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13/F! I've only had one boyfriend whom I went out with for 5 minites and he went to my school and he was like 2 years younger then me. He was my first boyfriend but I dumped him I don't know why I think it was because of the age difference and stuff. Well anyway I don't really think I'm pretty. I really like this kid Brian he's so hott and stuff; but I don't think I'm pretty enough to go out with him I'm afraid to ask him because I don't want to be rejected. I hate this I see him every day at school and we used to talk but my so called friend ruined that cause she told him I stalked him but I didn't. I'm like in love with him he's so hott but I can't ask him out there's no way I could. Like I really want to go out with him and stuff. Got Any Advice?!?
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Stop telling your self that you aren't pretty and that your not good enought for him. If he's says no then hes not worth it. They are too many guys out there to get hung up on the A$$E$. Pardon my french. Hope that helps.
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All you need to do is just be yourself and go talk to him and invite him to the park and start out as friends. then work your way up to a greater relationship.
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Well first off...no offence but is it your looks that you want to be loved for? I'm guessing thats not the case, being that even though you've heard it a million times, in a real relationship looks don't matter. If you are going to like Brian, then make sure it's not because he's good looking, but for who he is. Not saying it will happen, but it could turn out that after you do ask him out and he accepts, you find him to be a jerk or someone you don't want to be with. I suggest to wait first and develop a friendship. Do what it takes, talk to him about anything, but try to get things going again. Really, if you are close friends then it will be easier to pull off than if you almost never talk, makes sence right? So I say get to know him a bit first, and let him know about who you really are and not what your friends say. Hope that helped and good luck.
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Aww. Its okay hun! Most guys dont even care about looks! Just try. Its better to be rejected than not even try! But first make sure you drop hints that you like him, so it wont be a total suprise. Then tell him how much you like him and that you were afraid he would say no because you think you're not pretty enough.
PLEASE TRY!
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dont be afraid of rejection. go in with confidence, but be okay with it if you are rejected, if he rejects you, thats his loss, not yours.
-Its hard I know, I had to go through that too!
-Kellzie<3
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Always have self-cofidence in yourself. If you have to repeat in the mirror all the good things about yourself..do! It sounds weird..but try it. Just be yourself..talk naturally. Don't let love cloud your eyes about impressions. If you build you self-estem you will have enough confidence to tell him you want to go out with him. That is my advice.
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I think you should go for. If you think your pretty that is all that matters. If you guys talked before there must be some attraction. You could write him a note if your sy or have one of your friends ask him if he likes you. If he does then ask him if he wants to hang out with you and a bunch of friends. If you guys hang out in a crowd you can get to know one another and then maybe he will ask you out.
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Go ask him out anyway. If he looks at you strangely, it's probably because of the stalker thing so make it clear that you're not stalking him and it's just a joke that your friend played on you that wasn't funny.
And -never- put yourself down like that. -You- might not think you aren't pretty enough but other people probably think different. And guys aren't into looks that much at your age anyway. They want someone who is fun, outgoing and not afraid to speak their mind.
If you don't do it now, chances are you'll regret it later on or keep pining on for him forever. And even if he doesn't like you back, so what? At least you tried. Then you can still find an excuse to talk to him and be friends.
So go get that guy :D
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