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Hey I'm 19 and a single parent I have no friends at all I spend my days with just my child parks play centres etc..I don't really know how to make friends jus needing advice of just some kind words would be nice :) I am a brilliant mum my child comes first before everything but once my childs asleep I'm alone noone to text ring or talk to hope sum1cud help :)
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Relationships need a solid foundation to build on. Relationships are like anything else we do be it buying a car or a house or even clothing. You need to find away to get past the outer attraction to find the inner beauty. In the case of relationship building part of the inner beauty is our intellect and inner make up.
If you are to find someone who you can build a relationship with you must first find someone with whom you share a common interest. The common interest is the ice breaker by which you get to know each other and communicate with each other. Communication is the key to laying down the beginning of a foundation to build upon.
Sit sown with a pencil and paper, yes make a written list, composed of those things of interest to you. They could include things such as cooking, hiking, Church, photography, reading, history, so on and so forth. Once you have made your list number them in order of greatest. Start with your top 5 items interest to you.
Get out your local newspaper, not the daily, the weekly one if your town has one. Look in the section of clubs and weekly events. See which of your top 5 interests has a club or event happening in your area get a babby sitter and go to the event(s) or club(s). If it is a club continue to go to the meetings. If you like the club join and participate.
By joining different clubs and going to different events of interest to you; you are building circles of influence by which to meet people. Through these circles of influence you will make friends who will have friends they may want you to meet.
Common interest and communication are the building blocks of friendships. Friendships are the foundations of relationships.
I hope I have helped.
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how about parent groups in your area?or you could meet ppl in chat in your area on the internet and get to know them and take it from there..single mum support groups.?maybe be comfortabler meeting on net first.
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If you have a child then sometimes a good way to meet people is to be involved in activities with your kid. Participate in things that other Mom's would do with their children.
Try these
Parks, Zoo's, Children Museums, Play centers
You could even see if they have support groups for single Mom's in your area. When your child participates in things he/she will eventually make friends.....and those friends have Mom's! ;)
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