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Ok so here is the deal i know that i am supposed to be a good freind and all my friends say i am a good freind. But latley my friend who is a 14/male has been trying to act well cool he is drinking and i dunno if that is such a ood idea seeing as he is trying to get me to do it i know that i used to be an alcholic but i have stopped because my other friend who is a 14. female told me to so i did. But that is not the real deal. My friend has also begun to overdose and talk about suicide i have talked to people about it yet when i try to talk to him i am to afraid to tell him to stop i know i need to and i know i just would rather have him be mad at me yet he knows me o to well and will put up a fight.
Do i dare try to talk to him because he is violant or should i leave that to a parental unit???
thnx
Monn (link)
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Don't talk to him about it.He isn't gonna listen anyway.tell an adult. He needs help BAD. If you don't tell someone he might commit suicide one day and you will feel guilty the rest of your life.I don't think you want to have to live with that. Get an adult to listen to you.Today!
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hey every1
k well i went out with this guy last year, his name is ben. then we broke up over the summer but now for like a month i have liked him again and i found out that he likes me too cause he asked me out tonight online, but as soon as he asked me out and i said yeah he had to go football. im worried that tomorrow at school it will be akward and i really don't want it to be akward cause we have been like really good friends like forever. please tell me good ways to flirt with him tomorrow so it isn't akward! thanks so much I RATE WELL! (link)
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You probably don't need to flirt.Just be yourself. remenber he is probably feeling the same. You'll do okay.:}
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me and my da havent spoke for about a yr since i got caught smokin weed... my dad completely turned his back on me while my mom was there with me the whole time and i love her i miss the relationship witt my dad but at the same time im so mad at him (even though i was the one that screwed up) for turnin his bak on me i have two sides about this and its gettin mixed and i dunno wut i shud do... hes not the type of dad u cud sit down and have a conversation about this with... plz help (link)
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If you can't talk to him I don't know what to tell you.Has your mom tried? You really don't need to hang around for a conversation. I would just tell him that you know you did wrong and you just hope one day things can be good between the two of you again.Maybe give him something to mull over.Hopefully in time he will realize what he is missing.I hope so.:}
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If god knows that we are gonna do something bad, like look up porn, why doesnt he try and stop us. I dont really understand it but, i am a porn addict and its getting harder and harder for me to stop. why would god let me do it if he knows its wrong? (link)
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He wants you to do whats right.But he isn't going to make you.The decision to do right or wrong is ulimatley yours to make.
Looking at it on occassion is probably just normal curiosity.If you feel it is out of hand then you need to talk to someone about it, especially if you're having feelings of guilt about it.Okay?
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I just want to know what are some things you can say to a girl to charm her and make her like you. Such what are some things i could say to the girl i like to just slowly make her like me. Are there anythings that girls like to hear that charms them. Thanks any help is pretty much appreciated (link)
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Be yourself.Be nice and polite.Compliment them on occassion (You look pretty with your hair done that way etc.).Don't stop once you snag yourself one either! You know, once you have one, A single rose is pretty cheap and works wonders!Good luck:}
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As a seventeen year old female who is oober tired of stupid highschool guys and would like to move on to more mature ones... how old is too old for me? (link)
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Well, it really depends on the guy.As you probably realise some are more mature than others. I'd try to keep it at 21 or younger.Until you turn 18 though you are technically jail bait for anyone over 18.Bad term but true. Happy hunting!:}
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My cousin's name is Nicole-she's on the left of the picture on my site. Don't get me wrong, I love her and I even wish I was like her at times. But everytime I'm around her, I feel like she's better than me and that I can't even compare to her. We always get annoyed of eachother after about one hour. I don't know what I'm doing wrong to annoy her. Everytime we get in an argument, I'm the one that always gets hurt. I think it's mainly because I'm younger and she always has better comebacks. What should I do when this happens? What can I do to prevent the arguments. (link)
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Maybe she just likes to argue with you.Some people are like that.Some people are just better with the comebacks too.That doesn't make her better than you by any means.If she starts to argue just do your best to ignore her and don't get into it with her.Hard not to do sometimes I know just do your best.
You probably feel she's better than you because she's older. She isn't though, just older.:}
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The guy who I've really liked for over a year said that he kind of likes me. What does it mean if he kind of likes me? My friend who is friends with him thinks that since he's shy, he said that he kind of likes me because he was too shy to say yes. This other guy who I talked to who doesn't even know the guy I like said that he thinks it means that the guy I like thinks I'm hot and has a little crush on me, but isn't really like in love with me. What do you think it means if he kind of likes me? (link)
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He probably likes you.Don't dissect what he says go talk to him and find out.Of course he isn't in love with you he doesn't even know you yet.He likes you go say hi and forget all the third party enquiries! Go get him.
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Man's oldest question is still without answers: How can we become a 9 foot lumbering green monster of Doom and Discomfort?
We could go the comic book route, using a fully charged gamma bomb and, through nothing short of a miracle, become the Hulk. This method, however, seems a bit impractical as a large dose of Gamma particles would likely melt away any semblence of living matter.
So, my esteemed advicenator patrons, how do we simple creatures achieve the ultimate awesomeness? (Because throwing around oil tankers seems like fun right now) (link)
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Thank you very imaginatively worded question! Such a nice change of pace!
Join a gym and lift some weights.
Beware however,that you don't overdo and become a giant mass of muscle....causing your shirt to rip open at the merest flexing.This is not acceptable everywhere.Avoid anything that may cause you to turn green as well.You may scare the young damsels who are sure to be following you in hopes of recognition.
Well, you're much better at it than me. But,hey, I tried! Good luck :}
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20/f
This guy I had a date with kissed me on the firt date. Is that werid? I have never kissed someone on the first date before. Do you think he just wants sex? (link)
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It's okay to kiss on the first date...IF YOU WANT TO! It's not weird really.All guy's want sex, even the nice ones.Thats just men for you! If you don't want to go further than that, don't.
If he really cares for you he will stick around.But most will try you.
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So, what do you do when the people you used to be closest with begin to ignore you? when they forget you have feelings and make snide comments?
What do you do when people keep secrets from you? When the same person tries to hit on and steal your best friend?
What should I do? (link)
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Well, you get a new friend and tell this one..see ya!
Tell your best friend if she get's stolen you will never speak to her again.If she's smart she already see's what jerks the other people are being.
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my frend been acting like a totel cow the last few weeks in school just leaving us and dropping us,talking bout us behind our back.i had a go at her and she just turned on the tears and made the people who she was hangng round her go against me now i dont know what i can do cos when her mate hugged her when she was crying she smirked at me.what can i do.?plse reply swn xx (link)
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Sounds like none of them are worth having as friends.I'd forget the whole lot of them.You don't need people talking behind your backs and all that. Get a new friend and when this one comes crawling back (and she will) be friends again or don't. Just don't put up with any nonsense!
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Okay well i have a friend and she makes me do EVERYTHING 4 her well at lunch like she will be like here is 50 cents go buy me a cookie and i do it! i dont want to but i do anyways. and i through her trash away 4 her and she pays me a dime and i dont want to do that either i just feel like i can tsay no and when i do i feel like she will be mad at me but whp cares right i cant do stuff 4 her right? well i dont know what do to please help! (link)
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Tell her if you want to be a maid you'll get a job that pays better than a dime! Do it joking like. If she get's mad she get's mad.Tell her she could use the exercise if you really want to make her mad! You better stick to the first one!
Don't let people walk on you and tell you what to do. Get tough! Good luck:}
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Me and my boyfriend has been dating for about eight months now and i love him to death.. i mean he is my world, my everything, my one and only, but i feel like i am causing problems for him and his friends who was here before me, i mean he ignores them when i am around and now they are mad at him, and i feel bad i mean i dont want to break up a friendship thats been there for 6 years, i mean she was there before me, but the thing is if he chooses he has to choose one of us because we dont like each other REALLY HATE EACH OTHER.. but like i said i love him and i dont want him to think i am making him choose but i also dont want them to not be friends.. what should i do??? (link)
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It comes down to this.He is dating you and not her. She is jealous, and there is nothing you can or should do about it.
Don't make him choose.He shouldn't have to. This is her problem to deal with not yours. Don't make it yours either. If she was any kind of friend to him she would be happy for him. You can hate her all day but be polite when you see her and don't feel bad about her problem.Be careful about saying negative things about her that will get back to him since they are still friends.
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13/f Ok i get like really scared and my mom thinks im too young to babysit. I want a job so my mom will let me get a cellphone (my mom is so mean i should hav one already!). Well since i get scared i think about stuff like....What if i was babysitting and someone called and said "Im coming for you" or something like that or if someone came to the house. I know there's a REALLY big chance that wouldnt happen but i cant help it i hav a very wild imagenation. Is there any other good job i could get? or anything that would keep me busy from thinking about stuff like that while babysitting?
I rate! (link)
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It is really hard to tell someone not to be scared. Your mom is right on this one.If you're scared you'll scare the kids you're babysitting for and then you'd have a real BIG mess on your hands.So, if you are honestly scared I don't think that is a good idea.
You could mow lawns, rake leaves something like that.Maybe help an older neighbor around the house.Use your imagination! Put up a flyer that you'll do odd jobs.You can think of something.:}
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well there is this guy that i like and im not sure if he likes me. we talk at school and he likes to joke around with me adn make fun of me, but he always smiles and is happy around me. i just want to knwo if he likes me, what do you people think?
14/f (link)
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Is he making fun in a teasing kind of way? If he isn't making fun of you in a mean way i'd say the chances are that he likes you.
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How can you tell who a major flirt likes? Does he show them more attention or less? Because I have a friend that is a major flirt and he's been following me around in the mornings before school, he's also suddenly starting to eat lunch with me, and always wants to be my partner in Drama. Why the sudden change is another question? (link)
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I don't know why the sudden change but i'd say he likes you! Some guy's are awful flirts (I have one of those) but when they start following you around and wanting to be with you,you can be pretty sure he likes you the best!
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i want to get higher marks and next term i wanna aim for a 90 or over.. how can i do that? i'm not actually particularly good at any of the subjects but i want to try to get a 90s average. what are some things i could do? especially for core subjects like english, math, history/geography, and science? thanks alot, i really want to keep all my options open since i want to be some kind of doctor when i grow up. (link)
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You just have to study an awful lot.Maybe get someone to study with to make it a little easier.
It is a good goal to have and I hope you succeed!:}
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What is meterosexual, and is that a bad thing for a female who is trying to date one? (link)
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I've been around a while and I hadn't heard of this.
Thought maybe it meant he liked doing it with meteors or something....I was wrong.
From what I can find on the internet (just punch it in and theres a few sites on it) It is just a guy who likes to wear makeup and have plastic surgery and other things like that. I don't think i'd date someone who wants to be prettier than me,but, if you do...go for it,they are straight guys who just wanna be purdy.
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What if I really like a guy that I've known for a long time and I think he has feelings for me but we give each other mixed signals I think but now he has a girlfriend but I dont think it's anything serious. What should I do? And I can't really just tell him how I feel (link)
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You have to wait until he no longer has a girlfriend. Then, if you want to know his feelings you have to ask him what they are.No way around it...do away with those mixed signals altogether!
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