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breakup letter.


Question Posted Sunday May 22 2005, 1:42 pm

okay; here we go. i have been dating this guy *Q for about nine months now. We tend to disagree constantly. He hates when i am by my friends or talks to another guy. My friends view him as controlling, and over-protective; which i am starting to see. It is just so hard for me to end it. I was thinking of writing a note to him, because i'd get too emotion on the phone or in person. &&__ how he is he'd try to change my mind into staying together. but i really don't want that, i have just been scared to admit it. {{sorry if this sounds wordy, its really hard to explain}} I just would appreciate it if you guys had any ideas to make the breakup note not soo mean, but to the point where he gets the idea. any ideas would be great :-D

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karenR answered Monday May 23 2005, 1:43 am:
Just tell him exactly how you feel. I think you should write the letter, but I think you should be there when he reads it so you can answer any questions he might have. :)

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duckyfernanda answered Sunday May 22 2005, 4:34 pm:
Just say that you that the longer you two are going the farther away you feel from him...tell him that you still like him but not in that way anymore. He WILL be mad, maybe even angry, but in the future he wont be controlling to YOU. Hope I helped.RATE ME!!

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sp4rklingr4in answered Sunday May 22 2005, 2:33 pm:
The note... no matter how you write it, he's either going to find it really mean, or he's not going to get it at all. You HAVE to break up with him face to face. Yeah, it might be scary/hard but if you don't do it, he'll feel much worst than if you'd just told him directly.

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Sirra_Rose answered Sunday May 22 2005, 1:56 pm:
i have a few suggestions.

1. You can actually show his this letter to see his reaction, and if he changes for you. He may not realize how "controlling" he is and thinks he just being a good protective BF.

2.Sit him down and tell him everything on your mind.

3.Drop hints that he is bothering you.

4 Play his part, be over protective, and possevive, see how he likes it!

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