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I queefed and now he hates me.
My friend and I always have "queefing contests" and the other night we were all sitting around with friends, having some drinks - and she told me to queef - so I did. Now the guy I'm into won't talk to me. He's grossed out! WHY?
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I honestly have to say that I have never heard of sharing that particular bodily function with anyone else, let alone a large group of people!
Think of what it would be like if you were sitting around with some guys, and they started to have a contest to see who could pee the furthest. They all just whip it out and start peeing (you're outside). Would that be a turn-on? Likely, you would find yourself slightly grossed out, even on a subconscious level.
Thing is, what our bodies do is private. You probably wouldn't share the details of your latest menstrual period with a guy... why share something else coming out of your reproductive organs?
Doing things like this is vulgar and unladylike. Any man of quality is looking for a lady. Someone he can bring home to his parents.
Ways to win him back: first off, curb the noises. Don't curse, or talk dirty in general. The more he doesn't know about you, the more interesting you'll be.
Show him that you can be a lady, and he'll be into you again!
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I agree with Darby. Its one thing if it happens naturally in private. Its another when its done deliberately in a room full of people.
There are some guys who will go for public craziness. Most however, still want a girl who acts like a lady in public the majority of the time.
Be yourself, find someone with a matching personality. :)
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That's really gross to guys. Especially when girls randomly do that for fun. It even grosses me out, to be honest, ha. My friends were doing that at a party once and we all thought it was really awkward. That's just weird to guys and he's probably not comfortable with it. He most likely thinks you're immature now so he's not interested.
Darby
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