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Location: Australia
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Age: 17
Member Since: September 14, 2004
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ok lets make this as simple as possible.
i have a b/f..who i love with all my heart. i was at a afootball game with him tonight at the high school. he went to get food. my ex came over to me, who is now my best friend i gave him a hug and a kiss on the cheek. my boyfriend saw and is all upset. is that wrong of me? i don't see that as a problem! he is my BEST FRIEND! i hug every1 & it was just a kiss on the cheek..like i love him, hes my ex, yeah, but hes also a friend! does my b/f have a right to be so mad?! when he knows i only love and want him .. =/ thanx (link)
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Sounds like your boyfriend has some insecurities going on there...
Everyone gets jealous and/or insecure, some people over sillier things than others. Part of being in a relationship is understanding what the other persons limits are and well it sounds like you've discovered one of your boyfriend's.
As you said it was just a kiss on the cheek... and to you thats all it may have been, but you need to understand that it might have seemed more to your boyfriend, especially seeing as the other guy is your ex. Your boyfriend isnt necessarily right to be so mad... but maybe you need to explain to him that it didnt mean nething and point out that this guy isnt your boyfriend ne more and that your current bf doesnt have nething to worry about... try to compromise... maybe you need to adjust how you act a little...
Try to understand where hes coming from, and i'm sure he'll understand where your coming from... talk it out... communication is the key...GOODLUCK :)
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Well im 15 and i have a WONDERFUL boyfriend. we've been together for 3 years!! and u have to admit thats pretty long..anyways, he gets horny a lot, and he tries to get me to have sex with him sometimes, and im just NOT ready!!! He understands tho of course since hes a real understanding person, but last night, he tried to have sex again!! and of course, (as always) i stopped him. And this morning he came over, and gave me a letter, and then left..here's whut it said..
Dear Nicole,
This no - sex thing just isnt working for me. Im sorry, its just that i get sooo HORNY whenever i see you..i jack off, and i just cum and stuff. I dont have a very strong will, so i think u should rethink about the no-sex thing. you know that i love you either way tho..and i cude never break up with you..but ur a fantastic person, and i neeeeeeeed you..
Love,
Chris
should i just have sex with him and get it over with? or should i stick with my first answer? PLEZE HELLLLLLLPP ME!!!!!!!! (link)
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Hey Nicole,
stick with what YOU want... having sex with him will only cause more problems in the end if YOU dont want it. And without sounding too much like your mum, your only 15... you have a lot of time to worry about stuff like that...
If you not ready you have every right to say no...if he truly is as wonderful as you say he is, and he loves and respcts you as much he should then he WILL understand why you dont want to.
If he keeps up with the pressure, ditch him. Your not married honey, and you'll only be young once. DO WAT YOU WANT TO DO!!!
best of luck :)
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I have this problem. There is this girl I like, Lea, but she has a boyfriend...or rather had. I found out today that they broke up this morning, and i get the feeling it may be becos of me, due to her knowing i like her and i knowing she likes me to, but she's been with her boyfriend for 2 years. But the problem is, I don't think i like her ENOUGH to go out with her, but there is this other girl, Jo, who also has a boyfriend that i like more, quite abit more. What Should i do? I turned 17 this year, Lea is 17 (18 end of this year) and Jo is 16. (link)
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You should have been honest with Lea in the first place, although i dare say shes probably been sharp enough to work it out for herself...
perhaps her and her boyfriend broke up for their own reasons... 2 years is a long time by anyones standards and if shes only 17 then it is fair to say that she has probably changed alot in that time.
Maybe you should just be a friend to her, becuz at this time the last thing that she needs is another messed up male to confuse her... before you try and predict what she is thinking or doing, maybe u should work out your own feelings.
take one day at a time :P
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