are going to miss your home, and your friends. It would be abnormal if you didn't. I wish you luck with this new chapter of your life.

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SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Monday September 27 2004, 12:25 pm:
yes its normal... dont worry everything will be ok... change is always good

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RedNeckShOrTy answered Monday September 27 2004, 12:12 pm:
Yes it's normal. I moved a few years ago..not very far away but far enough so i didnt see my friends as much as i did or hang out with as much. It's normal to feel like that. AS long as stay in touch with each other it might make the move easier.

~***Hannah~***

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sweetbabigurl answered Monday September 27 2004, 11:50 am:
its definitely normal to feel this way. the first couple weeks might feel a lil weird becus u wont kno aybody but after some time u will meet new people and everything should work out great. still keep in touch with all your old friends and let them know how everything is going...good luck! xoxox

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xxhotsexycutiexx answered Monday September 27 2004, 11:04 am:
yes very normal...its ok to have to make a big move sometimes...i know what u talkin bout b/c i have been there...i had lived all my life till i was 13 almost 14 in albania(europe) and then i had to move...and come here in u.s. (fl) and bla bla bla...so imagine this...i didnt kno any english at all...and anyone here...so i had to start all over again...and learn a new lenguage 2...so hey u aint so bad ;) at least u kno how to speak the lenguage...having 2 move sometimes it turns out for the better ;) so dont worry so much :)....just go on wit the flow...everything will b fine...and b4 u kno it...u'll b so happy and everything wit ur life..and everything round u that u wont even b abel to think bout central pennsylvania no more :-P...(only once in a while...when u'll b lookin the back old times) trust me u'll b fine...i kno from experience..and its perfectly normal ;) xoxo effy

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