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About a month ago, my boyfriend came over. My parents loved him and approved of him. He was basically family. Well we were on the couch one night and he was feeling me up nd my dad walked in and saw it. He got mad and took my boyfriend straight home and made me, him, nd my mom sit down and talk. I mean i've never done anything like that before and I was totally clean. Now my parents trust me again but when I asked them if they would ever trust him again, they said he’ll have to come over and me and him can talk it out *meaning my boyfriend and my dad) my boyfriend wants to talk it out with him so that’s not a big deal. But how can I get things normal again between my parents and my boyfriend? My dad can be EXTREMELY stubborn sometimes so I don’t think a “little talk” will patch things up. And im afraid that my dad will say something to him and my boyfriend will feel awkward around me and my family even if my parents DO forgive him. (link)
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Your dad is after all a guy. I think he will be reasonable about it and since your boyfriend is willing I think you should have them talk. :)
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If you drink lots of water while you're on your period, will that increase you flow? decrease? Does it do anything?? I rate 5's for first 5 ppl who give decent answers (link)
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Doesn't do anything at all. Maybe you might slosh a little. Sorry, its late and i'm getting weird, :)
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Hi my dog Jefferson, Great Pyrenees 10 years old died on May 5th. He had a tumor in his foot and on may 4th he didnt move and wouldnt eat. So I got really scared and thought about what could happen. Then the next morning he was outside with his tongue out of his mouth with a pool of saliva. His blinking reflexing weren't working anymore and he was breathing very shallow. Well when I got home he had died. And it was very sad for me and I cried a lot for the first 2 days. Now I just only cry when I see his hair somewhere. I really miss him and I've had him for 9 1/2 years. I dont know what to do right now because I miss him soo much and I need advice to make me feel better. (link)
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He was sick and now he is at peace. That doesn't help a whole lot but maybe a little bit. I know what you are going through, my old dog died a couple of months ago. He couldn't see anymore and had to be helped up and down the stairs but I still miss him a lot. :(
It does get easier. They are so much a part of your family aren't they? And such good friends. I have actually gotten more upset over a pet dying than some people I've known. I think its because they are so loyal and good to us. We never doubt they love us. One day when you feel like it, maybe you can get another dog. Jefferson would probably like knowing that you've given another dog a good home. :)
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I am a 13 year old girl and I have a really close male friend. We hug all the time and a lot of people think we are a couple. I love him to bits as a friend but I don't like him as more than that. Recently I have started to 'like' this guy. I think I might have a small chance with him but there is a problem. My male friend has a crush on me and as we all hang out together it would make things really uncomfortable. I don't want to lose my friendship with him but if I got together with this other guy then we wouldn't be as close and I don't want to hurt him. What should I do? (link)
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If he has a crush on you I don't suppose it will make much difference WHO you date. If it isn't him it will be awkward at first. He will get over it though, may even make him realize that you are serious about not dating him. :)
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My best friend is ALWAYS with her boyfriend. I'm never alone with her, hes alwas with her. Well, my grandma died on Tuesday. Wednesday I went to school and then to a baseball game with my best friend after. We didn't talk about my grandma at all. Thursday and Friday I was at the funeral and viewing. I wanted to see her Friday night and I find out shes going to a baseball game with her boyfriend. Is that ignorent or what? If his grandma died shed be spending even more time with him, she doesn't care about me and I just started crying my eyes out. I wasn't even crying at the funeral, I cried because she wasnt there for me. We've been so close for 3 years, and her boyfriend and her have been going out for 6 months. Am I being sensitive or am I right? What should I do? (link)
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I think she should have acknowledged your grandmas passing but everything else is normal. You will do the same when you get a boyfriend. You simply want to spend every waking moment with them! I do think you should talk to her and tell her how you feel though. It wouldn't hurt to put aside a couple of hours here and there to spend time alone together as friends. Go shopping or whatever. :)
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Hey. Im 14 and im in 9th grade.
I have 3 best friends and everything was great, until I started hanging out with this one girl, i'll call her Ashley. Well, I felt really bad for Ashley because her best friends,which are my friends too, stopped liking her because she REALLY got on their nerves. I thought that was wrong for them to not like her, but now im starting to see why. She is VERY annoying and shes just mean to her friends and follows people all the time. I can't be her friend anymore because when I was, my 3 best friends thought I liked her better. I also can't be friends with her because she is a total GEEK! I know this is mean but I tried telling her I couldn't be her friend and she didn't really get the message. Instead she asked me to go to an amusment park with her 2 days later. I don't want to hurt her feelings but I just can't be friends with her! What should I do?
*--Emily--* (link)
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I'm affraid hurting her feelings may be the only way. Talk to her. Tell her this is the reason you can't keep friends...then give her the scoop. She will hopefully straighten up her act and leave you alone. Good luck! :)
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Today this girl that I really don't like, but hang out with anyways, asked to see a note that my best friend had wrote me, that said stuff about her in it. ALOT of stuff. I said no because it was mine and she had no right seeing it, she took my purse dumped it out on the floor but I hid it in my desk, and then she randomly got into my desk and found it, I didn't want her to see it, and now I'm afraid my best friend's going to be mad at me, but I'm not sure because I really didn't do anything wrong, right? (link)
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No, you did nothing wrong. She did though. I hope you told her to find someone else to hang around with from now on. She had no right going through your personal property. :)
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Ok, well I started going out with this guy, mark, about 2 years ago. It seemed like a normal relationship.Then i found out that he was married and had a son who is 3. His wife found out and called me. I had no idea that he was married. It didn't seem like he just wanted to cheat on his wife because we didn't even have sexual relations until we were a year into the relationship. I really thought that everything was normal. Well she called me and I tried to explain the situation to her. Of course she was angry (who wouldn't be) so it didn't work very well. I just took everything she was saying to me so she could let her anger out so then I would maybe get a chance to explain. Then I heard mark come in. I don't think he knew she was on the phone. Well she started yelling at him then I heard him scream at her and hit her. I could hear him beating her over the phone. So I called the police on him. He was arrested and is currently in jail. Well he called me and told me that he knew it was me and that if I didn't help him get bail he would get one of his friends to kill his wife, his son, and me. I called his wife and he told her the same thing. I know that he get himself out he has very powerful friends. So, is there anyway that I can make sure that he doesn't get bail and is there anyway I can get protection for his son and his wife?
I will rate high and thank you in advance (link)
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You told his wife she can take care of it on her end. You need to call the cops and let them know he is threatening you and all. I think it will taken care of by them and they can have your place watched if you want. You can also file charges about it too.
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Hi my name is Jess im 13 years old and i like this kid who is 14 hes really hot and i love his personality. He likes me and i like him i asked him out and he said yes but he wants to get to know me better. so for the past 2 weeks be got to know eachother more and more. So now when i ask him to go out with me he smiles. What can i do to get him to say yes i really love him. Help (link)
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Keep getting to know him. Tell him to ask you out when he's ready to. :)
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ok well, i live in PA, and i was in new jeresy at six flags today. Anyway well i was on medusa and this kid kept staring at me while we were waiting in line. Then when we got off, my friend went the other way and i felt really sick. So i went over to a tree and dropped my stuffed animal i bought and started throwing up. So he came over even though i didnt know him and put his hand on my back and he was help my hair back and picked up my animal..and then when i was done i looked up at him and he was smiling at me. I said sorry, but its like, it's okay come here, and he took me over to where him and his friends were standing, and he sent his friend to go buy me something to settle my stomach.. then after thati left and eventually i was in line for nitro and him and his friends were like 5 people behind me and he came up and put his hand on my shoulder and he was like, are you gonna be able to handle this one? Then when we got off i was walking down the stairs and i was like stumbling and hes like, you okay there drunky? and we started laughing, and then we split up again and then later we went on this ride that sends you over the lake, and i ended up getting broken away from the people i was with and i had to sit with him, and the sun was setting and it was so pretty. But then anyway, we were leaving, and i said bye, and i had left my phone with him because i was afraid i would drop it in the lake, and i opened it and i was flipping through the numbers, and it said tony with a heart next to it and his number. Just wondering, what does this mean? (link)
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I guess maybe he wants you to call him. I don't know if its wise or not though. If he lives very far away you won't be seeing him anytime soon. I suppose you could be friends though. :)
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I met this guy online and i really like him...he is really sweet and he asked me out...i said yes and i havent told my friends yet. The thing is they might think it's kind of wierd or strange that I met a guy online that I have never met before and actually talked to him..because they think that you shouldn't do that. Should I tell them or just keep it a secret to myself??
Thanks a lot!!
Confused (link)
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I think you should tell someone. Never meet anyone you meet on line alone. He could be a 50 yo pervert for all you know.You need to watch the news. I don't think you should meet him either. I think it is very dangerous. BUT, if you decide to do it anyway DO NOT GO ALONE!!! :)
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I am 18yr old girl in my second year college.i was a victim of child marriage 4 years ago.my husband died in a road accident 2 years ago.but i have tried to be normal after that and happy with good friends until last month.my professors(3 of them) have started to misbehave badly to me passing objectionable comments.one of them even proposed me and said he was in deep love with me.i even went to the extent of complaining to the principal who warned all 3 of them severely.neither the pricipal nor the professors know about my past life till now.in between all this,i fell in love with my batchmate who refused my love for sure.my love is very well known to those professors too.
now im in my home town for my 6 months training.a week back i recieved a call from mr.x(one of those professors) who had proposed me and asked if i was a widow.i was shocked for a moment as to how he came to know about it but finally had to accept.after that his approach has totally changed.he says that my love was just a lie to avoid him,that i was flirt and he started to link several of my senoir boys with me..this made me burst with anger and i scolded him for having abused me and hung up the phone.later he started msging me using very bad language....
im really hurt and depressed about all that had happened.the worst thing is this particular professor will be handling my subjects when i return to college after six months.so im afraid if he will be a threat to my career in case i proceed with any further actions..my parents are not aware of any of these incidents..
please help me..im desperate (link)
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I think you need to go over the principles head on this one. He had a chance to fix it and didn't get it done. I suposed you could threaten them with harrassment charges, since you could be graded badly in class for shunning these jerks. I would also tell your parents. They may be of help to you here. :)
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Ok guys here's the scope I got this girl that has had a crush on me for like all year. We got to know each other and after like 6 months we decided to get ingaged, but we were hiding it from her mother. I am in the army and I believe in being up front with ppl. She is to scared to even tell her mother we were going to start dating and now this. I am leaving to go to some training in like 3 weeks, and I can't wait for her to get some courage and tell her mother what's what. I decided that she must be ashamed of me, I broke up with her and called off the engagment. I did this because i don't really know her like I would like to and every thing seems to be an issue with her. Ok guys do your thing. And don't worry I always rate my ppl good. If you ever need some personal avdive you can talk to me I'm always straight forward. l8er (link)
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I think you did the right thing calling off the engagement. I don't know why she wouldn't tell her parents but, if she couldn't be honest enough with you to give you a darn good reason for not saying anything...
I really doubt that she was ashamed of you but siomething wasn't right. Good luck with your training. :)
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the guy i like told my friend that he likes me but he doesnt want to go out with me and he wont tell anyone why i think its cuz he realli doesnt like me but w/e. and now my friends are asking and he says idk witha smile so i dont know. what should i make of this situation? (link)
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I think he probably likes you if he says he does.
Could be he just isn't ready to date right now, or maybe just getting over someone.
Start talking to him whenever possible. Get to know him and let him get to know you. Then maybe YOU can ask him out.
I think i'd tell your friends to stop bugging him about it too...don't want him to get mad. :)
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ok, i have this friend, actually she is my girl friend, her name is kelly, and kelly is really good friends with amy. but amy is one of those people that her mom babies the HELL out of. and my mom keeps tellin me to try to stay away from those types of people cause in highschool and colage they are the ones who end up doing drugs-sex-alchohal (sp) ect... and i really want to keep kelly away from all that. But like i said, they are really good friends. i feel really bad for trying to break up their freindship, but i am affraid if kelly is exposed to all that, then she will too...im just really worried about her. should i go through with my plan to break them up (both friend wise and im posotive amy is atleast bi-if not completly a lesbien) or should i just try to ignore it and nothing will prolly happen. please help! (link)
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It is a big mistake to pick kellys friends for her. I don't think it is necessary though. I don't know why you are so worried about something that is so far in the future. Chances are very good that you won't still be dating kelly by then. Even if you are, the chances of both girls going to the same college are small.
Enjoy your girlfriend and don't worry about weather or not she will get into drugs or not. If she is from a caring family and has any values at all, whatever her friends do will not cause her to become like them. :)
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Well me and boyfriend have been goin out for 5 1/2 months. He comes over sometimes and when he does we always go out on the back patio, by ourselves, before his parents comes and gets him (we're both 13). And of course we always make-out... but sometimes it seems that someone is watching us. Like my parents are peeking through the window and i dont want my parents to sit there and watch me and my boyfriend make-out!!!!! I dont know for sure if theyve seen us or not but my mom said that from now on that we have to sit on the front porch and turn on the light. Kinda obvious, huh? Should i say something to my mom and/or dad or not? I just dont want to say anything to them if they havent seen us... :/ (link)
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I think you sit on the front porch with the light on and keep quiet. They may have seen you but, they aren't forbiding you from seeing him. Consider yourself lucky about that and live with being out front! :)
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OK yeah well im 15 and a female, yesterday my b/f n i got caught by his mom...we weren't really having sex yet but our pants were off..and we were jsut kinda messing around..and then his mom walks in and then she jsut walked in to his room and called him then like 10 seconds later his little sister(13) comes in to the room n tells me i have to leave the whole way home i cried i was so nervos/scared now i really think they hate me (his mom n sister) and his sister n i were freinds b4 yesterday and yeah i know i should applogize but i really don't know what to say...any advice at all would be helpfull...please (link)
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I don't know why you would apologize. You weren't the only one involved. I do think you should stay out of his room from now on. If his mom knew you were in there then she is the one to blame in my book.
Its nice if his family likes you...but not real important either. So long as he likes you that is what counts. :)
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14/m ive been going out with my gf for about 3 weeks now. i love her so much but we barely ever get to see each other since we go to dif schools. weve had wut u could call "intimate relationships" during the last few times we've been together haha. i like her a lot but with summer coming up & everything i dont know if i really wanna be held back from doing stuff with other girls because i am going out with someone that i see only about once a week. wut do u guys think i should i do? (link)
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If you want to see other girls then Yes, do break up with the current one. Better to do that than to cheat. It is best to be in a relationship with someone that you can actually have fun with. :)
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well about a month ago..my firend lorena had a party...it was so much fun..and nothing but lots and lots of dancing! well this guy scott picked me, and we were dacing! towards the end of the party, scott came up to me and introduced himself. i knew he was older, so before he got to ask my number i told him 2 ask me how old i am..he did..and i told him im only 14...she got all surprised n like walked off because he was dissapointed..before he left the party, he was like well you are very pretty, i had fun dancing wit you, but your juss too young for me...
now..last weekend my frend jessica seen him at another party, he asked for my number..and she gave him it..
this week @ skool, ive been talking to my frends (which are scotts friends too) they told me he has a 2 month old baby..and still talks to his baby-mama...
then tuesdae comes..and he texts me...so we texted that whole nite...n yesterday he shows up at my school...and he juss wasnt cute!..he looked so different from what i remember @ that party...i dont know what to do..because he is 18...with a baby...and hes trying to talk 2 me!...my frends dont like him...but i just dont know! (link)
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you might just inform him that he could go to jail if he doesn't leave you alone. That should cool his jets a little. If they don't then inform the school authorities that he is bugging you. It's their job to get rid of him. :)
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I know this is long but please don't skip it. Ok, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 years and we've known each other for 4. I just had a baby by him. He's willing to help and he's been trying but the problem is my parents. They are extremely religious and they said that he could have nothing to do with the baby. I was 16 at the time I got pregnant and he was 20. I am now almost 18 and he's 23. My parents said that if he got involved at all with Christian, our son, then they would have him arrested for rape. They said that the only way he can get involved is if he comes and asks for "my hand in marriage" We're not in love though and it's not right to marry someone just because your parents want you to. We know that we made a mistake but we are trying to be responsible about it. But my parents are making it difficult. My father is always at work and my mom is sick now so things are tough around here. I wanted to call my bf and see if he could take christian until things got better or maybe we could work something out but my dad flipped out and said that if i did he would have him arrested. They also took my keys and I had to listen to a lecture about jesus to get them back. They said that they would rather put Christian up for adoption than have him go to his father. My question is can my bf get arrested for rape even though it was a while ago and I dont' want him to be? And also if they put him up for adoption wouldn't his father get rights to him anyways?
Please help me
*will rate high* (link)
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So long as you are under 18 they can get him in trouble. If you are close to having a birthday then I would wait.
If you won't be 18 for awhile you can get what are called emancipation paperwork done that make you legally responsible for yourself. It would mean moving into your own place with your baby, but might be worth it in the long run.
Your parents sound a little fanatical. I think getting yourself and the baby out of there as soon as possible is a must. The more attatched they become to him they harder they are going to fight you when you do decide to move out.
I could be wrong but I don't believe they have ANY say so about adoption. Even if they did the father would have to agree. Of course they could threaten him will arrest to get him to sign.
I really don't understand their thinking. You would think that they would like for both the babys parents to be involved in his upbringing. Of course if you decide at some point to get married you would take the baby from their home. They may already be thinking along those lines.
I hope everything works out for you. I was your age when I had my first...if you need anything else feel free to ask me. :)
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