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The Adventures of Mr. Touchy-Feely
18 and F, y'all and needing advice with a boy. Same thing.
Long story short, I've got a guy friend who's a big flirt. This wouldn't bother me if it wasn't for one thing -- he's really physical about it. He does stuff like rubbing my back and kissing my head, weird stuff that my other guy friends, even the flirts, don't do. And the worst part about it that he's got a girlfriend and god knows what she thinks.
This all makes me a little uncomfortable, but I don't know if I should bring it up with my friend, because I don't want things to be awkward between us -- and maybe I'm overreacting (see, I used to like this guy way back when). Plus, since I'm going to college this summer, I probably won't be seeing him as much and it won't be such a problem...so I'm thinking maybe I should just shut my trap about it, but I'm not sure that's the best idea. What do you guys think?
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If his innapRopRiate behavioRs make you feel uncomfoRtable, you definitely ought to talk with him about it. I think that peRhaps foR the moment it just *might* make things awkwaRd, but that's only because he'll feel insulted. And the point isn't to insult him, but if that's what it takes, then so be it. Just tell him you find it disloyal foR him to even think about caRessing you when he *alReady has* a giRlfRiend he *should be* committed to. If he's ANY kind of DECENT human being, he'll undeRstand and Respect youR decision...
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I think if your uncomfortable with it you definitely say something to him. You don't have to be rude about it or anything, just tell him it makes you uncomfortable...especially since he has a girlfriend. If he cares for her, he may just lose her if he keeps it up. :)
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if you feel uncomfortable then tell him so he a'int gonna stop if you don't tell him is he you got to be brave he's got a girlfriend thats bad just tell him straight then see what he has to say
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I think that thats a good idea. The year is almost over (like 2 more weeks left?) Best not to ruin it for your flirt friend or his gf. I don't know if you've been doing this already-but try not to flirt back and maybe he'll get the picture.
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*i think you should let him know its making you feel uncomfortable. plus, he has a girlfriend. yeah summer is coming up therefore it would be an issue if you don't see him, but i would still let him know. & things wouldn't get awkward between you two if you don't seem him a lot in the future.. however don't be continuing your friendship if something is bothering you. let him know :-D
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