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prom...getting back together..
so the day before we broke up we were kissing and he said "i feel like a jerk for saying this but i want you so bad right now" (guessing as in sex). we're going to prom together this weekend...do you think he'd like it if i did things with him? i want to. but we broke up like 2 weeks ago so would he not want that?
17/f and 17/m
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Of course this is a decision you have to make for yourself. If you think it might save the relationship, it won't.
All teen boys want sex. Most will take it when offered. It just does not mean the same thing to guys as it does to girls. To them it is a bodily function to us girls it has more meaning emotionally. I know that isn't a good way to explain it, but trust me, we girls just give it more meaning than it has.
He will either hang around just a little longer and use you to get more sex, or he will have sex with you and then dump you. Either way YOU get hurt in the end. He has already made the decision that he wants to break up. You just need to accept it.
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I'm sure he would still want to do stuff. But you need to be emotionally ready for being snubbed afterward or being 'used' just for that. If you don't want to get into a friends with benefits type deal, I wouldn't do it. You're not dating now so he has no commitment to doing it only with you.
Hope this helps!
Darby(:
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The first thing to ask yourself is: am i emotionally ready to accept what may happen if i do? If you are, and you are old enough and mature enough to handle what may come, go for it! If not, well...try finding other ways to pleasure eachother.
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