I’ve never been kissed and I was wondering if that is a turn off for guys (if they know). I personally find it embarrassing because I am 15/f. So my second question is, is it stupid that I haven’t kissed anyone yet, at my age?
It seems you are uncomfortable with your 'virgin lips' because your afraid of what other people would think...if youve been happy with yourself up to this point in ur life then thats all that should matter
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PREPPYxBRUNETT3 answered Monday May 23 2005, 5:00 pm: Um..I think It would be a turn off because most guys love to kiss! So If you don't know how and If your prude then Im thinking that's not arite. Um...I think you might be prude. That's when you're scared or imbarresed when you kiss someone and all you want to do is hug. That's you're choice so yea. Hope I helped..Bu bI SeLmA 0x` [ PREPPYxBRUNETT3's advice column | Ask PREPPYxBRUNETT3 A Question ]
burningXstar answered Monday May 23 2005, 12:02 pm: It kinda depends on the guy, worthwhile guys shouldn't be worried about it, afterall kissing is something I guess comes different and naturally to everyone! So the guy can't judge you, before you've actually kissed him, any guys that do are just being shallow! There's a first time for everything, just remember that just because you're waiting for your first kiss doesn't make you any less of a person, infact it makes you pretty awesome because it means you're waiting for the right guy to share this with! And as for your age.. Personally I'm 16 and was so worried about my first kiss! I researched every little detail I could on how to move your mouth, your head, everything! When it actually happened to me I didn't even need any of this detail because it's one of those things you learn through *doing* so to speak... Don't be embarrased because it's totally awesome you're waiting, just make sure you find the right guy to share your first with =) [ burningXstar's advice column | Ask burningXstar A Question ]
karenR answered Monday May 23 2005, 1:34 am: No it isn't stupid. Don't be embarrassed about it. It will happen. I don't think guys even think about if a girl has been kissed or not. They may worry about OTHER things girls might have done...but not kissing! :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
sourpatchkids379 answered Sunday May 22 2005, 6:17 pm: Hey!
I don't think that guys care. And if they are your first you are sort of a "trophey" to them. No it isn't stupid i know some people who havent been kissed. You are just saving it for the right guy. Good Luck
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advice~gurl answered Sunday May 22 2005, 5:01 pm: Normally I would just pass by these sort of questions but this is typed well and I really need to update.
I can't speak for the entire race of males but I can for my guy friends and they say think think its very much of a turn-on when girls haven't been kissed yet. Like they get to show you and know that they are the first to touch lips with yours. ( :P )
I understand that you worried about the whole "never been kissed" deal but its not that big of a deal. I'm also 15 F and I'd never been kissed until about a week after my 15th birthday (march). It came surprisingly fast and unexpected. I hadn't been looking for any guy to kiss and it seemed to come from behind me.
I really don't think you should worry about something so little. So what if you haven't been kissed? You worry about the more important things, like school and family and let kissing come after all that. I'm certain you will get you first kiss when your least expecting and it will be great. I'm sure.
ROCK_ON answered Sunday May 22 2005, 4:23 pm: Dont worry...guys who think its a turn off are just stupid and dont waste your first kiss on some guy that you dont even care about just because other ppl who are 15 have kissed doesnt mean you have to be one of them... [ ROCK_ON's advice column | Ask ROCK_ON A Question ]
o0psychicwish0o answered Sunday May 22 2005, 4:03 pm: yes, most 15 year olds have had the first kiss. But its okay if you havent, everybody is different. Most guys dont really care and they dont think its a turn off. No it isnt stupid either!! [ o0psychicwish0o's advice column | Ask o0psychicwish0o A Question ]
russianspy1234 answered Sunday May 22 2005, 4:00 pm: well its true most 15 year olds have kissed. however, and this is assuming you arent ugly, most guys will actually find it a turn on that youve never kissed, assuming you arent against kissing them. [ russianspy1234's advice column | Ask russianspy1234 A Question ]
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