Question Posted Friday September 17 2004, 12:16 pm
heyy .. okay i have lotss of like problemss .. and i really need so0me one i kan have to look foward to and be happy about what i mean is a boyfriend .. and i havent had one for a whilee .. and i havent liked any one for a while .. whats wrong with me .. and how can i find new guys to find a boyfriend .. i really wunt a long relationship
xOBaBiigrLOx answered Friday September 17 2004, 4:24 pm: ~Well look its not only u that doesnt like a boy and a boy likes u back dont wry thats not really a big problem many ppl as well have this problem but one day u will find that special one u will find the one that cares has a good personality and whatever else u like about him... ~
rainbowcherrie answered Friday September 17 2004, 1:34 pm: I know how you feel! I was desperate for a boyfriend, I wanted someone to show off to my friends and to feel wanted you know? I was desparate. After a while I decided to stop looking and just enjoy life. Since then I've had 3 boyfriends, all because I stopped looking for one. Get out and have fun with friends, meet new people, enjoy everything. Once boys see you enjoying yourself they'll see that you're a fun person to be with and you might start something with them. By the way, don't think you have to have a boyfriend to make you happy, they're just accessories, not the be all and end all ok? Have fun xxx [ rainbowcherrie's advice column | Ask rainbowcherrie A Question ]
MoonFisher answered Friday September 17 2004, 12:36 pm: You sound like you're young. There is no reason to be out hunting for a boyfriend. Just hang out with friends, both guys and girls, and let nature take its course. When the right guy comes along, he'll fall into your lap. No need to get stressed out over whether or not you have someone to liplock with all the time. Save that worry for when you're 30. [ MoonFisher's advice column | Ask MoonFisher A Question ]
TheGovernor answered Friday September 17 2004, 12:36 pm: From the context of your question it sounds like you are rather young. You need to ask yourself: will having a boyfriend REALLY solve your problems? I doubt it will. A long, committed relationship is not a game. It is a lot of hard work. Granted, if you find the right person, you will enjoy yourself, but doing that when you are young is very difficult. If you REALLY want a boyfriend so badly, then you should just talk to people. Get to know some guys. When you find one you like, spend more time with him. Although I am warning you that a romantic relationship increases your stress level in life. [ TheGovernor's advice column | Ask TheGovernor A Question ]
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