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how to get him to stop being forward while trying to get him to kiss me
So, I have this boyfriend, we have been dating for 2 years and have not kissed... we rarely hold hands. We went out for dinner on valentines day and his dad was find with that but we were supposed to go to the movies with his sister and stuff yesterday but his dad would not let him. The reason we have not kissed is his dad, he just will not let us. The thing is recently he has been very up close and personal if you know what I mean, I will be standing somewhere and he will come up behind me and tickle my waist while pulling me in for a short hug, or he has been putting stickers on my legs during class, he starts at my knee then slowly tries to get farther and farther up my leg. today one of my friends noticed and said something then he stooped for a bit then started again when they were not looking. I am scared that his dad will find out and blame it on me, cause in the past when his dad caught us getting in a tickle fight I was the one who got yelled at. His dad wants to believe that his son is perfect and that his son will never do anything he does not approve of, when in reality his son tries to get around his rules as much as he possibly can. I did not mind it at first, actually I enjoyed it, but now he is starting to get sloppy so people are starting to notice. What should I do, I want him to keep doing it in some ways but at the same time I do not want his dad or anyone else finding out... I am so confused!
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It's difficult to answer when I don't know the exact age of you and your boyfriend.
Sounds like Dad is hardcore and wants to keep his son in line. I'm not going to lecture you but I want you to try and understand my point of view; Many teenagers are falling under the influence more and more nowadays. Dad knows that and so he is being a hard ass to make sure that his son doesn't go and fuck up like many do these days. I'm going to assume you both are young judging from the fact you are still in school. If you don't want things to be obvious where people start to say something then you need to be the one to talk to your boyfriend about his behavior. Putting stickers on your legs in school in my eyes is a bit inappropriate and of course it's going to draw attention. If you don't want to hear the lecture from Dad or you don't want to give the guy the wrong impression about you then if you and your boyfriend ever decide to be intimate then I advise you to use condoms at all times. If your boyfriend tries to convince you not to use one, Then it's up too you whether you be stern with him and tell him no glove, no love. Things happen all the time and all it takes is one shot and with a Dad like his I would be doing everything to stay on his good side...
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