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what do i do?
I*ve been going out with this guy for a little over 2 months now, and i really like him...but we dont ever see each other. We go to different schools, and we live one & a half hours away from each other. I see him when i go to my moms, every other weekend..but i dont think thats enough! Summers almost here and i*m gonna be at my moms house all summer, so i*ll be able to see him but people tell me that hes cheating on me and lying to me. I dont know what to do!!......
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i feeeeel your pain my gf goes to another school and also lives ab 30 min away and wed see eachother like once a week for like 2/3 months once or twice we went 2 weeks just give it a couple more months and if yall like eachother enough youll do what i did and take each and every chance you get to see him as for the cheating thing, thats a tough one, but just do one thing and thats trust him with all your heart... forget what your friends say just trust that he like/loves you enough to not do it
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You need to talk to him and sort things out get things straight with him
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Talk to him on the phone, online...about what ppl have been telling you but dont be gullible and believe what ppl say until you find out for sure and just wait until summer which is coming really soon!!
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Hm... well, you could talk to him on AIM and on the phone a lot. Don't be like a stalker or anything, just keep in better contact with him. Don't jump to conclusions about what people are saying. Question yourself what thier motives would be, and how trustworthy they are. And, if you come to the conclusion that one could be jealous, are the people who are telling you this all friends? If so, they could all be in it together...
It sounds like you'll find out soon enough anyway. If you're going to be at your mom's house all summer, then you'll notice if he slips up or flirts with other girls, and you're bound to catch him at something if he is cheating. So, for now, just play detective.......
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ask him,and talk to him. and untill u go to ur moms house, talk to him on the phone, or on aim, that way there isnt too much distance [as far as talking goes, if that makes sence]
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for one thing you have no proof that hes cheating on you and you have no proof hes not either who are these people that are telling you this maybe you should check things out perhaps look at his phone or ask his mates dont go over the top and dont jump to conclusion in my eyes hes inacent until proven guilty but its not up 2 me du what you think is right if you honistly think that hes cheating then be sure your right first cause you could end up ruenin ur relationship
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Well first of all don't belive them straight away, people like to shit stir alot for some reason.
You have to talk to him about it face to face and tell him that if she's cheating he has to tell you.
Hopefully, if he is, he won't be a jerk and he'll tell you.
But for both of your sakes I hope he's not
Good Luck
♥Em
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What I would do is take what others are saying with a grain of salt for right now and not overreact. You will know soon enough when you go to your mom's for the summer. Just make sure that you keep your eyes open for anything suspicious.
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u kno the people saying that hes lying and cheating do they actually tlk to him and see him everyday to be able to say this? if not then dont listen to them there just trying to split u up, i know its hard not being able to see a boy friend mine lives an hour away his mum dont let us see each other its all a long story but we only see each other about maybe 3-4 weeks for just about 6-8 hours and it kills me not to see him after going out with him for 8 months, im just trying to say i know how it feels hun and i hope everything works out ok! x
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If your going out with him then ask him to look straight into your eyes and tell the truth if hes lieing or cheating or what ever you have hurd from these rumors
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