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Talk to Parents or not...? Well me and boyfriend have been goin out for 5 1/2 months. He comes over sometimes and when he does we always go out on the back patio, by ourselves, before his parents comes and gets him (we're both 13). And of course we always make-out... but sometimes it seems that someone is watching us. Like my parents are peeking through the window and i dont want my parents to sit there and watch me and my boyfriend make-out!!!!! I dont know for sure if theyve seen us or not but my mom said that from now on that we have to sit on the front porch and turn on the light. Kinda obvious, huh? Should i say something to my mom and/or dad or not? I just dont want to say anything to them if they havent seen us... :/
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I think you sit on the front porch with the light on and keep quiet. They may have seen you but, they aren't forbiding you from seeing him. Consider yourself lucky about that and live with being out front! :) ]
First off you are 13!And since you are getting older you should expect your parents to do these kinda things from now on. ]
What i think you should do is say Mom(or dad whichever you choose) "My boyfriend and I would like a little privacy, and i hope you understand.Maybe sometime we could all get to know eachother a little better." I really hop this helps!! ]
Then dont! ]
Ask your mom why she wants you guys to sit on the front porch with the light on. If she says she seen you tell her she probably did it when dhe was your age too i mean everyone does. ]
It seems to me that your mom might have seen you either that or I'm sure they can tell what you would be doing. They have already been through dating. It might be a good idea to just sit down and have a discussion with your mom, that way if it turns out that she hasn't seen you it won't look as though you are accusing her. Good luck, I hope I helped.
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