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20/f
This guy I had a date with kissed me on the firt date. Is that werid? I have never kissed someone on the first date before. Do you think he just wants sex?
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Dont stick to the normal stereotypical version of a guy like that! -Meaning that most guys thats true, thats all they want- But it doesnt really matter unless you give it up to them does it? I mean once your together awhile and dont do anything, if he stays, youll know thats not what he was wanting. Ive been in a long relationship now, its my second one and when we were first together it was 4 months before we really kissed..its up to you, dont make yourself easy when it comes to guys, play hard to get, it keeps em wanting more!
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It's okay to kiss on the first date...IF YOU WANT TO! It's not weird really.All guy's want sex, even the nice ones.Thats just men for you! If you don't want to go further than that, don't.
If he really cares for you he will stick around.But most will try you.
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no, he doesnt want sex. not all guys are pigs, most are but not all. its normla 4 a guy to kiss you on a first date. i would expect it actually.hope i helped
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No, I dont think he just wants sex. This guy probabbly really likes you. x0
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I think it is kind of weird, because usually people don't kiss on the first date. They usually hug or something like that. I would keep an eye on him if I were you though! LOL! He might just want sex like you said!
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Maybe he felt a real connection, and that's why he kissed you. After the first date, I wouldn't jump to conclusions that he only wants you for sex. I wouldn't take it too seriously. I mean it was only a kiss.
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no i doubt that. lots of people kiss on the first date. think of all the little 12 year old that kiss a new guy every weekend! if he goes further on the next date, id watch out tho. dont give it to him!
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No he was trying to be sweet and probably thought that was wanted you wanted. Im sure he doesnt want sex. I mean if he doesnt call then i'd be suspicious but im sure he didnt mean anything by it but i like you or ill miss you. Your thinking to much of it-trix
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no maybe he really liked u just b/c he kissed u doesnt mean he just wants to have sex.
~leah
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Is it not normal for any man to want sex? -blink- Of course he does, but what you mean is does he want yo usimply for that? ;P The question would be easier to answer if you had said you've known him for a while or something. If that's true, then it's just simply possible he's had a thing for you for awhile.... and if it's not true, then you can't really tell. Just another thing you have to keep faith in ^^ <3 EJ
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I think that kissing on a first data is a bit fast but he might just want a relationship. Thats usually all men want is sex so its nothing new.
luv roxie
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No, this isn't werid at all. It just shows that he enjoyed his time with you and wanted to end it with a kiss. And for him just wanting sex because he kissed you, don't worry. It's nothing like that. He's just showing you that he's looking forward to the next time he's able to see or hangout with you.
♥ Krissy
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Dear 20/f,
Kissing on the first date is not so weird. It depends of course, who you are. By the way, did you kiss him back? It's really all about how you feel about the person. If you thought it was weird, you probably didn't learn enough about him for you to feel comfortable kissing him. It sounds like you have high morals and high standards. That is great! And please don't listen to people who tell you otherwise. A kiss, in itself, is not such a big deal. It means he likes you and wants to get to know you better. Whether or not he wants sex right away really depends on who he is.
Good luck and happy dating!
Linda
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No i dont think he just wants sex he likes you obviously a lot just get to know him more! he likes you so u have nothing to worry about!
*kristen*
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ok...heres what i think! ur too paranoid about the whole sex thing...a kiss is a kiss! u should enjoy it while it lasts
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OMG grow up!!! your over 18 it was probably just a good night KISS!!! DUH!
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i think he probably does want just sex because i know it sounds stupid but if the boy is with you and respects your feelings they will ask you whether you want to be kissed.
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