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Neeeeeed advice
ok this may sound weird but oh well...My boyfriend used to kiss me alllll the time and like show that he cares for me. But now, it seems like he dosn't even care even though he says he dose. It seems like he cares about his friends more then me. I don't know what is going on but i need help. What should I do/ say to him?
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often times when relationships first start out they act more affectionate and excited to be with that person because it's new, exciting, fresh, etc..If he says that he does care about you, he's probably telling you the truth because most of the time guys just don't say that sort of the thing if that's not what they are feeling. It's also very possible that in the beginning he felt the need to show you he cares and to show you that he is happy to be with you (thus the kissing). Maybe now he thinks he's proven that to you and don't feel the need to. It's also possible that he's less interested or he has something on his mind. You should try talking to him and tell him how you are feeling..don't corner him just tell him how you are feeling and that you care too and that's why you want to know what is going on. Say something along the lines of "I know you care about me, but somethings been bothering me...you use to kiss me all the time and now you dont. Is something bothering you, or have you lost interest or what? Please be honest with me...I can handle it" Or something like that..just don't fight! No drama! And no worries, always remember it's JUST A BOY!! :)
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When a relationship first starts out, it's often all full on because it's new and different. If he says he cares for you, then you have to trust him, if there's no trust, there's no relationship. I care for my friends way more than my boyfriend, the thing is, they'll always be there, boyfriends/girlfriends come and go. If things are really getting that bad then make a big effort to spend time with him and kiss him and stuff. If he sees you're making an effort then the chances are he'll start making more of one himself. If that doesn't work then talk to him to check there's nothing wrong, keep me posted and if you need any more help on this then ask me, good luck xxx
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its possible that he just has something on his mind...try talkn to him about it...ask him wats wrong and stuff like that.
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