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Friendship/lovelife problem.
I am a 13 year old girl and I have a really close male friend. We hug all the time and a lot of people think we are a couple. I love him to bits as a friend but I don't like him as more than that. Recently I have started to 'like' this guy. I think I might have a small chance with him but there is a problem. My male friend has a crush on me and as we all hang out together it would make things really uncomfortable. I don't want to lose my friendship with him but if I got together with this other guy then we wouldn't be as close and I don't want to hurt him. What should I do?
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If he has a crush on you I don't suppose it will make much difference WHO you date. If it isn't him it will be awkward at first. He will get over it though, may even make him realize that you are serious about not dating him. :)
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wow have i heard this before! this guy name murphy liked me and i liked his friend josh, well we all hung out and all. i decided to go ut with josh, and ever since then things have not been the same with me and murphy((even after me adn josh broke up)). i would say not go out with the other guy. You will probly break up and then your friendship with your really close guy friend will never be the same, trust me. I know its hard trying not to like someone more than a friend, but if you want to keep your good friendship with that guy, i would say get over the other guy!! hope it helped. bye!! ohh please lemme know how everything goes!!!
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dont go out with this guy just yet. tell your friend about the guy and that you like him so that he knows you like someone else. be gentle though becuase if he likes you he will find it abit hard to find out you like someone else. Tell him that you love him as a best friend but not a boyfriend, yo never know you may end up going out with him one day becuase relationships usually start just mates!!! lol
luv shelly
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