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ok well,just like..2 weeks ago i saw yellowish white faintly in my underwear,but im not sure if its dischagre or if i really had to go to the bath room..i cant feel anything come out so..how do i really for sure know? and also,my mom got it when she was 13,my sister 14..so will i get it at 15? how long does discharge last untill you actually get your period?

my mom says "up to one year"

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ok well i have been deprest for a year now but i also self harm i cut,bang my head and bit my self i di all this because it helps releave all the pain but fot the past 3days i havent eaten or drank anythin because the site of it makes my heave and be sick i dont know what to do anymore please help i am femail aged 18.

please note that i have dyslexia and have looked over it again

You need to see a doctor and get some antidepressent medicine. I heard this situation is very serious. What kind of pain physical or mental. There is help.

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Me and my friend are very close and we have been friends since first grade I get jealous when she hangs out with other people but yet I want to and I do hang out with other people. I feel bad and want to stop being like jealous of her having other friends. Please help me. Oh and I'll rate and give comments.
xoxpamela

you should try hanging out with her and her friends and get to know them better and be in there group and thats what i am trying to do and its working out. I am jealouse of this one guy in my cartoon desg class cause he is friends with these two girls and i hear them talking all the time and i respect boys who are friends with girls. So yeah try hangin with her friends and the jealousy might get to her because youll have two groups of friends :D
Hope this helps♥

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First of all I'm a 14 year old male. I would like to know if this girl likes me at all. Here's why I think she does: Everyday when I hang out with some of my friends, if we pass by her, for example at a football game, she'll only say Hi to me and she'll get all excited. I'm a shy kind of guy and I usually just say hi and blush. She's a popular girl and even in class when she sits on the other side of the room she'll stand up and wave and say hi. I talk to her on ICQ sometimes, but it's nothing big. Should I go up and talk to her, I mean, I do sometimes but I don't have anything to talk about. Also, She usually hangs out with older guys, would she want to talk to me? Most of the guys in my grade are immature jerks though.

Ask her if she'd like to out for ice cream and talk and you could bring up the situation and tell her your getting {mixed?} messeges and ask her. Girls like honest people. If your nervous you could ask one of her friends to ask her.
Hope I helped and good luck!

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For a class in school, I have to do a debate against someone in front of the whole class. My topic is lowering the drinking age. I am AGAINST it..(con) I need to be able to talk for 2-5 minutes with GOOD facts, statistics, etc..about why I think that the drinking age should NOT be lowered. Then we are going to argue it out til one of us wins! I am doing this debate against my b/f! He is going to argue that it should be lowered. So I need some good facts that are reasons to be AGAINST lowering it! I am also afraid that I am not going to know what to say b/c I will get nervous and embarrassed! please help me out. If you need any more information please let me know!! I need help!!!!!!!! Any information you can give me will be great! (advice on how to not feel stupid/get embarrassed OR any facts about my topic..) thanx!

Here are some facts:
1. People under 18 are effected the most and is more easily addicted to cigs.
2 It makes your skin look ugly.
3. It is bad for your health and it is a suppresent, wich means it makes people deppressed and teens have a lot of stress so smoking makes double the stress.
4 it makes breathing harder and if you can hardly breathe anymore because you smoke frequently. youll have to have a hole cut in your throat to breathe and that looks pretty nasty and is not fasionable.
5. it can get you suspended from school.

Hope I helped♥

PS: no one should smoke.

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What do you say when a guy asks you out. I'm only thirteen, so things don't come naturally. Do you just say "yes"? But that sounds like when someone asks you to marry them!! I think too much about simple things. CAn someone help mee?!?! Don't call me dumb please because you're just stating the obvious!

I'll rate honestly.

say " Sure, when will you be picking me up." or "yeah, I dont realy have any plans for {the time he says he wants to plan it}."
Hope I helped♥

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One of my friends think that i have been practicing witchcraft and black magic. She thinks i have become a witch and she keeps scolding me. I told her im not a witch and she keeps lecturing me; What should i do?

You should show her all over your house and show her there is nothing witchy in it and you should show her your locker.If she still doesent believe you , shes probably not that great of a friend. Hope this helps♥

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14 female

ok so my friend and i arent getting along right now and i want to give her some space so at lunch im thinking about just eating with another one of my friends let her calm down you kno, but i really like this guy who eats lunch with me and my friend every day and im afraid if i eat w/ the friend im not mad at he wont eat with me anymore and i enjoy talking to him. should i just stay at my table w/ the friend im mad at or sit with my other friend and hope for the best please help im really confused and dont want this guy to think i dont like him!

You should introduce the new friend and the friend your mad at and ask if they could both sit together with you. and if that doesent work, sit with the friend your mad at and ask your new friend for his phone# so you can invite him to hang out with you or vice versa. Hope this helps&heats;

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Well, I'm getting my Cell Phone in about 22 days.

Anyways, I was wondering:

1. Are camera phones good? I mean do they take good pictures?
2. Which is better: Flip-phone or hand-held?
3. How do you get ringtones? Like not the pre-set ones but ones that are actual songs that are like on the radio and stuff.

Thanks!

Camera phones take good pictures and a flip phone is better because it dosent take as much space. At target they sell song ringtones. Hope I helped♥

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i'm scared of bein' alone,...pretty much anywhere. i always think someone's followin me or i'll get kiddnapped and raped or something,...and i dont know what triggered it. i just felt scared one day and its been like that ever since,...i dont know what to do about it...

Always walk with others and if you dont Bring a cell phone and some pepper spray. If you are home alone, turn on some loud music or watch TV to make it seem less lonely {trust me I have done that before and it works}.

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Well my friends and I are trying to decide on costumes. I have NO idea what I want to be. I mean something cute but not very sluttly... maybe just a tad lol. I mean I'm almost 15 and i want to be cute/hott! Do yall have any ideas of what I could be? Please help. Good answers get 5's! xoxo.
p.s. some that work in cold weather or some that work in just good temps. I dont want to wear a bathing suit when if it is like 50ish degrees! Even though I don't think it will be that cold though.

Thanks in advance!

you could be ...
a bride,
a princess
a butterfly,

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hi some one ne one please answer this. ill rate 5s to ne good suggestions. well i have liked this guy for about 4 or 5 months now. ive never talked to him b4 or ne thing. im very shy around guys. not that shy but when i get around them alot im not shy. ne wys i see him staring at me alot. now when he sees me hell stare at me or show off for me. i really like him but i dont know how to start talking to him. i can tell he wants to talk to me cause hell stand around by me and stuff but i dont know how to start talking to him.i really wanna get to know him b4 i ask him out or ne thing. ne suggestions would help. thanxs

Just be casual. When he walks by you could say hiand just tell him in private that youd like to get to know him and that you 2 should hang out and talk and get to know each other. Ask him whats goin on and what he likes.
This probably makes little scense but just start out as friends and work your way to a deeper relationship.

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is it unusial for a guy 2 cry over his girl

No, If you have a crush on that girl its normle.
If its nothing like a crush and you both love eachother than its normal becuase you are probably scared that someone would take her away.
Some people thinks its not right for a guy to cry but thats not right.
just make sure you dont get her hair wet. get it. cry OVER a girl.

--Caden--

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Hey for all the guys out here i have a question.. what would you say as dressing hott to dressing trashy? like give examples of things that you think is hott or just plain trashy in genral well thanks!

hot-tank tops, sparkely dresses, swim suits, anything black or pink or red.
Not-old t-shirts, camo, baggy pants.

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I have an embarrissing problem. Whenever I go to the gym to work out on the crosstrainer I sweat a lot. I think I sweat more than other woman, for instance after 20 minutes of the hill program my face was dripping with sweat and so was my chest and back. Other woman don't break out a sweat at all. I think I'm abnormal. I've tried every kind of deoderant.
What should I do?

Its normal to sweat especialy when your working out. you should probably do some light exersizes first. befor you work out, try getting a wet cloth and wipe your face with it to cool you off.

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how can you tell if a guy is interested in you for more than sex? And what are signs that a guy really cares about you?

I guy who realy cares about you will help you in your downfalls, He will listen to you when you talk to him. He will wait on you for sex.
He will not cheat on you or become a gigolo {male slut}.

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This may sound like a stupid question, but here goes...
When I was younger I used to collect semi-precious stones (like pink quartz, fools gold, turquoise etc.) and I have about 100 of them. But now they are just sitting in a drawer gathering dust and I don't want them anymore. I'm not sure if they would be worth anything, and if they were, where could I sell them? They are a nice collection.
Thanks, give me some advice if you have any ideas.
FakeArms

you could get some cemment and add the stone in to make a stepping stone or arrange the stones to make a picture with the stons and glue the picture onto some card board or wood. You could make jewelry with some strings to attach to the stones. You could glue them onto ropes and drap them over your door. You could also throw them at windows {ha ha}.

I dont think you could make much money by selling stones and if im right you could give them to little children because they are amused by that kinda stuff.
Hope I help&hearts.

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Is there anyway for people to know you and ask you personal questions. I have had only a few personal questions and I wish I had more. Is there like i said anyway to get more popular on this site, or well known?!?

All you need to do is make your answers funny, true, and good. I just joined so im tryin to do the same thing.

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PLEASE READ WILL RATE 5 I PROMISE JUST PLEASE HELP!
13 f
Ok well i know this is going to be long but i just need help.
this past summer summer 05' i meet the most amazing guy EVER!he was the completely best guy ever i meet him at a school dance i danced with him the whole night he was so cute to me and he was just adroable! I really felt in love so the first week of summer me and a few friends got together to go to the movies and i new he was going to it was a first date kinda thing right and well about 45 mins into the movie we kissed this was my first kiss. too and instead of just that first kiss we also made out that night and i just couldnt belive it. it was amazing i loved him so much. i always got in trouble for talking on the phone with him so late. But i didnt care i was in love we stayed on the phone all day long...even if we wernt talking we could sit there for hours with complet siclence and we'd be happy our next date was at my house he meet my mom and my dad they aproved and so on then he came back for a 2nd date to my house for a while with one of my friends my friend pushed me in the pool too and he jumped in and so on so we just all swam the whole day in our clothes. so we had a few more dates and things where like magic i rember one day we decidec to go to this little festival thing and we kissed this one kiss in the rain for like a min. and i dream about that moment all the time when im asleep so time past the summer went by and well things started getting boring... i didnt wanta break up but i had thought about it but i just didnt want to lose him so time past we spent longer time apart then school started i saw him there but he was a grade ahead of me so i he wasnt like in any of my classes then when i got home he called me he asked how my first day of school was blah blah and then like for no apprent reason he said Sarah i think we should see other people he said i still like you i just want to be single. i said ok and hung up i cryed all the rest of the day and cried that whole week because i really loved him.
SO now like 4 months after all this i still miss him just somehting i havent gotten over i have only been out with on guy since but i broke up with him cause i just didnt want to get back together and see i know i can have any guy in my school that i wanted i mean im not some but ugly fat chick ok but i just still miss him so much every time i hear out song i cry i dont know what to do i need help i would go out with another guy but like i dont wanta sound despret and ask another guy out i want some guy to ask me out but all the stupid boys at our school are to scared to ask me out i just totally need help

If you talk to the guys at your school and get to know them, thell someday come to you for a date. Just be yourself. Try flirting a little.
But the important thing and most commonly heard thing is to be yourself. Hope I Helped&hearts

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13/F! I've only had one boyfriend whom I went out with for 5 minites and he went to my school and he was like 2 years younger then me. He was my first boyfriend but I dumped him I don't know why I think it was because of the age difference and stuff. Well anyway I don't really think I'm pretty. I really like this kid Brian he's so hott and stuff; but I don't think I'm pretty enough to go out with him I'm afraid to ask him because I don't want to be rejected. I hate this I see him every day at school and we used to talk but my so called friend ruined that cause she told him I stalked him but I didn't. I'm like in love with him he's so hott but I can't ask him out there's no way I could. Like I really want to go out with him and stuff. Got Any Advice?!?

All you need to do is just be yourself and go talk to him and invite him to the park and start out as friends. then work your way up to a greater relationship.

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