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ok i like this guy and it's getting close to the dance at the end of the year at my school. I want to ask him to it but i think he likes this girl i really hate. we have had a friendship for about three months but that's thru AIM. i don't even have the guts to ask him on aim!He knows i like him but i'm afraid if i ask him he'll say no and that would hurt me pretty badly. So how can i ask him to the dance and still not get hurt.
P.S. do i have to ask him or can i just ask to dance with him at the dance or what. (link)
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I would ask him at the dance...
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I*ve been going out with this guy for a little over 2 months now, and i really like him...but we dont ever see each other. We go to different schools, and we live one & a half hours away from each other. I see him when i go to my moms, every other weekend..but i dont think thats enough! Summers almost here and i*m gonna be at my moms house all summer, so i*ll be able to see him but people tell me that hes cheating on me and lying to me. I dont know what to do!!...... (link)
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Talk to him on the phone, online...about what ppl have been telling you but dont be gullible and believe what ppl say until you find out for sure and just wait until summer which is coming really soon!!
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Well it all started a few months ago when I started liking this guy "D". We'd be friends for the first semester, but the second semester brought us closer because we were in the same Algebra class. Yes, this guy had a reputation back in jr high for being a player and relieving his stress through violence, but it didn't seem to bother me. And so yeah, somehow all these people found out about my feelings towards him and he then found out as well, but he wouldn't confront me about it. He told my friend "Nik" that he didn't wanna play guessing games though, and wanted me to just come out and say it to him. But I don't know, that seemed desperate to me. But eventually, I did. I know, sad. He didn't act any differently towards me, nor did I towards him. Well at a party, he and my friend "Sar" hooked up. (they only made out, really) That left a mark on my ego, that a friend would do that to me, but what's done is done. I talked to her about it, it's over, she doesn't like him anymore, it was a one night thing. Well now he likes my other friend, "Care". And she likes him a little bit, but loves her ex-boyfriend, which she still has a shot with. Okay, finally getting to the issue::: the other day, during lunch, she was being all touchy and clingy towards him, right in front of me. And so after, I talk to her about it. Apparently, he kissed her while I wasn't around. And I'm not saying that just because I like him, that he shouldn't have other girls, but I expect more of my friends, yah know? I am happy that she talked to me about it and told me about the whole thing, but, it still hurt.. And yeah, my main question is what is there for me to do? This guy is definately worth it in the long run, but I don't know if I want to wait that long. Everyone says that he'll come around to see what he's missing with me, but I'm sick of waiting. Honestly, what is there for me to do???
-Mixed Emotions =/ (link)
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You cant force this guy to like you and if he like your friends well you cant forbid them to go ut with him but those "friends" of yours dont seem to nice and if this guy knows that you like him and is being like that then hes not the one for you but cheer up...theres other guys...
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I’ve never been kissed and I was wondering if that is a turn off for guys (if they know). I personally find it embarrassing because I am 15/f. So my second question is, is it stupid that I haven’t kissed anyone yet, at my age? (link)
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Dont worry...guys who think its a turn off are just stupid and dont waste your first kiss on some guy that you dont even care about just because other ppl who are 15 have kissed doesnt mean you have to be one of them...
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I got over somebody perhaps two weeks ago and decided to move on with my life. Moving on materialized in a new matter with a friend of a friend, and we started going out. At the same time everything else in my life has been going awry, and I don't feel attracted to this person anymore. I'm extremely confused right now, but if I break up with him I'll hurt his feelings and since he's part of the circle, my friends will make me feel bad about it forever. I'm beginning to think I have no sexuality at all, and he wants to do so much stuff. I just feel like getting away from him, not that I don't like him as a person. His attempts at romance only succeed in making me sick to my stomach with self disrespect.
I just want things to be the way they were. I don't want the status of having a bf, or being in a relationship. I cannot act all happy when everything else in my life is falling down around me.
I am so malcontent. (link)
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Break up with him and explain to him why...that you dont want a boyfriend and your friends shouldnt make you feel bad but if they do well there arent your good friends...or just explain it to them also. My first boyfriend was all shy and was in the "circle" also and at first i really liked him but then idk..i just got sick of the way he is...and my friends bothered me also until i told them all the things he did and they understood..so explain to your friends. Im sorry you feel so terrible i hope i helped!!
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Hey...look i really like this guy and hes a good friend of mine he was a new id at my school and at first everyone liked him but now theres this other new kid and everyone likes him now but the old new kid well im friends with him and we have alot in common but im not sure if i should tel him becuase i dont want him to feel uncomfortable around me and i just think things wouldnt be the same...so what should i do!!! (link)
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If you really like him then tell him but if you dont want things to be different from the way there are then try to get him to like you...maybe he does. What do u got to lose? Im actually going through the same thing right now and i told the guy and now were bf and gf...the same thing might happen with you...SO GO FOR IT!!
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this is driving me crazy...all my friends have bf's besides me..yet im not the prettiest girl in the world..but every where i go someone says something about their bf's or how they hate being single..and i am 15 and never had a bf...can someone help me? (link)
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Having a bf isnt as good as it seems and just be patient youll have someone soon...now iwth your friends tell them that how you feel and tell them to stop talking about their bfs with you and it doesnt matter that your 15 and never had a bf becuz its not that important.
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theres this kid in my school (one year older) that last year asked me out..at the moment i didnt "truley" like him..but i kind of did. but i still said no. then this year came by and we became really close friends, and now im starting to like him..but he doesnt feel the same way? did i already lose my chance? waht should i do?
I RATE WELL=)
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Well...you did lose your chance but listen you should seriously tell him how you feel and he might still like you...its worth a try!!
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