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i hate my best friend
My best friend is ALWAYS with her boyfriend. I'm never alone with her, hes alwas with her. Well, my grandma died on Tuesday. Wednesday I went to school and then to a baseball game with my best friend after. We didn't talk about my grandma at all. Thursday and Friday I was at the funeral and viewing. I wanted to see her Friday night and I find out shes going to a baseball game with her boyfriend. Is that ignorent or what? If his grandma died shed be spending even more time with him, she doesn't care about me and I just started crying my eyes out. I wasn't even crying at the funeral, I cried because she wasnt there for me. We've been so close for 3 years, and her boyfriend and her have been going out for 6 months. Am I being sensitive or am I right? What should I do?
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I think she should have acknowledged your grandmas passing but everything else is normal. You will do the same when you get a boyfriend. You simply want to spend every waking moment with them! I do think you should talk to her and tell her how you feel though. It wouldn't hurt to put aside a couple of hours here and there to spend time alone together as friends. Go shopping or whatever. :)
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Try talking to her, tell her that you need her! She should already be there for you though. Sometimes girls get obsessed with their boyfriends, lots of my friends do that, its normal but she still shouldnt be doing that to you.
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Let me tell you what i think she is a selfcentered jerk.She does not deserve you as a friend.If she was a true friend she would be at your side,and she would'nt let her boyfriend get between your realationship. What you need to do is tell her what you feel so she can know and how to fix THE PROBLEM.
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You're right friends should always come before boy friends. To be honest and to give her the benefit of the doubt she probably doesn't realise she's doing it. She needs to be told gently otherwise you're going to continue to be unhappy. You need to sit her down and calmly explain that you've felt a bit left out recently and she wasn't there for you when you needed her. Don't turn it into an argument just quietly explain it. If you don't want to talk to her about it send her an email or write her a letter. She's your best friend she'll come to her senses soon enough!
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I'm sorry about your grandmother.
Anyway, You're right. Friends are more important than boyfriends. She should be there for you during this emotional and hard time.
You should talk to her and let her know that she is hurting you by not spending time with you anymore. Let her know that it's fine if she spends time with her boyfriend, but that you need her support and she should be there for you.
If she argues or is mean in some way, I would reconsider your friendship. You deserve a friend who is there for you.
I hope I helped and if you have any more questions, leave one in my inbox!
*Manders*
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