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Does she like me?
First of all I'm a 14 year old male. I would like to know if this girl likes me at all. Here's why I think she does: Everyday when I hang out with some of my friends, if we pass by her, for example at a football game, she'll only say Hi to me and she'll get all excited. I'm a shy kind of guy and I usually just say hi and blush. She's a popular girl and even in class when she sits on the other side of the room she'll stand up and wave and say hi. I talk to her on ICQ sometimes, but it's nothing big. Should I go up and talk to her, I mean, I do sometimes but I don't have anything to talk about. Also, She usually hangs out with older guys, would she want to talk to me? Most of the guys in my grade are immature jerks though.
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I know that sometimes being the new guy in class is tough but You will get over it.Okay well if you are a shy guy then you should go slow, you said that The only thing you guys ever say to each other is hi. Well next you will have to sak her how her day was or something like that. Just keep addin gsomething to the conversation.
Anna<3
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well we cant really tell you if she likes you i think the best thing to do is ask her but to me it sounds like she might like you
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Hey hunny,
It sounds to me like she does like you. Just because she talks to older guys doesn't mean that she don't like you. She might see something in you that is different from all the guys in your grade. Go up to her and ask if she wants to hang out with you sometime or just say hi and ask simple stuff like how was your day, and maybe that will strike up a topic to talk about. I hope I helped you in some way and feel free to send me something in my inbox if you have another question or problem. x3
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Instead of jumping to conclusions on wether or not she likes you, just try to be her friend. It could just be that shes nice like that just to certain people and you are one of them. First definatley get to know her, what she likes and doesn't like, who she is and everything else. Let her know who you are too. About not having anything to talk about...try music. Music in just about limitless, and if you both like some of the same music, you got something there. Is she into sports? Do both of you play an instrument? I would say to first try to find a common ground where you both partake in, even if it is just class. Talk about the class, teachers, other people, etc. I know it seems mean, but I actually found that one of the easiest ways to make friends with somebody...is to hate someone else with them. No offence, and don't take it the wrong way, but I remember there was a kid in my school who was a huge jerk to me and everyone else, was always mean, and just out to get everyone. I remember I would be in a group of kids of about 10 or more, know only two of them, and when I mentioned the kid's name, that got everyone going and they each shared stories about their own encounters with him or what they've heard, and things went on from there.
So yeah there are a bunch of ways you can come up with something to talk about, look for something common. If you can't, theres always TV. I personally don't watch tv anymore, but I'm sure she does and you do too and could talk about that. Anyways, just be confident and don't expect things to go all down the drain either - if you play your cards right, get to know her, and be a good friend to her, then you might be in luck. Hope that helped and good luck.
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it can be very confusing trying to figure out if someone else likes you. Try flirting with her and see if she flirts back. if you want to ask her without actually asking her just ask if she wants to study for a big test coming up or ask if she wants to play basketball or something sometime. spending more time with her may bring you both closer. if all else fails, just ask her if she wants to go out sometime. the worst she could do is say no, and if she's a good friend things will not change if you ask.
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she might, i mean if a girl gives you that much attention then it is possible. I think going to talk to her would be a good idea. Get to know her better. If shes popular then she's probably more outgoing, which is a good thing, because she'll talk to you.
good luck!
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Yea, it seems like she does. She gets all exicted which means somethign like "omg its him," lol. Ask her just in case. Maybe in a note because you said you were a shy kind of guy.
Good Luck
♥ Melissa
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My advice is to talk to her. She will give you context clues if she likes you. she may say something like "wat are you doing saturday?" and once you answer she may say "oh. I'm hanging out at my house." She did this cuz she wants you to invite her to do something with you. she might say "do you have a girlfriend?" she asked this to see if your on the market. Flirting is a big clue!! Just keep your eyes open for more clues.
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Ask her if she'd like to out for ice cream and talk and you could bring up the situation and tell her your getting {mixed?} messeges and ask her. Girls like honest people. If your nervous you could ask one of her friends to ask her.
Hope I helped and good luck!
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If she says Hi and gets excited, then I think yeah maybe she likes you. I think you should ask her to hang out with you. Not as a date, but just to get to know her better. If she says yes, obviously she wants to see if there might be something between you two. And after a few "dates", if you like her, ask her if she wants to be your boyfriend or something. Good luck, I think the whole getting excited thing really means she likes you because I always get excited when a guy I like talks to me. Even if he just says hi=)
Good luck.
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