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Is strong sexual tension usually mutual?
Lately, whenever I talk to this guy at school, who I'll loosely consider a friend right now, or a strong acquaintance, I get so aroused it's ridiculous. Cause the more I get to know him, the more I see that we have a good amount of things in common, and etc. Which is pretty rare for me, as I don't have much in common with 99% of my town. He has other admirable qualities as well. It's pretty embarrassing to get these feelings during class, as we sit right next to each other. I can't really ignore him. Sometimes I even fantasize about him. Would he be able to sense that I'm feeling so strongly this way? I'm not even sure how he feels about me. All I know is that he at least relatively likes me, or he wouldn't be talking to me everyday, would he? Or smile, and crack jokes with me often. I think I flirt a lot subconsciously, gosh. I just hope I'm not making a fool out of myself, to him. While in my head, I don't want to just hook up, my body definitely tells me I want to. I just don't think I'm ready for a relationship right now, though. I've just never felt this horny over a person before. I even tried to "work it out" multiple times, but the feeling just comes back, just as strong as it once was. btw I'm 18, if that affects anything. this is embarrassing to even type, actually. damn you teenage hormones. I wonder how I'm going to get through the rest of the school year, now
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It's typical hormones, It's not uncommon to be attracted to someone or to fantasize about someone we like. However, I would try and watch how much you allow yourself to get a little out of hand. It only becomes out of hand if you let it becomes obvious to others. If the guy likes you, You should realize that it's not always best to let our hormones get the best of us. Whatever happened if you two hooked up and it went too far?...It could very well end up being a regretful thing because you went too far too soon.
Basically, Self control is what it is. It's okay to fantasize but save that sort of thing for when you are alone. If you have a crush on a guy, That's fine but again you need to keep telling yourself to chill out a little. Although the idea of the guy seems perfect too you, Do you know this guy really well? I'm not referring to having things in common I am referring to his personality in general. Example; Someone could end up being really attractive liking the same things I like but their personality is either an super bitch or an super ass! (lol) Anyway, Take it a step at time. You don't want to rush things, I know sometimes we think in the heat of the moment at times but try not to let something like that happen. If you two like one another then and say you ever did end up dating then take it slow. Hang out and get to know one another as a couple, Do things together. Movies, Walk, Picnic, Dining out...and after awhile when you both feel comfortable with one another then take it a step up. If you have any pictures of him then you could use them to fantasies but like I said save that for when you are home and alone on your own time. It's only being a fool to allow it to go to far......Gain self control
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