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i feel terrible
I got over somebody perhaps two weeks ago and decided to move on with my life. Moving on materialized in a new matter with a friend of a friend, and we started going out. At the same time everything else in my life has been going awry, and I don't feel attracted to this person anymore. I'm extremely confused right now, but if I break up with him I'll hurt his feelings and since he's part of the circle, my friends will make me feel bad about it forever. I'm beginning to think I have no sexuality at all, and he wants to do so much stuff. I just feel like getting away from him, not that I don't like him as a person. His attempts at romance only succeed in making me sick to my stomach with self disrespect.
I just want things to be the way they were. I don't want the status of having a bf, or being in a relationship. I cannot act all happy when everything else in my life is falling down around me.
I am so malcontent.
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i know it will be hard but you have to end your relationship. just tell him gently when your both alone that although you like him, your feeling for him have changed and that you just want to go back to the way you were.
you cant keep going out with him just to please your friends and just so you wont hurt him because the longer you leave it the more its going to hurt.
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Just tell him you have so much happening in your life right now that you don't want a steady boyfriend. Don't stay in a relationship just to spare his feelings. It isn't fair to either of you. My guess is you just jumped back in a little before you were ready to. Talk to him and tell him what you feel. :)
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Hey!
Well just tell him that tell him you can't have a boyfriend right now you have to much going on ask him to have a break. Tell him to give you some space for a while and maybe you can go out when you feel better about yourself. Sure he and your friends may get mad but if they are your real friends they will understand. Good Luck!
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Break up with him and explain to him why...that you dont want a boyfriend and your friends shouldnt make you feel bad but if they do well there arent your good friends...or just explain it to them also. My first boyfriend was all shy and was in the "circle" also and at first i really liked him but then idk..i just got sick of the way he is...and my friends bothered me also until i told them all the things he did and they understood..so explain to your friends. Im sorry you feel so terrible i hope i helped!!
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Break up with him explain to him why and if you're friends make you feel bad for they're not to good of friends just explain to them to .
Hope I helped.
Bebe_qirl
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