Me and my friend are very close and we have been friends since first grade I get jealous when she hangs out with other people but yet I want to and I do hang out with other people. I feel bad and want to stop being like jealous of her having other friends. Please help me. Oh and I'll rate and give comments.
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xOx_BRUN3TT3_xOx answered Monday October 31 2005, 7:27 pm: HEY !!
well yOu shOuldnt mind at all gurl its jus friends yOu nOoO let the gurl talk tO Other ppl and hang Out with them yOu nO she still will be yOur best friend and she ant gOna betray yOu well hOpe I helped xOx !! [ xOx_BRUN3TT3_xOx's advice column | Ask xOx_BRUN3TT3_xOx A Question ]
fabulous11 answered Sunday October 30 2005, 7:08 pm: jusat try not hanging out with her as much and hang out with other friends more. I think that you are jealous cause you feel like your being left out.. [ fabulous11's advice column | Ask fabulous11 A Question ]
caden answered Sunday October 30 2005, 6:29 pm: you should try hanging out with her and her friends and get to know them better and be in there group and thats what i am trying to do and its working out. I am jealouse of this one guy in my cartoon desg class cause he is friends with these two girls and i hear them talking all the time and i respect boys who are friends with girls. So yeah try hangin with her friends and the jealousy might get to her because youll have two groups of friends :D
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DaNcExBabii answered Sunday October 30 2005, 5:24 pm: Well try to not hang with her as much and hang out with other people and maybe it will help for you not to be jealous.
charmed3fanatic answered Sunday October 30 2005, 4:33 pm: hmm this is hard.. because i can't exactly tell you how to do it.. i can give you optionss... which i hope will help you but i can't exactly tell you how because everybody is different but here it goes.. first you have to identify why you get mad in the first place.. ask yourself questions like "do i get mad because the people that she hangs out with are people i don't get along with" or "do i get jealous because i'm afraid she's going to dift away from me.." stuff like that and try to identify why you get so jealous.. then from there you need to try and start to train yourself not to get jealous.. yes i know it's hard and it sounds really corny but it works.. i no because i have done it.. but it may not work for you.. also .. you may want to try and talk to your friend.. or maybe (i dont know if your one who doesn't connect wtih there mothers or not but you could give it a try ) talk to your mom about it .. because rather you know it or not she nows you better than anyone else you surround yourself with.. i hope everything works out and that method works for you =] if you need anything else hun just let me no [ charmed3fanatic's advice column | Ask charmed3fanatic A Question ]
Advicelady6798 answered Sunday October 30 2005, 3:33 pm: i know what it is like to have a friend who hangs out with other people and you are left. The best thing to do is to meet other people and that will help you understand why she has toher friends to. You just need to get a closer friend like her that way if one is doing something then you have the other to hang out with. Try going into chat rooms and meeting new people or talking to someone in your school that you wouldnt normally talk to. Its hard for someone to hang out with everyone of their friends at the same time but if you have know her for so long she should give you more attention [ Advicelady6798's advice column | Ask Advicelady6798 A Question ]
orphans answered Sunday October 30 2005, 3:29 pm: perhaps if you branched out and made some other new friends you wouldnt feel quite so jealus. or maybe you could even try and be friends with her new friends? a bit of space between close friends never hurt any1, if you see each other 24/7 arguments and fights are bound to occur. hope i helped ~*~lucee~*~ please rate me xXx [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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