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kissed ex aka best friend, boyfriend saw =/
ok lets make this as simple as possible.
i have a b/f..who i love with all my heart. i was at a afootball game with him tonight at the high school. he went to get food. my ex came over to me, who is now my best friend i gave him a hug and a kiss on the cheek. my boyfriend saw and is all upset. is that wrong of me? i don't see that as a problem! he is my BEST FRIEND! i hug every1 & it was just a kiss on the cheek..like i love him, hes my ex, yeah, but hes also a friend! does my b/f have a right to be so mad?! when he knows i only love and want him .. =/ thanx <3
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well you should be able to see where hes coming from, is he right? no. is he completely wrong? no. you should talk about it with your bf make him understand taht your ex is your best friend but maybe lay off on the kissing a bit too.
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Your boyfriend doesn't have a right!! As long as he knows that you r only interested in him!!
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I don't think he has a right to be mad, but guys are protective. That's just a trait that comes with guys. You need to talk to him, and tell him that you didn't know it was going to bother him this much. Tell him your sorry, and if you love him as much as you say. You won't do it again. Well..Have a wonderful day babe!
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Well, the hug was fine, I hug all my friends, including the guys. But the kiss might have gone a little far. If you saw your boyfriend kiss another girl, and you had NO EXPLANATION from him, you just assumed, what would you think? They were just friends, or he was cheating on you? Just tell your boyfriend that the kiss wasn't anything and that you just did it as a friend, and you won't do it again
~Laura~
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I kinda agree with xplisit15.
Hugs are no big deal, and actually not many girls see a guy and kiss him on the cheek
Hugs are okay, and if he had a problem, then he isn't bery secure, but the kiss, even though it was on the cheek, it still wasn't the best of ideas.
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Sounds like your boyfriend has some insecurities going on there...
Everyone gets jealous and/or insecure, some people over sillier things than others. Part of being in a relationship is understanding what the other persons limits are and well it sounds like you've discovered one of your boyfriend's.
As you said it was just a kiss on the cheek... and to you thats all it may have been, but you need to understand that it might have seemed more to your boyfriend, especially seeing as the other guy is your ex. Your boyfriend isnt necessarily right to be so mad... but maybe you need to explain to him that it didnt mean nething and point out that this guy isnt your boyfriend ne more and that your current bf doesnt have nething to worry about... try to compromise... maybe you need to adjust how you act a little...
Try to understand where hes coming from, and i'm sure he'll understand where your coming from... talk it out... communication is the key...GOODLUCK :)
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Well let me just say that i did the very same thing..and at first i was too stupid to understand whut was actually going on! Your boyfriend obviously cares for you wayy too much, that he does not want to lose you no matter what. When this happened to me, i ended up getting dumped..obviously he didnt care as much..but u are VERY lucky to have someone that is serious and sensitive becuz not many guys can be like that. If he takes the time to argue with you, maybe he cares just a little bit more than you think..so be careful on this one, and let him know that you were just being a little playful and that all u want is him..he'll understand.
HOPE I HELPED
NIKKI
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Wow, well the kiss shouldnt have happened. The hug wasnt wrong! Hugs arent a big deal and he shouldnt be upset over that. After all this guy is your friend even if u two used to date. Your man should chill, especially if he knows u love him. Make it clear that u do and i hope this all works out for u two in the end.
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