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This Guy Is sending me disgusting messages on Facebook.


Question Posted Thursday February 23 2012, 7:27 pm

Jane 13/f
For the past week this guy maybe 18 or 20 has been sending me disgusting messages on facebook and I don't know him. First he started sending me messages like how old are you and where do I live, but I never answered. Now he sends me messages like I want to F**k you or he would send me messages saying he wants to touch my body and other disgusting messages. Now I starting to get scared and he won't leave me alone. What should I do.


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Jasmine23 answered Saturday February 25 2012, 1:33 am:
I had this happen when i was in elentary school. I know exactly how you feel. This person also threatened to hurt my parents if i told em. to this day im still worried who ever it is will pop up.. You have to tell your parents. You have to report him especially if he lives in your city. Print out those messages as proof. This is cyber harrasement. then you have to perminently block him on facebook.

Don't be scared jane, you are not going through this alone. i'm here for you!

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Razhie answered Friday February 24 2012, 4:33 pm:
You should really talk to your parents. That would be the best thing to do, so he can be reported to the police.

You can, and should, also block him and report him to Facebook.

Find out how to report a message on Facebook here:
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Find out how to block someone on Facebook here:
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You should also change your privacy settings. At 13, you should not be allowing strangers to find you and contact you on Facebook (frankly, I don't think ANYONE should let total strangers find them on Facebook, but minors definitely shouldn't be...)

Find our more about privacy settings here:
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Or click on the top right hand little arrow beside the Home button when you are logged into Facebook, and change your "How you connect" settings to allow only friends to message you and friends of friends to find you on Facebook.

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Jodi_Pops answered Friday February 24 2012, 4:26 pm:
Honey DO NOT reply to this guy! He is possibly trying to groom you, this is very wrong you are only 13! You need to tell your parents immediately and report him on facebook, as well as to the police. The other answer is exactly right, you have done nothing wrong and he is harrassing you. Report him before he does it to someone else! Hope this helps :)

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Xui answered Friday February 24 2012, 12:32 pm:
Block and Report it


Sweetie, Facebook is becoming more and more popular for sick people like that to target young kids and teenagers. This man is sick and you need to tell someone as soon as possible.


Likely, This man is a pedophile. Also what he is doing is harassing you. PLEASE let someone know so they can report him to the police! Do NOT respond to him just go and tell Mom or Dad and tell them that this man has been bothering you on facebook sending you creepy messages and have them look at it and they will take care of it. Don't worry, You did nothing wrong.

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LostAngel answered Friday February 24 2012, 12:17 pm:
You need to block and report him as soon as possible.

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