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My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and two months. We're totally crazy about each other...we spend everyday together if we can. He lives in another state thats an hour from me. He has been saying "I love you" an awful lot and how much he cares for me. I have been getting this feeling that he maybe the "one"...but i'm scared to tell him because it might scare him.
He is scared of marriage but its weird he says it would be "awesome" to have my kids someday. We are best friends but i feel this is one thing i can't tell him.
What should I do? Do I tell him or no? (link)
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I think you have been dating long enough to bring up the subject of your future together. Sounds like he has already anyway. Now, you just need to get serious about the discussion!
If he is telling you he loves you, he is just waiting for a response from you. Why would you be scared to share your feelings? Talk. If it scares him off, and I doubt that is going to happen, you move on. I think he he is trying to get a feeling for what you think already. So talk to him. :)
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I am fatigued very often. Sometimes I am just absolutely exhausted. I can't seem to get enough done in a day, because I just get too tired. I do about 30 minutes of cardio five times a week. I sleep at least 8 hours a night, usually. My diet is pretty healthy, and I take a women's multivitamin every day. I don't take any medication regularly except for birth control. I've been to my doctor about it, had all kinds of tests, but there is nothing wrong with me. Still, that doesn't change the fact that I'm exhausted and just want to sleep every chance I get. What else could I try? (link)
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You can see a different doctor (or 2) and get a second opinion. Perhaps you have chronic fatigue syndrome. There are doctors who shrug things off they shouldn't. Its just easier for them.
Fact is you shouldn't feel tired all the time. You know it so don't let one doctor make you think it is ok. See another and get some answers.
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Me and my ex still love eachother . We broke up a couple weeks ago because his ex came around and he thought his feeling were still there but turns out he wants me more than her . He's only with her because she will cry for a century ! I dont know what to do because he is the father of my kid . Me and my ex have alot a plans still . My ex is cheating on his new girlfriend with me and i think some other girls also. If they do break up should i go back out with him because his cheating on his girl will he cheat on me ? I really love this kid but i dont want to get hurt again . He said he loves me and he hasnt said it for a while and he said he feels warm and as if hes only suppose to love me . Please help !
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A lot of questions here! The main answer is going to be no. You don't want a serious relationship with this guy. You are being used and you deserve better.
First, "He's only with her because she will cry for a century !" B.S. He is with her because she is probably putting out. Staying with someone because they will cry if you leave is a weak excuse. She feeds his ego by making him think she can't go on without him. He loves it.
"I don't know what to do because he is the father of my kid"...You take care of your child the best you can. Just because a male donates sperm it does not make him a good father. If he is a good father, it doesn't make him a good husband or lover for the child's mother.
Promiscuous irresponsible men who fail to use condoms will leave a trail of kids they could care less about. They give other men a bad name and are not worth having in your life. If he wants to pay child support and take care of his child, he can do it through the court system. He does not need to be with you 24/7.
Men like this one always have " a lot of plans" most of it pure bullshit. It is in their best interest to keep you on the hook. Make you feel like you have a future. If he didn't play with your head that way, you would not stick around for more of the same.
"My ex is cheating on his new girlfriend with me and i think some other girls also." This is his life. This is what he does. Open your eyes and see he is a loser. I'm sorry. I realize you have serious feeling for this guy. But he is a cheater and probably always will be. He uses women. He is using you. For your child's sake wake up girl! Yes. He will cheat on you. He's doing it now and getting away with it.
Move on. Seriously. Find a man who will love both you and your child exclusively. There are men like that out there. You will NOT find that good guy while waiting for this loser to decide which lady on the hook he is going to give his attention to this week.
I have been on the planet almost 52 years. Life is way to short to waste time on this type of man. YOU deserve someone better.
I know it is hard to hear and even harder to step up and take control of your life away from someone you feel you love. You need to be strong and do it though.
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mk so first off i'm 17/f, and the guy i'm dating right now is 18. we go to the same school, he is a senior i'm a junior. for about the past 4-5 months he's had a crush on me.. we didnt really start talking that much until valentines when he asked me to be his valentine. i said yes. and ever since we just gradually started to talk and hang out more.. probably 2 months ago i realized i liked him back. he asked me to jr/sr banquet and i introduced him to my parents and brother. they all loved him. he's a really good guy, he has good morals, he's caring, trustworthy etc.. he seems to have it all together. he's like the perfect bf.. BUT here's my question.. some days i cant wait to see him..i'm so happy when i'm with him and just have fun.... then there's days like yesterday and today that i just dont feel the butterfly's. like i know i like him, but its like i'm not sure if i'd actually like to go out with him and be an exclusive couple.. the thing is my friends told me hes planning to ask me to be his gf sometime this weekend or next... and i need to know if these feelings are normal, or if i shouldnt go into a relationship w/ him. part of me thinks i'm just so used to having "bad boys" and he's not one. so part of me is bored, cuz theres no risk.. idk what to do.. PLEASE help. thanks in advance. (link)
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The fact is the "butterfly's" don't last long in any relationship. So not having that feeling anymore is perfectly normal.
You like each other, you're comfortable around him, no need for the butterflies. Those who expect for that feeling to continue throughout the relationship don't have long term relationships. They are always chasing that temporary feeling. Don't get caught up in all that.
You have to ask yourself if you enjoy being with this guy. If you do, give it a chance. If not then move on to the next guy. Its just that simple. :)
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ok so my bf is 18 and im 16. is that actually ok or illigal? cause like im a minor and hes grown up haha. i dont have any problems with him or anything, it just came into my mind .. (link)
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It depends on the state you live in. In MOST states the age of majority is 16. Making you "legal".
Here is a worldwide age of consent chart. Look for your state.
http://www.avert.org/age-of-consent.htm
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My friend and I always have "queefing contests" and the other night we were all sitting around with friends, having some drinks - and she told me to queef - so I did. Now the guy I'm into won't talk to me. He's grossed out! WHY? (link)
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I agree with Darby. Its one thing if it happens naturally in private. Its another when its done deliberately in a room full of people.
There are some guys who will go for public craziness. Most however, still want a girl who acts like a lady in public the majority of the time.
Be yourself, find someone with a matching personality. :)
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I've worked out Sunday, yesterday, and today. I've been home for about twenty minutes now and they're still tingling. My friend suggested poor blood circulation or a heart problem? Just wondering if I should be cautious of this.
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It could be as simple as improper breathing or holding your breath while working out. However,
since it isn't exactly "normal", I would suggest you visit your doctor and find out for sure.
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Does anybody have more information on this? i mean really 23 cases out of millions and millions of people? these people probably over used the product? but does anybody have more information on this? ive already gone threw one bottle of hydroxycut Max and i have less than half another bottle left. ive gotten great results and i only have 5 more pounds to go. summers almost here i want to finish my bottle but now i am scared? its about a weeks worth and thats allllll i need but now im scared im going to get liver cancer or something but what more harm could i do? and how do i know if hydroxycut has done damage to me? (link)
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If you only have 5 pounds to go diet and exercise is the safer way to go.
Many of these products for weight loss are rushed to market without proper testing. Like phen phen a few years ago, they don't recall them until people start dropping dead from using them.
While only one person has died as a direct result of using hydroxy cut, it has also caused other to have signs of liver damage. One requiring the person to need a liver transplant. It has also caused severe muscle damage. Removing it from the market is the only responsible thing to do.
I would not recommend you finish the bottle you have. It is probably a good idea to see your doctor. Tell him/her you have been using the product, and have them run some liver function tests on you.
It can do more harm. A liver is not easily replaced. Being a beautiful corpse is not your goal I'm sure!
All those with reported damage from the product, were using it as recommended on the bottle. Had
they been proved to be abusing the drug, the manufacturer would have been announcing that to the world. They are not.
More info from the FDA on the recall here
http://www.fda.gov/bbs/topics/NEWS/2009/NEW02006.html
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My brother is diabetic and he accidentally hit his head while getting in the car did not paid too much attention to it until a couple days after when we call 911 for an ambulance because he was really bad. It seems that he was bleeding internally due to the hit in the head and did not know it, that was the explanation the Doctor gave us, he undergo an operation and after 24 hours he seem completely well until four days after the operation when he could not speak any more, the doctor requested to a nurse to give my brother some medication for seizure and he responded well, but after a few hours he was back to the same condition. Now they are checking that all the nerves in his head are working normal and after 20 hours they will let us know what it is the matter with him. Is any one out there that may have some advise for our family?
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Your doctor will have better advice than any of us could possibly give you. Don't be afraid to ask the doctor or nurse any question you may have. They are always more than happy to explain things to you.
It is not unusual for someone with a closed head injury not to even realize they did damage right away. If your family is feeling guilty because they did not notice something sooner, don't be. It would be a very rare thing for someone to get such an injury just from hitting their head getting into the car. There is no way you could have known.
One of the complications from any surgery is blood clots. I am not saying your brother has or had one because I am not a doctor. Blood clots especially in the head can lead to strokes. There are meds that can be given to dissolve and break up a blood clot and blood thinners might also be used.
The main thing is to question his doctor and/or his nurse. Whichever is available to you at the time. The doctors do want you to understand what is going on. They will explain it to you better if you let them know you don't understand. It is easy for them to forget you may not. So ask, ask, ask! :)
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soo when i masturbate, i find it more pleasurable to just rub my clit. i dont actually "finger" myself, i dont really find it to feel good at all.
does this mean that when i do decide to have sex, it wont feel good?
is this normal? (link)
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You're normal. I have some answers for questions you may have on my forum. Feel free to check it out.
http://www.advicenators.com/talkaboutmetopic.php?t=1050&userboard_id=15647ard_id=15647
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so the day before we broke up we were kissing and he said "i feel like a jerk for saying this but i want you so bad right now" (guessing as in sex). we're going to prom together this weekend...do you think he'd like it if i did things with him? i want to. but we broke up like 2 weeks ago so would he not want that?
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Of course this is a decision you have to make for yourself. If you think it might save the relationship, it won't.
All teen boys want sex. Most will take it when offered. It just does not mean the same thing to guys as it does to girls. To them it is a bodily function to us girls it has more meaning emotionally. I know that isn't a good way to explain it, but trust me, we girls just give it more meaning than it has.
He will either hang around just a little longer and use you to get more sex, or he will have sex with you and then dump you. Either way YOU get hurt in the end. He has already made the decision that he wants to break up. You just need to accept it.
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I was wanting to know what is the best brand of birth control and how protective is it against pregnancy? (link)
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This is a question to discuss with your doctor.
Everyone is different. All birth control pills will prevent pregnancy.
These days it comes down to what you want. Do you want something you only have to worry about every 3 month or so? Do you want less of a period or perhaps none at all?
Talk to your doctor. Together you will find the perfect form of birth control for you. :)
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Well i really like this guy i told him i liked him he said he didnt like me just only as a friend but i really like him. I always have and i dont think ill stop liking him.
What should i do? (link)
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If he says he likes you as a friend, be a friend.
Forget about being his girlfriend for right now.
The best partner for a long term relationship is a good friend! So start there and see what happens.
Don't rush it. :)
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Should I say something now.. or should I wait till he says something first?
I want to be able to go 2 months or more without saying something to him.
So I have like 25 more days or so till I reach that.
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I'd just wait until he decides to stick his nose in your business again. Then just nicely tell him to butt out, since hes not interested himself.
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well for starters.. i haven't spoken to him since march 27th. longest yet!
woot!
anyways.. i found out on tuesday.. that he told my ex that i'll always want to talk. I told my friend what my ex had said to me, and she said that it looks like he's either a- trying to destroy us or b- trying to protect me from my ex. sine he knows that my ex has a reputation and blah blah.
i didn't think anything of it till she mentioned it, and i'm guessing it could go both ways?
i asked when does he do this and why he didnt defend me.. and my ex told me had done it twice in the last month, and he changes the subject in his way of defending me.. i told him what my friend said.. and he said it could go both ways.
i have my wall up as it is...and i want to say something to him..and ask him why he threw me under the bus like that..yet i didnt, which is a first.
why could he possibly tell him how i once was? (link)
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If he doesn't want you he needs to be keeping his nose out of your business. Who knows why he does it.
Could be just to make you miserable. It could be either of those reasons or something just in his own head.
I don't blame you for keeping the wall up.Tell him to mind his own business. If he were really interested he'd be a part of your life instead of a pain in your ass. :)
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i dated this guy for almost 9 months. he ended it with me last saturday and i was completely devestated. he said that he doesn't have that "spark" anymore but he still loves me "more than a friend but enough to be in a relationship with" and he wants to hang out alot over the summer and still be really close friends and he said that fate will take it from there and if its meant to be blahblah...so my question is do feelings really change like that? and can i do anything this summer to help get them back? like maybe take him to the place we first hung out? idk help pleasee.
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If this guy thinks the "spark" lasts very long, he is going to be very disappointed in life! The spark is replaces by the very feelings he describes. As you get to know a person that "spark" just goes away. Like the new car smell. LOL. You still love the car, but you get used to it. Bad analogy I suppose, but there it is.
Just be yourself when hanging out. As he said if its meant to be it will be. He will mature. When he does he will realize how wrong he is.
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Check out some of the sites in this search. Maybe even send them to him. :)
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I just found out that my exboyfriend that I just broke up with becouse he wanted to have sex with me when we have only been going out a week and now i have found out that he's cheated on me with at least 2 girls and he's got one of them pregnant iam so mad what should i do how do I get over it? (link)
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Since he is an ex boyfriend, you hold your head high and be happy you got out when you did! Your
instincts were right. He was a jerk only after one thing. He was irresponsible about it, and now may have gotten someone pregnant. Thank goodness you were smart enough that it wasn't you!
You can be sad he wasn't the great guy you probably once thought he might be, but be happy he is history!
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is dermatology just for your face? (link)
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Good question. No. Dermatologists take care of skin.
Any skin, anywhere.
Not just acne, which most people associate them with, but scars, rashes, wrinkles, you name it. :)
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Last october, my boyfriend got laid off from his job that he had been at for 5 years. (The reason they chose him to be laid off is BS because it was for personal conflict reasons within the company but that is another story). anyway, the company promised him his job back after the slow winter season.(he could return in spring). I would like to add that he is well known and known to be on top at his trade within this county. He collected unemployment but opted to wait for his job back because he was getting paid better at that company than he would at any other(almost twice as much on a good month). Well, spring has sprung and we recently saw an add in the paper hiring for his position. He never was officially fired, and his pic is still on the wall at work. Question is, is this illegal and should he do something about this? He even called them and asked if they had hired anyone and it was a simple "no", and it did not sound as if they have any intention of giving him his job back. if this helps, the business is a cooperative and he is a share holder. (link)
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Sounds to me as if they took the opportunity of a lay off to get rid of him. He needs to call and ask if he will be back to work soon. If they say no then he should move on.
You can speak to a lawyer about it. Chances are that unless he is a union member of some sort, he no longer works for that company. He may get something out of it, but its doubtful. Unfortunately, most companies can hire and fire all they want to. He just had a boss who was to chicken to come right out and say so.
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Hey guys!! I have a birth control question. I got prescribed, and my doctor told me to start it the Friday after my period. But my period ended that Friday, so I was ganna wait until this Friday.
But I forgot already! Good start, right? So then I started it today, and my question is.. if this can hurt me? I'm not having sex, so I don't mean that in relation to pregnancy.
And can I drink on the pill? (link)
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It won't hurt you. It may make your next period late, so don't panic. You can drink if you are on the pill.
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