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Last night my school played Tomball at our playoffs baseball game. There was so rivalry going on you wouldn't believe. Girls got slapped, people were told off, our field was trashed with Tomball banners which were not supposed to be there, brooms were taken, cars got rear-ended, and people were cut off. All of which got out drill team in trouble.
Well, at drill team practice today, our coach was furious. I mean crazy mad. She gave us a 2 hour lecture about how "ladies" are supposed to act; Cy-Falls drill team ladies.
Well, we play them again tonight to settle the score. Of course, all those same people are going to be there. We want to get them back for all the crap they did to our field because we play them on their field tonight. What can we go that will get them back but keep us out of trouble?
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You show that you are bigger and better than they are by doing nothing at all. Show them who the more mature team is. :)
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OK, Ill try again, with no offensive stuff.
This girl i know did something. And now shes flirting with me alot more, i dont know if she wants to go out with me, or just flirt. (link)
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Ask her out and see. I don't know the something she did but that is the only way you'll know for sure. :)
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i'm currently a senior in high school (counting down the last few days before graduation!) and over the last year, i've met an incredible friend. i met him last august, but over the last nine months, we have grown to have the most complex friendship i have ever had in my entire life; we immediately connected, both having similar interests in literature, music, opera, coffee, etc. he is a year younger than i am, thus when i leave for college, he will be in his last year of high school.
he is currently going through a lot of emotional pain and stress in his life. i admire him him so much for all he does; his parents have just recently separated and he takes care of his two younger sister. i see how he takes charge, takes on more responsibilities than either of his parents do. in addition, he has grown to be an extremely central part of my life.
i'm going to be a good five hours away from my friend next year. he isn't very close with many other kids in our school, or even outside of school, thus i know our separation is going to hurt him (as well as me!). i keep telling him i'm going to come back and visit, that i want to see him and i'm looking forward to seeing him in the school musical next year.. he insists that once i'm gone, i'm not going to come back; he insisted the other day he feels as though he is inferior to me (which i don't understand, considering he is extremely smart, did much better on his sats than i ever did, and has a musical gift).
i have seen how he has lost a lot of people in his life; he refrains from expressing much emotion around me because i believe he is afraid to let me in, afraid of losing me.. how can i assure him that i will keep in touch, that i will come back, that he won't lose me? i tell him constantly that he means to much to me, that he is unlike anyone i have ever met.. but i fear i tell him too often and it all sounds so fake.. (link)
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I'm sure that he keeps saying you aren't coming back because he wants you to tell him you are. It sounds like people have maybe done that to him in the past. Keep reassuring him and when you are gone keep in touch. The internet makes the world so small these days! I think that once he hears from you and you come back a couple of times he will feel better about it. Until then he is going to wonder though. You will just have to prove him wrong. :)
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My friend Cindy, is kinda always the center of attention. well she don't get that much attention but... Ok! She sometimes asks me to come somewher with her and so i ask my mom and she said yes, so i go with her, she said we were going to her uncle's house who is a famous foot ball player. We were ther right so, an insy bit of her family is there, and some other people were there, so this 1 time music was playing and everyone wanted her to dance, and she all shy and said she din't want to. then all of a sudden she goes up ther and sart doing the chicken head dance.But my piont is, I don't want to go anywhere with her if she just going to end up every body pays attention here. Cindy also acts the same, thinking she the center of attention. But if she tells or writes me a note asking me if i want to go any where else with her,and some of her family, and her family's friends are there then what should I say? Right now I am almost close to not being her friend because I hate the way she act, Cause she also think she pretty and act like she....OOOOOOOOhhhhhh!!!! Ok I'm just saying she's REALLY starting to PISS me off right now. (link)
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Maybe a better way to put is that your friend Cindy is a major embarrassment to you!
If you are with her family then they probably think she is good for a laugh or two. Just laugh along with them.
If she does it other places then you need to tell her to stop. People are probably laughing at her because they think she is just a goof. Tell her that you find her behavior embarrassing. If she doesn't stop then I guess not going out in public places with her will be your only option.
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soz if this is a bit long, but really need help. I RATE HIGH!!
im 15 f and yesterday me and my dad went out and after we went to the pub. after about 1 and a half hours at the pub we decided 2 ring my mum to tell her how long we will be. she was fine with that. and then about 15 mins later we decided 2 ring her again and ask her what pizza she would like and if she would order it (we deceided earlier in the day that we wonted pizza 4 tea)n she said she'd already had her tea, so when we got home, she started shouting at my dad and saying things like 'i wish you came home earlier' and things like that. they both started arguing and got me and ma brother upset (hez 11) and now they are not talking, but my worry is that we are going on holiday this sat and i want them to be friends again! SOMEONE PLZE HELP.
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I think your trip will be fine. Mom's and dads fight over stupid things now and then but they do get over them pretty quickly. Don't worry to much about it, I'm sure they will be over it really soon. :)
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okay, so i was at zootopia last nite, and i think i did something wrong. i threw my bra at jesse mccarthey. and well i was drunk and he seemed pretty annoyed at what i did. like its not like i'm ever going to see him again but it was jsut do strnage because i was there with my boyfriend. and he wants to break up with me. (link)
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Throwing your bra at a concert may not have been a smart move but It isn't horrible either.
The boyfriend must be jealous. Which is kind of silly since the chances of you meeting the object of your toss are really rare. I think you need to talk with him about this. If he still wants to break up then maybe he's to immature to be your boyfriend. Hope the talk goes well for you! :)
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My dad has a substance abuse problem. But he won't admit it. In fact, he lies about it and says he doesn't do anything! My dad uses chewing tobacco. That's not TOO bad, but he swallows it. And he goes through a can in a day and a half. If you're familiar, chewing tobacco (Copenhagen) is just as expensive as a pack of cigarettes. My family lives on a farm, we have farm animals, and we're not rich. We don't have the extra pocket money to buy things like tobacco. I've tried to get my dad to stop. Not only is it irritating that he lies and says he doesn't use tobacco, he's putting his health in danger. My family wouldn't be able to make it if he were to die – we'd have no source of income. I've tried talking to my dad, I've tried talking to my mom, I've tried throwing the junk away when I find it... I've written letters to my dad etc, etc. Last night, I found a BUNCH of his Copenhagen hidden in his boat. (No, I wasn't looking for it; I was taking care of the rabbits – which sit on the boat) I opened all the cans of tobacco and put duck, fish and rabbit food in the tobacco. This morning, all of the cans had been thrown away. I don't know what else to do! I can't keep searching for tobacco and putting duck food in it! He denies that he uses tobacco and my mom can't do anything about it. He's probably mad at me because I put duck food in his tobacco (I'm the only one who would do something like that) ... what do I do now? It really scares me that he's doing this. I don't want to lose my dad. (link)
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You may not like your dad chewing tobacco but there isn't much you can do about it. You can tell him you don't like it but, unless he wants to quit chewing he won't. My advice is to mention your concerns once in awhile but don't obsess over it. I might also mention that by putting stuff in his tobacco you are only costing the family more money...he will just go buy more. :)
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18 and F, y'all and needing advice with a boy. Same thing.
Long story short, I've got a guy friend who's a big flirt. This wouldn't bother me if it wasn't for one thing -- he's really physical about it. He does stuff like rubbing my back and kissing my head, weird stuff that my other guy friends, even the flirts, don't do. And the worst part about it that he's got a girlfriend and god knows what she thinks.
This all makes me a little uncomfortable, but I don't know if I should bring it up with my friend, because I don't want things to be awkward between us -- and maybe I'm overreacting (see, I used to like this guy way back when). Plus, since I'm going to college this summer, I probably won't be seeing him as much and it won't be such a problem...so I'm thinking maybe I should just shut my trap about it, but I'm not sure that's the best idea. What do you guys think? (link)
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I think if your uncomfortable with it you definitely say something to him. You don't have to be rude about it or anything, just tell him it makes you uncomfortable...especially since he has a girlfriend. If he cares for her, he may just lose her if he keeps it up. :)
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okay; here we go. i have been dating this guy *Q for about nine months now. We tend to disagree constantly. He hates when i am by my friends or talks to another guy. My friends view him as controlling, and over-protective; which i am starting to see. It is just so hard for me to end it. I was thinking of writing a note to him, because i'd get too emotion on the phone or in person. &&__ how he is he'd try to change my mind into staying together. but i really don't want that, i have just been scared to admit it. {{sorry if this sounds wordy, its really hard to explain}} I just would appreciate it if you guys had any ideas to make the breakup note not soo mean, but to the point where he gets the idea. any ideas would be great :-D
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Just tell him exactly how you feel. I think you should write the letter, but I think you should be there when he reads it so you can answer any questions he might have. :)
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theres this kid in my school (one year older) that last year asked me out..at the moment i didnt "truley" like him..but i kind of did. but i still said no. then this year came by and we became really close friends, and now im starting to like him..but he doesnt feel the same way? did i already lose my chance? waht should i do?
I RATE WELL=)
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He may like you just fine. The thing is yuo turned him down once so he's gonna fear rejection again. If you want to go out with him, you'll probably have to ask him out. :)
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I’ve never been kissed and I was wondering if that is a turn off for guys (if they know). I personally find it embarrassing because I am 15/f. So my second question is, is it stupid that I haven’t kissed anyone yet, at my age? (link)
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No it isn't stupid. Don't be embarrassed about it. It will happen. I don't think guys even think about if a girl has been kissed or not. They may worry about OTHER things girls might have done...but not kissing! :)
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I got over somebody perhaps two weeks ago and decided to move on with my life. Moving on materialized in a new matter with a friend of a friend, and we started going out. At the same time everything else in my life has been going awry, and I don't feel attracted to this person anymore. I'm extremely confused right now, but if I break up with him I'll hurt his feelings and since he's part of the circle, my friends will make me feel bad about it forever. I'm beginning to think I have no sexuality at all, and he wants to do so much stuff. I just feel like getting away from him, not that I don't like him as a person. His attempts at romance only succeed in making me sick to my stomach with self disrespect.
I just want things to be the way they were. I don't want the status of having a bf, or being in a relationship. I cannot act all happy when everything else in my life is falling down around me.
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Just tell him you have so much happening in your life right now that you don't want a steady boyfriend. Don't stay in a relationship just to spare his feelings. It isn't fair to either of you. My guess is you just jumped back in a little before you were ready to. Talk to him and tell him what you feel. :)
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ok so last january my boyfriend dumped me and i was so upset because i really loved him but now im going out with someone else and everytime like someone talks about who they are going out with and about going on dates and everything i dont think about my boyfriend i think about my ex-boyfriend and i think i really still love but i really like my boyfriend too and my ex-boyfriend has a girlfriend now and i know he definitley doesnt like me anymore because he doesnt even talk to me i just dont know what to do....help me please!! (link)
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You will still think of him now and again. Don't worry about it and don't let it come between you and your current guy. :)
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i was on myspace and i was reading my boyfriends comments and i noticed a new one from a girl in my grade. it was saying thank you. so i go to her page and i see that he commented on hers saying that she was beautiful and he thought she should know. is this weird at all? should i be mad? he is a very good boyfriend and always there for me and this is the only thing i have ever had to question about him..help! (link)
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I think you need to talk to him about it. Tell him you saw it and want to know exactly why he was telling her she was beautiful. Yea, it is a bit weird. You need to find out what is going on.
Might be nothing at all but you ask and see. :)
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I'm 17, and so is my girlfriend, though most of the time she's a lot more mature than me because she's gone through a lot more. I've messed up a lot in my relationship.. nothing extreme, theres just a lot about me that bothers my girlfriend, and she's gone through times when she puts serious thought into breaking up with me, and truthfully i dont see why she hasnt. but what bothers her is basically just a lot about me that i can't help much, like things that i do without thinking about it, and the fact that i use to be a big flirt and sometimes have trouble stopping that.
she's always been more than faithful to me, and has never strayed away.she's debating giving up trying with me and i love her more than anything, she's perfect for what i want to be and am trying to be. but i need to know whether or not i should just let her go and live without my complications or not. please respond quickly. (link)
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I have been married to a big flirt for a long time now! He doesn't care who it is so long as its female! It is part of his personality. I know he loves me and isn't going anywhere. I think you just need to make her feel like she is important to you. Make her feel special. Talk to her about it and try and make her realize that even though you flirt, it is her that you are dating. It is her that you want to spend time with. Flirting doesn't mean a thing. If she still wants to break up then I guess you haven't much choice. Don't give up though without discussing things with her first. :)
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Okay i have this really big jealously problem... i mean i don't get jealous but when people try to make me jealous i get REALLY REALLY MAD!! i dont' know why i get that way... but okay here's the story
On my class trip i liked this guy and i didn't like him anymore lets call him Billy well billy i think liked me and he sat by this girl lets call her nina well on the way back home nina and billy were sitting really reallly close and billy had his arm around her... nina is just like a slut and lets guys do whatever they want .. well i was sitting on the floor and he kept on looking at me to see if i saw what he was doing!!! it got me so mad!! i moved up to the front and started like yelling to my friends and telling them i was going to f****** kill him (haha i know a little out of hand) but i guess my question is .. is there a certain way why i get that way? or do i need some anger management!!!! lol
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Aw come on, you must have still liked him some or you wouldn't have gotten mad. Right? You did get jealous that's why you got mad. Otherwise you wouldn't have cared who he did with what.
The reason you get so mad is because you don't like it when people play games with you. Rightly so. So I doubt anger management is going to do you much good. You are normal. :)
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I'd tell you my name, but I want to keep this anonymous...so anyway, I have this problem with someone called, let's just say "Robert". Since last year, we had been going out for ten months, up until the 11th of May, when he quickly dumped me. He said that he wasn't happy with me, mainly because I have this little issue with stretching the truth....don't know why, I just do. I tried to tell him that I don't do that to him at all, and he wouldn't listen to me. He says that he still loves me and always will, but as of right now, he wants to be friends. It's been almost two weeks now and I understand where he's coming from, and I have tried to respect him and his decision, but I want to date him again. What should I do? I want him back. (link)
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You will probably have to change the truth stretching to get him back. With everyone not just him. It will be tough but you can do it with a little effort. Just start thinking about it before you say anything.
It doesn't look real good for your relationship. I don't think I would give up yet though. Work on telling it like it is instead of stretching the truth...Then approach him again. :)
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So prom was last night I went with the guy I like but as soon as his ex girlfriend came to our table he stood up to talk to her and she kept comming up to him all night. And I got upset because I was supposed to be his date and he was like we are just really good friends and he was like all touchy after I got upset what is up with that? And I also think I have a crush on my friends boyfriend because hes so sweet and im an old fashion type of girl and he opens doors for us and stuff and I dunno what should I do? I rate high! (link)
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You should probably forget about the friends boyfriend for now. That would cause oh so many problems.
I think your prom date was rude. I think he then tried to make up for it by being touchy. His ex is partially to blame for bothering him. If he isn't the rude type as a rule, he was probably just being polite to her...or trying to get rid of her! If you liked him other than that, and he asks you out again I think you should give him one more chance and see how it goes. You had every right to be upset about his behavior. I certainly would have been. :)
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well the kid i like says he dosnt think i like him because i dont show it too well but thats just the way i am when i like someone i act kind of rude but i laugh about it. How could i act more like i liked him?? (link)
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Most people don't like rude behavior OR being laughed at. You need to treat him nice and be friendly then he won't doubt your feelings. Could you be acting rude because you're nervous?
Just try to be nice and smile :)
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Hey Karen,
Well, this is the last instalment! I went to the club last night and he was there. I didn't go up to him because he was surrounded by people and I wanted to go and get a seat before someone else took it! Anyway, he walked past and saw me and came and sat down next to me. We talked for ages and it was lovely-he was so nice and we got on really well. He offered me a place to stay at his when I go to Sydney in October. Anyway, my friend (a guy) doesn't really like Will because he thinks he's been messing me about. So he kept on coming up to me and putting his arms around me and Will was getting really annoyed and giving him stares as if to ask him to go away! He went away and we carried on chatting and I asked him if he remembered anything about last night when my friend had told him I fancied him. He said he couldn't remember but I don't know if that's true because all his friends could remember! Anyway, my friend then came back and tried hugging me again and Will just stared at him and sighed and walked off-Aaaaagh! Anyway, I started talking to his flatmate and brought up last night. She said he has been with so many girls since he's been here. She said he genuinely liked me but didn't want anything to happen because he didn't want to start getting feelings just as he was leaving. He also didn't want to do anything because if I found out how many girls he'd been with then I would think I was another one to add to the list and I wasn't because he really liked me. Phew! Well, at least we got that one sorted out. I'm really glad, in that case, that nothing did happen. I feel good that he didn't see me as just another notch on his bed post and that he did actually like me. But he lsft with his friends and I didn't get a chance to say goodbye. I sent him a text but I haven't had a reply yet. I suppose it all ended happily in the end though! Thank you for all your advice Karen, I really really appreciate it and don't know how I would have coped otherwise!!! x x x x x x (link)
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Oh Daisy...I'm gonna miss you and the Australian!
I'm glad that you at least got to takl to him. Think you will see him in October? Does he plan to write or email? I'm glad too that he cared enough about you not to use you. See, he was a good guy. What about your friend (the guy?) sounds like he might like you a bit!
Ok, well, I hope I haven't heard the last of you. Do stop in once in awhile won't you? With or without a problem. I've been meaning to ask where you are from. I am in Kansas. Bye for now, YG (karen)
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