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I screwed him over twice and he took me back. Now I want to dump him, should i?

Question Posted Wednesday February 22 2012, 4:35 pm

i have screwed my bf over 2 times in the past year and we got back together, but i want to breakup should i?

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masterclinic answered Thursday February 23 2012, 2:11 pm:
I have to disagree with pook. I don't think it's that your unhappy or trying to sabotage the relationship, I think it's that your not mature enough to handle a relationship. You can tell yourself that your not happy, have some issues, or whatever but none of its really true. Your young and you have no idea what it is that you want or what your doing.
See what's suppose to happen is you get to know the person, if you want a relationship with them you do that, if it doesn't work it doesnt and your done. He likes you and wants to be with you but doesn't quiet understand that no matter how much he does things won't work because of how immature and inexperienced you are.
I think if you care about him even a little bit you should tell him that yourself and stop fucking with him like a child that doesn't know the difference between right and wrong

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Pook answered Thursday February 23 2012, 7:25 am:
If you want to break up with him, then yes you should! You are obviously not happy with the relationship as you are screwing him over. It sounds like you're trying to sabotage things on purpose so that he breaks up with you? You need to break up with him, as it doesn't look like he will do it, despite what you keep doing to him. It's never going to work out if you don't want to be with him.

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Xui answered Thursday February 23 2012, 1:29 am:
Lack of details

How did you screw him over? When and Why?

Honestly, Considering the fact that your boyfriend has taken you back twice already shows me that he already has some insecurity issues. A man who is able to move on independently wouldn't be crawling back to someone who continuously broke their trust.

Assuming you cheated, You and your boyfriend need to learn to trust one another. If you cheated on him twice then I am honestly going to tell you that there is nothing you can do that is going to make him trust you the same again. Sorry doesn't cut it, When someone cheats it completely kills the other persons pride, insecurity and confidence. Likely, He took you back because he doesn't want to be alone. You need to shape up and stop playing people or you aren't never going to have anyone in your life. Now to answer your question....If you did cheat then Yes, I'm going to save do HIM the favor and break up with him and leave it at that. You've already caused the guy enough damaged

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