ok i like this guy and it's getting close to the dance at the end of the year at my school. I want to ask him to it but i think he likes this girl i really hate. we have had a friendship for about three months but that's thru AIM. i don't even have the guts to ask him on aim!He knows i like him but i'm afraid if i ask him he'll say no and that would hurt me pretty badly. So how can i ask him to the dance and still not get hurt.
P.S. do i have to ask him or can i just ask to dance with him at the dance or what.
lucylou answered Sunday May 22 2005, 9:36 am: Just ask him to dance you'll soon know if he likes you or not and then just go for it if he says no just say oh k no hard feelings and ur still b m8s good luck x [ lucylou's advice column | Ask lucylou A Question ]
nextdearabby answered Sunday May 22 2005, 12:48 am: Definitely ask him! If you don't you'll always wonder if he would've said yes. Unless he has actually said that he likes the other girl, don't even try to guess... there's no way you can know for sure what his personal feelings are. The truth is you may be hurt, there's no way to avoid it and either way it's not the end of the world... at least it won't feel that way forever.
Ask him before the dance, because if he ends up going with someone else, he's not going to want to ditch her to dance with you. Also, if you wait until the dance, you'll be all nervous and not able to enjoy it. [ nextdearabby's advice column | Ask nextdearabby A Question ]
OrangeChikn answered Saturday May 21 2005, 11:15 pm: Well, if you want a yes there is alot more pressure in person...so I would say ask at the dance
mac19 answered Saturday May 21 2005, 10:46 pm: Think about it, the worst thing he could say is no. How many times have your parents said "NO"? you probably don't get that upset. and second off how do you know he'll say no if you don't ask him. you won't always get the answer you want, but there is a 50/50 chance so suck it up and ask him. You can do it!
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