I met this guy I really like at a football game this past Friday.. Well.. he called me Sunday and asked me out. Since he asked me out.. we talk on the phone for HOURS at a time. I mean like 3 and 4 hours for each call.
Im really starting to like him ALOT! Is it possible to fall in love with someone u barely know?
Well it's never happened to me but I think it's possible yeah. Besides, you've talked on the phone so much you must know each other fairly well anyway.
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Just out of curiosity, what does "hooking up" mean to you? It seems to mean something different for everybody...
To me it means getting together with someone, you know? dating someone, boyfriend/girlfriend kinda way?
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what are some good quotes website ?? i kno suthin like precious cration or hell angles but what is the site address please help me and any other webistes with good quotes too
thanxs so much
Nikcy
I'm not too sure about hell angles and precious cration but www.firehotquotes.com is really good cause it has quotes on **everything**.
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My mom doesn't think I should have a boyfriend but I'm 13!!! I think this unfair because a lot of my friends have boyfriends. I had to reject three people I might have said yes to, including the guy I like.I try talking to my mom about it but she just won't budge. I can't have a boyfriend until highschool!
I think you should just sit down with your Mom and explain to her that you're old enough and responsible enough to have a boyfriend and that you wont do anything bad with them. Tell her that a lot of your friends have them and they're perfectly fine with it and they don't do anything iresponsible. Ask if you can have a trial run with the next guy who you like who asks you out. Say that if you go okay and responsible with this one then she'll see that you can be trusted. If all else fails, turn on the tears and beg!
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*.:*Sorry If This Is Graphic!!*:.*
whenever i get a zit, i get everything out of it, but then the next day its bigger than it was when i popped it! help!
-JeNNi
DON'T BURST ZITS!!!! It makes them sooooooo much more worse. Just dab something like tea tree oil on them and then LEAVE THEM!!! Put concealer on if you really want but don't pick or burst them!!
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okay well i've always told myself that i'm going to wait until marriage before i have sex... but now that i'm older and in highschool i've faced reality. and i'm not gonna kid myself. if i'm ready to have sex, i'm going to. of course i'm gonna wait for the guy i love, but still. everyone always says "wait til marriage" but in reality WHO REALLY DOES? and even if i have sex with a guy and we break up and regret it, that doesnt mean i'm gonna be depressed for the rest of my life would it? so whats the big deal? who agrees.
Personally I think that no sex before marridge is a little stupid. After all, you DO only live once don't you? I have respect for people who do live by that though and I know if that's their choice then fine. Having said all that, I don't think that you should have sex with any guy/girl that turns up, you should wait til you find someone you love, I guess that if you wait til you get married then you know almost for sure that the person loves you.
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Me and my bf have been together for 7 months. Hes going to uni in at the beginning of october, so hes moving.
Hes one of these guys that can get any girl he wants but Im a lot more quieter. Im kinda worried about the whole trust thing.
I know he hasnt done anything in the last 7 months coz we've been together practically all the time.
Recently I found evidence that he contacted his x-gf last month. They got really close in the short time they were together. They only broke up coz she had to move. He was saying stuff like I miss your gorgeous face, call me when you are in the area etc. She practically said the same stuff.
I didnt say anything to him but I hinted it to him a little bit. He caught on but denied ever contacting her. I just left it.
Hes a really nice guy. He always puts me first and has done so much for me.
I really want to trust him but theres just something in me thats just waiting for something bad to happen.
I know long distance realtionships aren't meant to work, but hes going to come home sometimes and im going to go and see him.
Judging from what you have read, do I have something to worry about when he goes?
18/f
Look, if you trust him and you really want this relationship to work then you CAN and you WILL make it. If there is no trust, there is no relationship, that's what my friend Susie always says. If you don't think you can trust the guy then you have to end it, it's not fair on him if you can't trust him.
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How do you delete a question you have already asked? Thanks
you don't. If it gets a certain amount of sad faces it gets deleted anyway or if a level 2 mod deletes it.
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Sometimes my boobs get really sore and tender and they hurt alot..I know they get that way during ur period, but sometimes it randomly hurts..whats that mean?
They're probably just developing and growing and the pains are just growing pains. If you're really concerned or the pains get really bad then go and see your doctor for advice.
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hey well i'm really nervous about the first time i have sex. im nervous about becoming pregnant, like if the condom breaks. so i was wondering if its wrong/weird for the guy to wear 2 condoms (one on top of the other)... is that really pathetic? i know im supposed to use lube but i'm still scared so could i make him wear 2 just in case?
You don't need two condoms. The condom is mainly to protect you from STIs so you should always use a contraceptive pill as well. By the way, I don't know that cause I have sex, I'm way too young lol, it's just cause my Mum's a midwife and she told me.
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ok im confused. this might be long, any response is greatly appreciated.
i go out with this boy, lets call him jon.
we've only gone out for like 5 days. his frind has alreay gotten us into like 10 fights. his friends really jealous and he wants jon like basically all to himself and he doesn't like me so everytime i want to come over, he'll start shit. just anything so me and jon cant see each other and argue. i talked to jon about breakin up today and he flipped out on his frind and then told me how much he loved me and didnt want to lose me..but then i was at a soccer game today. i ended up spending the whole day with my ex b/f. we went out last year for 2 months. we broke up because summer came and we lived too far away, other then that the relationship was perfect. well my ex. lets call him chris, told me today that he still has feelings for me and wants to be back with me. i still have feelings for him too, me and him went trhough alot together! but i mean i'd feel so bad for jon, i do like him alot too! idk..im confused..=/
theyre both great guys, who treat me good, and who i care for and dont want to hurt.
=( hmm.. what should i do? what would you do if you were in my place?
thanks so much in advance,so sorry it was long.
OH MY GOSH! My boyfriend is called Jon, after we'd been going out for 5 days, we'd had lots of fights too, creepy......
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Hey guys....
I'm kind of really sad right now....Since my girl friend and I have been going out (8 months) she has promised me time after time that she doesn't pleasure/finger herself. In fact when I used to say Krysta I think you do she would get so mad and say shes not like that and she really doesn't.
Last night I was going through her email, and she had signed up for www.loveforum.net. The user name that was in that email was never activated so I didn't think about it again until I asked her why she signed up.
On first off she said she NEVER heard of the site and her brother probably did it, or maybe she did it awhile ago and forgot about it. I took that and accidently clicked on a link called 'Pleasure for girls' in the Sex Talk forum. The user name was PhillyChick847, which is what she goes by sometimes.
She was asking for advice on how to give herself pleasure, and hide it from me. She said she does it 3 times a week in the forum when she told me she NEVER has ever done it.
She denyed that she typed that and said there is more than one phillychick online, I took that! Then just for myself, I tried to login with my name as the password and it WORKED! After me telling her I would dump her on the spot if she didn't admitt it she admitted it.
She was so upset that she cut herself...I was really upset because I can't believe she would go behind my back and do this....its almost UNBELIEVEABLE. She told me she loved me sooo much and she was sorry...she said she just did it because it felt so good when I did it to her.
She still said she doesn't do it that often, but she can't explain why she typed that. Heres the link to the post: http://www.loveforum.net/showthread.php?t=3965
She made 3 posts and they ALL disturbed me ALOT.
I threw up like 4 times last night, I can't belive she would do this....I'm so upset...I mean maybe if she didn't lie to me it wouldn't be such a big deal. The thing that even disturbs me more is on the time stapms right after I walked her home from the bus stop she went in and did this...and shes really interested in finding more ways...I think the damage to my head is already done.
I still LOVE her so much but I don't know if I want to be with her....she can say shes not going to do it again but no one can stop once they do it, especially if she does it that much...I really do LOVE her but I don't know what to do...That really disturbed me ALOT! can everyone please help me?
Should I break up with her...please help guys...please....
Thanks in advance
Dave
okaaaaaay. Do you mind me being a little harsh here? WHY THE HELL DO YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH IT???!!!! I mean, I wouldn't admit to MY boyfriend that I masturbate, even if I do! No offence or anything. Seriously though, nearly everyone masturbates, why are you so upset that your girlfriend does it? Ok so she lied to you and that's probably hurting you more than anything but she only did it because she obviously loves you alot and wanted you to stay with you. If you love her then you'll have to accept that she pleasures herself. You love her, she loves you, I know it's really hard but you have to find it in your heart to accept it, even if you can't forgive her. If you have that much of a problem with her masturbating then maybe you should end things with her.
Also, maybe you're being a little hypocritical talking about her lying and all because you DID go through her email didn't you? Maybe she was there or something but if she wasn't then you're in the wrong too.
I really hope it all works out. xxx
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everyday we go to lunch and me and a few friends play truth or dare.. well like im never dared to do anything so im usually happy. i was dared the other day to kiss this boy jake.. and i did. because him and i have kissed before.. yeh sure its no harm done and we acted like it never happened. but my friends made a BIG deal over it for nothing.. what do i do to tell them to chill!?
I know how you feel! Me and 3 of my friends (one girl, two guys-1 being my boyfriend.) played truth or dare and I had to lick my friend's (the girl)tongue! Everyone keeps going on about it, man it's irritating! Just tell them it was just a dare and that it doesn't matter. If they carry on after that then ignore it, they'll soon calm down, if you need any more advice on this, just ask xxx
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my bf never really talkes to me that much..unless were sorta alone which never happens!! if we aren't alone..then he just kind smiles if i say something..or is just like ok.. i realllly like him!! what do i do..??
-talking concerns
It's the same with me and my boyfriend. If we go out on a date or something we talk and talk and talk but when we're at school or with other friends we hardly chat at all. The thing is, we're both scared we'll say something stupid to each other that our friends will laugh at or something. I get really indimidated with all my friends round us (specially as not many of them like him.) What you need to do, is try and see him away from friends as much as possible and make an effort to start conversations around them that everyone can get involved in (including your boyfriend) after a while it'll get easier and easier and eventually you'll both be able to talk as easy as if you were just friends. Let me know how it all goes ok?
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my best friend and her BF recently broke up..she finnaly got another bf..but i don't think she likes him neather does anyone eles..he really likes her ..i don't want him to get hurt..i can't tell her that i don't think she likes him..because she would get really mad and i don't want that..what do i do?
-does she like him?
I can't really say whether she likes him or not without evidence but I think this guy might be a way to ease the pain of her breaking up with her boyfriend. She just misses the whole relationship thing and she met a guy who seemed ok and decided he would do. What I can say is that if she has a boyfriend all you can do is trust that she likes him. After all, it IS her life and it's up to her to make mistakes. If things get really obvious and that it's clear that she doesn't like him then talk to her about it but don't be harsh or mean about it because if she really DOES like him she might get hurt. If she agrees that she doesn't like him as much as she should then tell her that the boyfriend will probably get hurt less in the long run she finishes it with him now.
Sorry if that was harsh but I hope I helped you in some small way, let me know how it goes. xxx
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heyy .. okay i have lotss of like problemss .. and i really need so0me one i kan have to look foward to and be happy about what i mean is a boyfriend .. and i havent had one for a whilee .. and i havent liked any one for a while .. whats wrong with me .. and how can i find new guys to find a boyfriend .. i really wunt a long relationship
I know how you feel! I was desperate for a boyfriend, I wanted someone to show off to my friends and to feel wanted you know? I was desparate. After a while I decided to stop looking and just enjoy life. Since then I've had 3 boyfriends, all because I stopped looking for one. Get out and have fun with friends, meet new people, enjoy everything. Once boys see you enjoying yourself they'll see that you're a fun person to be with and you might start something with them. By the way, don't think you have to have a boyfriend to make you happy, they're just accessories, not the be all and end all ok? Have fun xxx
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I get the worst cramps when I get my period. It's usually my first or second day when I get these horrible cramps. I take Motrin, drink tea and use a heating pad. Nothing I do seems to really work and my cramps get so terrible I just want to die. Is there something I can do or take that will make them go away?
If you take a painkiller and have a warm bath, the pains should get a lot better. Also, doing a bit of light exercise or stretching does actually help too (sounds weird but it's true.)If they carry on even after trying all the advice everyone gives you, you might want to go and see a doctor, he/she might be able to suggest or perscribe something to help with the pain. Hope that helped :) xxx
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ok this may sound weird but oh well...My boyfriend used to kiss me alllll the time and like show that he cares for me. But now, it seems like he dosn't even care even though he says he dose. It seems like he cares about his friends more then me. I don't know what is going on but i need help. What should I do/ say to him?
When a relationship first starts out, it's often all full on because it's new and different. If he says he cares for you, then you have to trust him, if there's no trust, there's no relationship. I care for my friends way more than my boyfriend, the thing is, they'll always be there, boyfriends/girlfriends come and go. If things are really getting that bad then make a big effort to spend time with him and kiss him and stuff. If he sees you're making an effort then the chances are he'll start making more of one himself. If that doesn't work then talk to him to check there's nothing wrong, keep me posted and if you need any more help on this then ask me, good luck xxx
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why was advicenators down for a while?
They had server issues...it's all ok now though :D xxx
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Recently, i found my dad constantly going to chatrooms and talking to random ppl like he likes them better than my mom. every day he would be doing this but once my mom got home, he would close out of them. i dont know what to do. my brother knows about it too, but i dont know if i should tell my mom. please help....:(
Before you do anything, make sure that this is a serious problem. Your Dad might just enjoy talking to new people, it doesn't mean he likes them more than your Mum. When you know for sure, tread carefully, talk to your Dad first, warning him that you'll tell your Mum if he doesn't. Please be careful, if dealt with wrongly, this situation could break up your family.
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