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trash/lunch
Okay well i have a friend and she makes me do EVERYTHING 4 her well at lunch like she will be like here is 50 cents go buy me a cookie and i do it! i dont want to but i do anyways. and i through her trash away 4 her and she pays me a dime and i dont want to do that either i just feel like i can tsay no and when i do i feel like she will be mad at me but whp cares right i cant do stuff 4 her right? well i dont know what do to please help!
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OMG!!!!...shes not a real friend then!..she is just using you it seems like...if one of my friends asked me to do something like that, i would be really really mad!..ok so the next time she asks you to do something for her, DONT!!..stand up for yourself!!
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Well, I can see this as a problem, the next time she asks, just say, "nope, its time for you to do it." And if she begs and keeps saying so, then just say, "If you think I'm going to get it for you, then looks like you're leaving empty handed, I don't want to do these things for you anymore." You definetly don't have to do it, but if I made people get me things, I'd at least squeeze in the word 'please'. But, I use to be a people pleaser, and you will grow out of it by practicing by not pleasing people too much, if you don't want to do it, then don't.
-TheTeenGirl
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Tell her to stop being lazy, she has 2 legs and is capable is doing her own things herself, do you not get sick of babysitting your friend? What does she do for you? Ask her to take your tray and and see what she says, maybe she doesnt realize that shes doin it, maybe your setting yourself up for it Cinderella!
:*:SaRa:*:
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Tell her if you want to be a maid you'll get a job that pays better than a dime! Do it joking like. If she get's mad she get's mad.Tell her she could use the exercise if you really want to make her mad! You better stick to the first one!
Don't let people walk on you and tell you what to do. Get tough! Good luck:}
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Your friends wouldnt make you do this kind of stuff... shes taking advantage of you
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i dunno how good of friends you are, but this girl is taking major advantage of you and i would stop the madness!! it's not right when she asks you to throw her trash away say "Why don'y YOU throw the trash away." if you are really good friends don't wreck the friendship, but just so you know you could also say..." listen, i'm not your servant or your paid worker aand i don't plan to be treated like one so if you want to be friends you'll do your own stuff,if you want a servant go fid some other person because i deserve better than this" ((lol that's what i'd say)) lol but i think in your case i'd go with the first one lol
hope it helped <3
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thats not a friend thats a dictator you o all that and get next to nadda that friend deserdsa to be in the next trash bag you takeout for her
Solemnstar
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just be like NOO!! if she gets mad just be like noo im not your slave. if she tries to get you to go buy her a cookie suggest that you both go, and split the cookie or something. just dont take it, she probably wont do anything if you just say no, but say it in like a playful way.
hope i helped. <333
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Sounds like your being taken advantage of ... just stick to yah guns and say politly i dont feel like it today .... remember STICK TO YOUR GUNS and dont let down
lemme kno how it wrked out
oxox
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I'd tell her how you feel, and if she doesn't understand, then she is not a true friend, because friends don't boss other friends around!
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same happens to me...just say no i don't feel like it.you gave her an answer and a reason, so if she's mad then who cares? just don't let people take advantage of you.It's really not worth it.
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eat the cookie you buy
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Ask her to go with you.. this way you arent really saying no or yes.. this way she does the work herself with a friend by her side :-) ..she might be afraid of being infront of people, who knows..but if she doesnt agree to go with you..then just say no..and remain seated, she might need the exercise ;-)
-Christine
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The the next time she tells you to go do something, say no. If she gets mad, don't get an attitude. Just explain that she's not your boss and you don't have to do it. Good luck! Send me something if you need more help. ♥ Kristen
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You're going to have to say no to her no matter what if you really want this to end! You have to show her that you're not the kind of person to be taken advantage. Next time she tells you to go buy her a cookie and gives you the fifty cents, just give it right back to her. Next time she makes you throw away her trash, just put it back on the table. If she gets mad at you and doesn't understand where you're comming from, then I wouldn't call her a true friend. But good luck and I sure hope she understands!
♥ Always,
Maria
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Tell her FIRMLY, no! You aren't her slave..and if she keeps using you like this, then she isn't really your friend.
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Just be honest about it. Tell her straight foreward you are sick of being bossed around. Don't be mean though, just be honest! Good Luck!
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Well, tell her how you really feel. Tell her you're through with her crap and say you're not gonna waste your time waiting hand and foot for her.
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How bout just say no? Idiot.
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What a lazy fatass. Who cares if she gets mad, the lazy bum should have to get up and buy her own cookie or throw her trash away, not make slave ou tof someone else to do it. I thought I saw lazyness in my father, but this is just a whole new level....
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