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Me and my boyfriend has been dating for about eight months now and i love him to death.. i mean he is my world, my everything, my one and only, but i feel like i am causing problems for him and his friends who was here before me, i mean he ignores them when i am around and now they are mad at him, and i feel bad i mean i dont want to break up a friendship thats been there for 6 years, i mean she was there before me, but the thing is if he chooses he has to choose one of us because we dont like each other REALLY HATE EACH OTHER.. but like i said i love him and i dont want him to think i am making him choose but i also dont want them to not be friends.. what should i do???
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It comes down to this.He is dating you and not her. She is jealous, and there is nothing you can or should do about it.
Don't make him choose.He shouldn't have to. This is her problem to deal with not yours. Don't make it yours either. If she was any kind of friend to him she would be happy for him. You can hate her all day but be polite when you see her and don't feel bad about her problem.Be careful about saying negative things about her that will get back to him since they are still friends.
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Just go with the flow and see what happens
good luck
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Personnally as a guy... i'd want to heat if my girlfriend thinks she is causing me problems... i think you should tell him... Hope this helps
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I would let him know how you feel about this situation. Like tell him to spend time with each person separately...that way, everyone is happy in the end, and you don't have to see one another!
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well.tough situation here..dont make him choose at all..tell him that you dont mind if you spend time with his friends..or you and him can spend time with his friends together, you might really hate her, but there's always some sort of good in a person ;-)..if he's friends with her, there has to be a reason..give her a chance..and if you all ready have..well then there's always seconds chances..just dont make him choose..
-Christine
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talk to him and tell him how much you love him and make him understand that he can hang around with his friends too..maybe he just feels that he has to commit to you to make you happy..or maybe one of his girl friends like him too..you just need to talk to him and together, figure out what to do..
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tell him he doesnt have to choose. the worst thing you can do in that situation is make the person choose from their bf/gf and their best friend. trust me. my friends want me to pick my best friend or my bf and i dont wanna pick either, its too hard. let him be friends with her but you do come first if your his gf. she can wait to get some time with him when ur not there. let him be friends with her and go out with you.
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Honestly.....if he truly loves you then he should stand by your side.
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