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Friendships and Love =/ --- 15f
Well it all started a few months ago when I started liking this guy "D". We'd be friends for the first semester, but the second semester brought us closer because we were in the same Algebra class. Yes, this guy had a reputation back in jr high for being a player and relieving his stress through violence, but it didn't seem to bother me. And so yeah, somehow all these people found out about my feelings towards him and he then found out as well, but he wouldn't confront me about it. He told my friend "Nik" that he didn't wanna play guessing games though, and wanted me to just come out and say it to him. But I don't know, that seemed desperate to me. But eventually, I did. I know, sad. He didn't act any differently towards me, nor did I towards him. Well at a party, he and my friend "Sar" hooked up. (they only made out, really) That left a mark on my ego, that a friend would do that to me, but what's done is done. I talked to her about it, it's over, she doesn't like him anymore, it was a one night thing. Well now he likes my other friend, "Care". And she likes him a little bit, but loves her ex-boyfriend, which she still has a shot with. Okay, finally getting to the issue::: the other day, during lunch, she was being all touchy and clingy towards him, right in front of me. And so after, I talk to her about it. Apparently, he kissed her while I wasn't around. And I'm not saying that just because I like him, that he shouldn't have other girls, but I expect more of my friends, yah know? I am happy that she talked to me about it and told me about the whole thing, but, it still hurt.. And yeah, my main question is what is there for me to do? This guy is definately worth it in the long run, but I don't know if I want to wait that long. Everyone says that he'll come around to see what he's missing with me, but I'm sick of waiting. Honestly, what is there for me to do???
-Mixed Emotions =/
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Well, tell your friend about how you feel towards him (maybe she can put in a good word or two to him) and how you feel about him kissing her. She might understand and try to stop it from happening often or happening at all. But in the meantime maybe you could be a little more flirtatious towards him so that he knows that you are genuinely telling the truth about how you like him.
I hope I helped!
~Passionate
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You cant force this guy to like you and if he like your friends well you cant forbid them to go ut with him but those "friends" of yours dont seem to nice and if this guy knows that you like him and is being like that then hes not the one for you but cheer up...theres other guys...
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