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I am straight to the point, My advice is given based on my opinions of what YOU write. I may not always tell you what you want to hear but I am not here to sugar coat shit.
I am honest, I am blunt, At times an asshole but one thing I can promise, I'll never lie.
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Jane 13/f
For the past week this guy maybe 18 or 20 has been sending me disgusting messages on facebook and I don't know him. First he started sending me messages like how old are you and where do I live, but I never answered. Now he sends me messages like I want to F**k you or he would send me messages saying he wants to touch my body and other disgusting messages. Now I starting to get scared and he won't leave me alone. What should I do.
Block and Report it
Sweetie, Facebook is becoming more and more popular for sick people like that to target young kids and teenagers. This man is sick and you need to tell someone as soon as possible.
Likely, This man is a pedophile. Also what he is doing is harassing you. PLEASE let someone know so they can report him to the police! Do NOT respond to him just go and tell Mom or Dad and tell them that this man has been bothering you on facebook sending you creepy messages and have them look at it and they will take care of it. Don't worry, You did nothing wrong.
Is it time for us to break up?
My boyfriend and I have been dating a little over 2 years. I am 19, he is 20. We started dating in high school, and have known each other for about 4.5 years total. I love him. We have a lot of fun being together.
Recently, however, we have both been thinking more about getting married in the next couple years. I always wanted to get married young so it's been exciting to think about. Because we have been talking more about marriage, I feel like things have gotten more stressful. I used to feel really good about marrying him, but now I am not so sure.
1. We fight a bit. We tend to argue, and we are both pretty stubborn so it usually doesn't end too happily.
2. I feel like he isn't really putting in very much effort to...anything, really. His school work (we are sophomores in college) is average, he doesn't have a part time job, he sleeps through his alarm, and his parents still tell him what to do.
3. This sounds super mean, but I always feel like I am working harder. Like whether it's with our date-night plans, in school, in the relationship- I feel like I am the one who has to hold everything together. And I feel like I deserve someone who can be on my level with me, instead of someone I have to drag everywhere.
4. This is probably worst of all, but I recently met a new guy and he is really nice and cute and fun, and he acts like a grown up! He is a few years older. I do like him. I don't know how he feels about me, but I almost feel like that doesn't matter so much. It's more the idea that I am **willing** to look around. Seems like a problem!
I know this is really long, but I would appreciate some input. I have never dated anyone else before (and that is scary) but I want to do the right thing!!!
Sometimes it's nice to think about marrying young but talking about actually going through with it can be damaging. At 19, Why are you in such a hurry? You ever heard that saying "When you marry young, It ends young?"
The marriage talk is obviously putting stress on your boyfriend. If he is stressing so much then he is not ready 19-20 some people are just not ready. Also, Your boyfriend could have other things going on his life right now and from the sound of it he may even be a bit depressed. If you want to save your relationship then I would lay off the marriage talk, At 19 there shouldn't be any rush. However, If you feel that you aren't happy and you are really into this new guy then maybe you should move on but I wouldn't rush it with him either. Talking about marriage to soon can scare a guy off or even stress him out...
23 female
okay so before January, the last time I had sex was in August, so I hadn't had sex in 5 months. I went to have a one night stand... which ended up being really good so we have been having sex on multiple occassions ever since and everything was great!! then... I noticed that now, if he penetrates to deep or if we have sex at all I tend to bleed. The amount keeps getting worse the more we have sex. This happened with my ex too. The more sex we had, the less my body allowed me to do it. I would bleed, swell up or get bloated and its not very enjoyable for me when all thats going on. I do have an appointment with my gynecologist in a few weeks but I have talked to him about it already and he seems to think the reason is cuz I need to use a moisturizing lube but I'm normally pretty wet.
I do have a Mirena IUD. Could that be the cause of it? I dont think this used to happen before it, but Ive had it for 3 years so I dont really remember. I just dont want to live out the rest of my life this way... have sex for 2 to 3 weeks and then have to wait a couple of months before my body decides I can again.
Has this happened to anyone before? What did you do? How can I prevent it? Are there any pills or products or anything at all? Anything will help but please dont say to talk to the doctor. I'm already well aware of that... I just honestly feel that I might get a better response from some of you.
Okay this is a little complicated as I'm not a doctor.
I was on the Mirena for 2 years and my personal experience it was a life savor but only for so long. After awhile I began to experience abdominal pain so I got off of it and months later my periods were irregular. Now three years later I was recently diagnosed with PCOS and I've never had this issue before the IUD. However, Don't freak. Everything is different for everyone just because my experience was a bad one doesn't mean it will be for you.
Now you stated you bleed, You bloat and you become uncomfortable. Remember, The Mirena is placed in your Uterus and if you stick your finger up there you will be able to feel the string from the IUD. Do NOT pull it out! but what I'm saying is when you have sex sometimes when the penis penetrates deeply it hits the top of your vagina and this could be what is causing the pain. My advise is to lay off the sex, I'm not saying not have sex at all but give your body some time to recover a little bit. Also, I don't think it's a bad idea to start using lubricant. Although you may be well lubricated yourself it will help sex to be more enjoyable for you and your partner. Just lay off sex and see what the doctor says...
i had sex..but it was not properly intercourse...and now there is a delay in my dates...so what should i do now
Now you wait a week then take a test and pray it comes out negative.......
Hi instead of self harming myself I've been writing poetry :) would you mind reading some if my work and giving me feedback? I have a lot but here are my three favorite ones :)
This one is called " useless lies "
Today is the day
That I'll give up on trying
Today is the end
Of all the useless lying
Not wasting my tears
If they won't stop the bleeding
Today is the day that my heart will stop beating
My palms are sweaty my vision is blurred
I let out a scream that no one even heard
I blink back the tears I choke back a cry
Today is the end if all the useless lies
"Call me crazy"
some people call me crazy
Some think I'm just sic
I think I'm just lazy
I need something short and quick
Something simple to take away my pain
Something easy to help me live through the day
As my world gets destroyed I'm destroying
myself
Fill the ache in my heart
That can't be filled by anything else
I'm done with crying
My blood is my tears
It's time to let go
Time to face my fears
Some think I'm crazy
Some think I'm sick
I think I'm just lazy
I need something short and quick
" forgotten "
Left alone
Forgotten
Nobody else cares
Left alone forgotten
No one else is there
I can't escape to scared to try
I still feel alone inside
My world crashing
All around me
Raining sorrow
Someone see me
See me for who I am inside
No one cares
No one even tries
Done believing
All your lies
These poems are good, Reading them describes someone who is angry.
Writing is the best medicine for depression, I have suffered from it for years and I cannot begin to tell you how much journalism has helped me throughout the years. When you begin to look up and have more positive moments you could try to see if you could write the yearbook at your school or join a creative writing club. When I was younger, I used to write articles and put them in the local town paper for people to read. Surprisingly, People actually read it! Maybe not my friends.....but a lot of family members and teachers would come up to me asking if the article was mine. It's pretty awesome but I would keep a separate journal just for you to express your feelings and maybe another to write about things in life that are positive but not bad so far!
My little sister read this thing. It said this:
"Justin Beiber is 17. Reblog this because in 10 days you won't be able to."
Is it going to be his birthday or something? Or is it a death threat? She is really scared HELP
There are numerous scams out there for celebrities. MANY MANY people out there claim to be them. If you ever notice facebook has their fan pages and facebook also has several pages of random people claiming to be that person.
So basically, It's just a little lie and someone looking to piss off his fans. Tell your sister not to worry that it's not really Justin Bieber it's just a poser and to get on with it.
So, I have this boyfriend, we have been dating for 2 years and have not kissed... we rarely hold hands. We went out for dinner on valentines day and his dad was find with that but we were supposed to go to the movies with his sister and stuff yesterday but his dad would not let him. The reason we have not kissed is his dad, he just will not let us. The thing is recently he has been very up close and personal if you know what I mean, I will be standing somewhere and he will come up behind me and tickle my waist while pulling me in for a short hug, or he has been putting stickers on my legs during class, he starts at my knee then slowly tries to get farther and farther up my leg. today one of my friends noticed and said something then he stooped for a bit then started again when they were not looking. I am scared that his dad will find out and blame it on me, cause in the past when his dad caught us getting in a tickle fight I was the one who got yelled at. His dad wants to believe that his son is perfect and that his son will never do anything he does not approve of, when in reality his son tries to get around his rules as much as he possibly can. I did not mind it at first, actually I enjoyed it, but now he is starting to get sloppy so people are starting to notice. What should I do, I want him to keep doing it in some ways but at the same time I do not want his dad or anyone else finding out... I am so confused!
It's difficult to answer when I don't know the exact age of you and your boyfriend.
Sounds like Dad is hardcore and wants to keep his son in line. I'm not going to lecture you but I want you to try and understand my point of view; Many teenagers are falling under the influence more and more nowadays. Dad knows that and so he is being a hard ass to make sure that his son doesn't go and fuck up like many do these days. I'm going to assume you both are young judging from the fact you are still in school. If you don't want things to be obvious where people start to say something then you need to be the one to talk to your boyfriend about his behavior. Putting stickers on your legs in school in my eyes is a bit inappropriate and of course it's going to draw attention. If you don't want to hear the lecture from Dad or you don't want to give the guy the wrong impression about you then if you and your boyfriend ever decide to be intimate then I advise you to use condoms at all times. If your boyfriend tries to convince you not to use one, Then it's up too you whether you be stern with him and tell him no glove, no love. Things happen all the time and all it takes is one shot and with a Dad like his I would be doing everything to stay on his good side...
So here's the deal, I started going out with my girlfriend of 1 1/2 years my freshman year of college, before I had really experienced much of the classic college life. I care about my girlfriend and I want her to be happy but she pretty much dominates my entire social life. Pretty much whenever I'm not in class or studying I'm with her. We get into really stressful fights fairly frequently and sometimes I feel like I may die at the early age of 45 because of this stress. Another thing is that I had a lot of plans for myself post-college. Like, I was going to go teach English abroad in Japan for a year or two before I settled down to getting a real job. It looks like I wont be able to do any of that stuff because I've got my girlfriend holding me back.
Basically what I'm asking here is, would I be wrong for breaking up with her, even though I know it will completely devastate her? I'm only 19 and she already is expecting me to commit to her for life. Am I an asshole for wanting to move on?
Dude
You need to do what is best for YOU not what is best for her. The number one thing in life when you are in a relationship you gotta put yourself first. If the girl is controlling you to the point where you are stalling on your goals in life then you need move on. College life is stressful as hell and when you are trying to juggle time between school and relationships it's just going to beat you to the core. You are not an asshole, You are a guy that needs to do what he needs to do in life. Never let someone hold you back from achieving your goals. You are young, You have many opportunities ahead of you and as much as it may bother to hear this girl isn't the only girl in the sea. You've got some pretty awesome goals set for yourself and I recommend you go and achieve them now while you are young and still can. Being stressed and held back can only cause you nothing but regrets man. If it's meant to work out it will but in the meantime do what you need to do because if you stall for a chick then somewhere down the line your be sitting on it.
16/f
So recently I had my first panic attack during a blood test-anyone who's had one will know how scary they are.
I was wondering, because I have to have other blood tests soon if anyone has any good tips on overcoming panic attacks.
Any advice welcome-prefferably someone who has had a diagnosed panic attack before :)
Panic Attacks are often related to anxiety, I'm not sure if you are on any medication but they certainly do help.
There are a few things you could do to help cope
1, Therapy, Journalism, Meditation
Also exercise is the best medicine. It is a proven fact that exercise is known to help Depression and Anxiety. So, I would recommend that you try getting a 20 minute walk in everyday.
I've found that using breathing methods help, When I feel a panic attack coming on I try to think of other things that will get my mind off of what is triggering me. What happens to me when I get panic attacks is I sweat, shake, my heart races, I sometimes get a sick pitch in my stomach.
Like I said, Panic attacks are often related to anxiety ;) See the doctor and if you have try going to therapy. It has helped me tons!
So for a few weeks now I've been talking to this guy over Facebook and we seemed to get along quite well. Just last weekend we met each other for the first time (he lives an hour away) and we cuddled A LOT. At first he just had his arm around me and i laid my head against him, then he grabbed my wrist and put my arm around his stomach, later on, we were holding hands and at first i didnt realize it but the back of my hand was over his crotch, which is weird to me, i've never cuddled/ kissed/ dated anyone. The next day we were im'ing each other, he told me he had wanted to kiss me. Later in the conversation i told him i had been wet and then he told me he had gotten an erection ( i did notice his hand covering his crotch a few times). I can't stop thinking about him (which is normal for me when i have a crush) but i also fantasize about having sex with him. And i don't know what to do. i really like him for his personality too, so my attraction to him isnt just sexual. He's done it before, i haven't, though he isn't the stereotypical guy who just wants sex, he is very intelligent. Im 15, he's 17. What do I do? I don't wanna hear about us being too young either, i already know that, but teens do it anyway.
EDIT: Old man? LMAO I am a female! So you would like to put yourself in a situation where you'd get pregnant and then go and kill it? WOW! That's real mature..... It's people like YOU that make me sick and I have NO respect for. Grow the hell up and learn some serious common sense then come talk to me. You are pitiful beyond my words
You are rushing it, YOU JUST MET HIM.
You rush things fast, You end things fast. Stop thinking about screwing the guy and just get to know him first. Sure it isn't exactly what you want to hear but yes you both are very young. Also, Young love doesn't always work out in the long run. I know it's not what you want to hear but that's the truth.
There is a huge difference between talking to someone online and actually talking and getting to know them in person. That difference is anyone can say anything over the internet, I'm not saying he is a liar and I'm not saying you are either but my point is you don't know this guy one on one. I really think you should hold off for awhile, Get to know him really well. Once you two have even begun dating then somewhere down the line worry about that stuff. Doing exactly what you've said.......is exactly how you end up with regrets! Sure teens do it anyway but are you serious? If that is how you look at it then maybe not only are you not ready but a bit too immature to be having sex at your age? Girls are having sex but you know what else?.....Girls are raising babies! and no it's not sexy, It's not cool and it doesn't give you a good rep to be 13,14,15 and pregnant. You become the hot topic and that topic is the start of a bad rep. Don't give yourself a bad name
Would there be anything harder or bad, if I would get engaged at 18 but wait to actually get married till towards the end of college?
He is my age and love him to death and he is my world. We give each other space and can do our own thing but also spend a lot of amazing time together. We are going to the same college and he doesn't want me to feel tied down but he wants me to know he's my world and there for me no matter what. We are both simple chill people but I have just done all the stupid things under the sun like smoking drinking drugs and he has never even touched a thing. He doesn’t hate me for it or even get mad when I do anything, he just helps me see the bad and even got me to stop smoking. He spent all he had on a ring. My heart skipped a beat when he proposed and I was speechless, it was amazing and I told him I definitely would but I don't know when. He understands me completely and we've been together for almost 2 years people even say we are the perfect couple. He also has brain cancer and a bad heart, I love him enough that if i could take his cancer I probably even would. Many of our friends are having kids already without a thought of marriage, is it weird for us to want to get married yet wait even longer for kids? What is the safer thing to do for a perfect family when we are 25-30?
Just some other opinions though, would it be better to wait and get engaged when we are ready to marry or would getting engaged now be alright because I know I will marry him eventually. Any brutally honest advice or thoughts about this are greatly appreciated.
I would of told you that you are setting yourself up to fail because generally when you start young, You end it young. However, You stated the guy has brain cancer and a bad heart and therefore I am going to say go through with it and live your lives to the fullest.
If your boyfriend wasn't sick, I would of told you that you were probably making a really stupid ass choice. Sometimes it doesn't matter how old you are, It's a matter of whether you are ready financially and mentally able to handle it. Considering the circumstances I'm going to say go for it! Enjoy life with him and congrats to the both of you.
My husband has started changing ever since he found out of my difficulty in having children. He tells me how he detested me company, how it would be good for me to pay him just to be with him. Everyday is a hurtful humiliation from him to me. I like to save money when ever I can and he wants it all. When I refuse to give what he wants he starts belittling me by telling me to compare myself to his good looks. And how he deserves better. I love my husband and would like us to work, I'm tired of these hurtful comments and not bring able to have my husband as a dependable partner. I prefer trying to make it work before divorce. Please advice.
Calm down...
Sometimes men don't understand the difficulty that women can have with trying to conceive. You are not alone, You are not a bad person and sweetie you do NOT OWE HIM ANYTHING!!! Let me explain something to you, I also cannot have children. I was diagnosed with poly cystic ovary syndrome and it hurts like hell. If my partner ever thought to belittle me I don't think I would even have the strength to be as strong as you to make it work. Hun, I completely understand your pain but you don't deserve someone who is going to put you down and make you feel terrible about it. You need support and your husband may be taking his anger out on you because he doesn't understand . Men sometimes think we can just open our legs and pop out babies but for many many women it's easier said then done. When I found I couldn't have children I cried and cried for months. The thing that really helped is therapy and I recon that you try and seek mental support. Now apart of me is alarmed by what you've said not only is your husband belittling you he is abusing you mentally and emotionally. I think your husband is completely 100% wrong I think YOU are the one who deserves better and I most certainly believe you can. Honestly, I can understand that you love you husband but for the sake of sanity I really don't think you should try and save your marriage with someone who is abusing you. Sometimes marriages are savable to a certain extent and other times damage has done it's part. If you feel you really want to give the marriage a shot, Then you could try marriage counseling but I fail to see how that will help you. Someone who can't seem to come to terms with reality is someone that won't ever be able to work beyond it either. Sounds to me that your husband has just taken matters too far and divorce is painful, It's stressful but in all honesty I think later on in life you will find it's the best thing you could of ever done for yourself. Remember you aren't alone...
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i dont want to break up with him i love him so much but he has been flirting with another girl well actually like 2 girls and he wouldnt let me read through his texts so its like he is hiding something from me i cant take it anymore what should i say?
If a he can't be honest, Then the relationship isn't going to work out. Relationships work out based on communication and trust, It's a partnership that takes work and commitment and most of all maturity.
So basically you step up and you tell him
"You haven't been honest with me, I've been trying to be fair too you but if you are going to be sneaking around behind my back then I have no choice but to leave you and move forward"
Be stern, Be direct and be blunt. Sometimes in order to prove a point you need to get the point across. We can care about someone but CHEATING AND BEING SNEAKY is not love sweetie. Dump him and move on and find someone much better then that. A real man that cares about you will be devoted to you and only you.
i have screwed my bf over 2 times in the past year and we got back together, but i want to breakup should i?
Lack of details
How did you screw him over? When and Why?
Honestly, Considering the fact that your boyfriend has taken you back twice already shows me that he already has some insecurity issues. A man who is able to move on independently wouldn't be crawling back to someone who continuously broke their trust.
Assuming you cheated, You and your boyfriend need to learn to trust one another. If you cheated on him twice then I am honestly going to tell you that there is nothing you can do that is going to make him trust you the same again. Sorry doesn't cut it, When someone cheats it completely kills the other persons pride, insecurity and confidence. Likely, He took you back because he doesn't want to be alone. You need to shape up and stop playing people or you aren't never going to have anyone in your life. Now to answer your question....If you did cheat then Yes, I'm going to save do HIM the favor and break up with him and leave it at that. You've already caused the guy enough damaged
Lately, whenever I talk to this guy at school, who I'll loosely consider a friend right now, or a strong acquaintance, I get so aroused it's ridiculous. Cause the more I get to know him, the more I see that we have a good amount of things in common, and etc. Which is pretty rare for me, as I don't have much in common with 99% of my town. He has other admirable qualities as well. It's pretty embarrassing to get these feelings during class, as we sit right next to each other. I can't really ignore him. Sometimes I even fantasize about him. Would he be able to sense that I'm feeling so strongly this way? I'm not even sure how he feels about me. All I know is that he at least relatively likes me, or he wouldn't be talking to me everyday, would he? Or smile, and crack jokes with me often. I think I flirt a lot subconsciously, gosh. I just hope I'm not making a fool out of myself, to him. While in my head, I don't want to just hook up, my body definitely tells me I want to. I just don't think I'm ready for a relationship right now, though. I've just never felt this horny over a person before. I even tried to "work it out" multiple times, but the feeling just comes back, just as strong as it once was. btw I'm 18, if that affects anything. this is embarrassing to even type, actually. damn you teenage hormones. I wonder how I'm going to get through the rest of the school year, now
It's typical hormones, It's not uncommon to be attracted to someone or to fantasize about someone we like. However, I would try and watch how much you allow yourself to get a little out of hand. It only becomes out of hand if you let it becomes obvious to others. If the guy likes you, You should realize that it's not always best to let our hormones get the best of us. Whatever happened if you two hooked up and it went too far?...It could very well end up being a regretful thing because you went too far too soon.
Basically, Self control is what it is. It's okay to fantasize but save that sort of thing for when you are alone. If you have a crush on a guy, That's fine but again you need to keep telling yourself to chill out a little. Although the idea of the guy seems perfect too you, Do you know this guy really well? I'm not referring to having things in common I am referring to his personality in general. Example; Someone could end up being really attractive liking the same things I like but their personality is either an super bitch or an super ass! (lol) Anyway, Take it a step at time. You don't want to rush things, I know sometimes we think in the heat of the moment at times but try not to let something like that happen. If you two like one another then and say you ever did end up dating then take it slow. Hang out and get to know one another as a couple, Do things together. Movies, Walk, Picnic, Dining out...and after awhile when you both feel comfortable with one another then take it a step up. If you have any pictures of him then you could use them to fantasies but like I said save that for when you are home and alone on your own time. It's only being a fool to allow it to go to far......Gain self control
17/f I like my best friend, and i have for awhile. My girl best friend just told me last night, that she was questioning his best friend about me and him, since she knows he tells his best guy friend things, and he told his best friend that he didnt want to date me because my life was too fucked up. Like my family and stuff.. I cried for a really long time because you would think that's when a person would want to be there for you more, i dont see how thats any reason not to be with someone, and i dont know what to think..expecially since hes like my best friend.
You don't know what to think? Why are you letting other people speak for your friend? So your friends says one thing...How do you know it's not another? If you both are best friends then you should be comfortable enough to be open with your feelings towards one another. Honestly, I wouldn't automatically assume that it's a lost cause over what your friend said. Go and find out for yourself
I love my boyfriend alot but sometimes he wants to move too fast in our relationship if you know what i mean... I dont want to hurt his feelings but i always tell him no when i feel too uncomfortable and then he gets either really upset or mad. I don't know what to do, please help me.
-Takeitslowbabe
Speak up, Tell him that you are not ready and if he loves you then he needs to respect that.
Pushing, pressuring and manipulating someone into doing something they are not comfortable with it wrong. It's not love to talk someone into doing something against their will, Be upfront and honest about your true feelings. If he bolts then obviously he never really cared for you to begin with. A man who really cares for you will stick around and wait for you. Doing something you are not ready for will only end up making you feel guilty and regretful in the long run. Be smart and be stern
im 13/f, im 85 pounds, and i can call myself pretty(: its okay to think your pretty and fit right? Never have i ever hugged a cute boy, dated, had my first kiss, made out, lost my virginity, humped, nothing! is that bad? im 14 in 5 months. i feel like everyone has! especially dated, hugged, or had their first kiss! i havent, is that bad? plus my parents are super awkward, and i would never talk about boys in front of them. if i dated though, it would be a secret. should i be worried?
You are only 13, No there is nothing wrong with you, No there is nothing to be embarrassed or ashamed about.
Also to put it out there, Looks have absolutely nothing to do with dating. It doesn't matter if you are yellow, purple or if you look like Kermit the frog when it comes down to being with someone it's about who makes you happy and who accepts you for who you are as a person. It WILL happen but you can't be desperate about it because desperation isn't how you find the real thing. I didn't find my first until I was 17, Does that mean it was a bad thing? Nope not at all. It saved me heartaches, It saved me regrets and it saved me drama! but you know what else? It eventually happened and it did when I no intentions of finding anyone. I know this isn't what you want to hear but in a way be thankful you don't have it yet because sweetie nowadays it's all about peer pressure and manipulation. Not about just having fun, Being yourself and getting to know each other. Sex is NOT everything in a relationship! and having children at such a young age is nothing at all to be proud of. I'm not saying this would happen but the possibilities are so high nowadays with the younger generation. When people think they are in love they end up being under the influence. No, You shouldn't be worried. You are normal! You still have all your teen years ahead of you and when the time is right I promise you will find someone but please please don't rush things. There is no need for it
hi guys, why does a boyfriend wants you to cum at the same time as he is during sex? we've been dating for a 3 and a half years now and lived together for a couple of months. everything is going great. he's 48 and i'm 34. during sex he ejaculates quick and me, it takes a few minutes. but he just really wants and asks me to cum at the same time whenever we have sex. so why is it? thank you all.
He is a guy
Guys have fantasies, They have needs, They have desires and wants. Likely the idea of you finishing the same time is a turn on for him.
Hey I'm 19 and a single parent I have no friends at all I spend my days with just my child parks play centres etc..I don't really know how to make friends jus needing advice of just some kind words would be nice :) I am a brilliant mum my child comes first before everything but once my childs asleep I'm alone noone to text ring or talk to hope sum1cud help :)
If you have a child then sometimes a good way to meet people is to be involved in activities with your kid. Participate in things that other Mom's would do with their children.
Try these
Parks, Zoo's, Children Museums, Play centers
You could even see if they have support groups for single Mom's in your area. When your child participates in things he/she will eventually make friends.....and those friends have Mom's! ;)