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i don't thinkshe likes her BF
my best friend and her BF recently broke up..she finnaly got another bf..but i don't think she likes him neather does anyone eles..he really likes her ..i don't want him to get hurt..i can't tell her that i don't think she likes him..because she would get really mad and i don't want that..what do i do?
-does she like him?
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well, its her relationship and i would not interfere with them because you could mess up a lot of things. who knows? maybe she does like him, maybe she dont? just let her do this by herself so you wont screw up anything and you wont be blamed for anything that happens! *Bethers*
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Tell him that she doesnt really like him BUt make sure U know for sure so she doesnt get mad or him K bye
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well you should talk to her and sort of bring up the subject but dont thro the queston at her just sort of ease in to the question see how it works good luck!
xoxo-much luv
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I can't really say whether she likes him or not without evidence but I think this guy might be a way to ease the pain of her breaking up with her boyfriend. She just misses the whole relationship thing and she met a guy who seemed ok and decided he would do. What I can say is that if she has a boyfriend all you can do is trust that she likes him. After all, it IS her life and it's up to her to make mistakes. If things get really obvious and that it's clear that she doesn't like him then talk to her about it but don't be harsh or mean about it because if she really DOES like him she might get hurt. If she agrees that she doesn't like him as much as she should then tell her that the boyfriend will probably get hurt less in the long run she finishes it with him now.
Sorry if that was harsh but I hope I helped you in some small way, let me know how it goes. xxx
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Instead of asking us whether she likes him or not, why don't you ask her?
Just explain to her that you're noticing some weirdness or awkwardness (or whatever it is that makes you think she doesn't like him), and you were curious about whether or not she actually liked him.
Chances are, he's a bit of a rebound guy for her. She recently broke up with her BF, she was lonely, and decided to go out with a guy she maybe didn't like as much as she thought she did. That's my take on the situation, anyway.
She's your best friend; she should be fairly open to explaining this to you, as long as it doesn't sound like an attack on her, or like you're accusing her of something. Don't tell her what you think is going on; ask her what's going on instead.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =)
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Try talking to her about it all. Just be like "So how are you and _____?" And then ask her just be like "So do you really like him? Do you think this one will last or what?" Just say stuff like that and try to find it out and see what she says. If she says she really likes him, then okay! Thats good to know. But if she says she doesn't really like him, then tell her she needs to break up with him soon because she wouldn't want to hurt him because he really likes her. Just say stuff like that. I hope this helps and if you need anything else, just leave a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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