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How do I get rid of her?
Hey. Im 14 and im in 9th grade.
I have 3 best friends and everything was great, until I started hanging out with this one girl, i'll call her Ashley. Well, I felt really bad for Ashley because her best friends,which are my friends too, stopped liking her because she REALLY got on their nerves. I thought that was wrong for them to not like her, but now im starting to see why. She is VERY annoying and shes just mean to her friends and follows people all the time. I can't be her friend anymore because when I was, my 3 best friends thought I liked her better. I also can't be friends with her because she is a total GEEK! I know this is mean but I tried telling her I couldn't be her friend and she didn't really get the message. Instead she asked me to go to an amusment park with her 2 days later. I don't want to hurt her feelings but I just can't be friends with her! What should I do?
*--Emily--*
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tell her that she keeps bothering you. tell her how you feel. if she just ignores you, ignore her back! good luck<3
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I'm affraid hurting her feelings may be the only way. Talk to her. Tell her this is the reason you can't keep friends...then give her the scoop. She will hopefully straighten up her act and leave you alone. Good luck! :)
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Tell her everything
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i've been in the same type of situation this girl is in, and it is not a fun place to be. what i suggest doing is sitting her down and talking to her and telling her EVERYTHING she has done that bugs you and your friends, and then give her a chance to change. she will get the picture and be scared that she'll be left all alone with no friends, and she'll work her behind off trying to get you to like her again. also, if you think she's a geek, try giving her beauty tips (descreetly) and help her to not be known as a geek anymore. just dont abandon her. she cant change on her own, and if you help her, she'll be forever grateful to you. Be nice, or she might go into depression like i did. good luck with this.
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Why not try correcting her mistakes? Tell her how people really feel about her? Noone wants to be in a friendship where a party is miserable, friends don't make other friends miserable. STOP BEING SUCH A WUSS AND TELL HER STRAIGHT UP!
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ok emily if you dont want to hurt this girl then just ignore her and if she asks you to go anywhere sya you already have plans or something and sooner or later she will figure it out and you wont technicly be hurting her because you didn't say anything.
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well, be nice, don't let her down quickly, start hanging around her less, then less and less, but still be nice and always make her happy don't get her upset, it will make it worse-totally tennis
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You shouldn't not want to be someones friend just because everyone esle doesn't like her but i suppose if she's mean to people thats a pretty valid reason so here goes: Don't tell her again that you don't want to be her friend as obviously that didn't work last time. Everytime she invites you somewhere just make an excuse and if she tries to talk to you obviously talk to her and be civilised as it'd be out of order not to but don't talk to her as much as you used to. She'll get the message and soon find friends that like her for who she is!
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Hahhaa, not only is she a GEEK shes a retard! She cant understand the facts of being turned down.
But one question. Just cuz she's a geek doesnt mean you cant be her friend you asshole.
Quit judging people by their interests.
Unless by geek you mean loser. But, still befriend the losers too. Most are nice just too shy to talk.
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