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15/f--i've been dating my boyfriend for nearly the entire school year and we're INCREDIBLY close. however...i'm not a big fan of kissing. Its great fun on the neck or ear...but just frenching or long kisses on the lips...its gross, and i feel like i'm drowning. i don't know if its just something i'm doing wrong, or if he's not a good kisser...or that's just how things are supposed to go and somehow i'm the only person in the world who finds this disgusting. :-/ please let me know what it might be, and anything i could do to help this situation! thanks <3
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Well im not quite sure but all i can say is that when you find the one you reallly love and care about.... kissing is going to be amazing. and you wont find it gross
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Heyyyyyy.. you know what!? You'Re absolutely *NOT* the "only peRson in the woRld who finds this disgusting", because I *TOO* dislike kissing!! And *I* thought *I* was the only one!!! So hopefully just THAT much alone makes you feel somewhat betteR! ;D I absolutely REFUSE to kiss my boyfRiends!! I simply WILL NOT do it!! I always make shoRe to explain to them that... "it's not you.. it's ME".. so they don't take it peRsonally. But eitheR way, it still huRts the guy, and I know this. HoweveR, I think that if they *tRuly* caRe foR me.. they ought to be willing to take alittle offense RatheR than cRoss my boundaRies. The way *I* see it is... THAT'S JUST ME!! It's just something that I stand foR and suppoRt with all of my heaRt, and I believe that if they do not Respect *THAT*, then they obviously do not Respect *ME*. When I tell guys I don't like kissing.. they always come back and say the same thing: "Maybe you just haven't kissed the Right guy then?", and yeeeaahhh.. I *suppose* that could be tRue a tiny bit... but not so much. HeaRing that though, I decided to see foR myself. I've always made a point of at least TRYING to kiss the guy I'm cuRRently into... and nothing has eveR made it any betteR. And I've tRied TIME AND TIME again!! We even tRied like exchanging objects, such as ice cubes, with ouR mouths... but it always fails me. See, I guess *MY* pRoblem is that I'm AFRAID to kiss. And since I'm afRaid to kiss... I staRt exageRating some slight negatives; like I staRt thinking that it's just disgusting... you'Re mixing saliva... you don't know wheRe theiR mouth has been, and so on. So peRhaps that's why you feel this way??? To be peRfectly honest, I'm not *REALLY* shoRe what to tell you in this situation, because I've been stuck theRe myself foR yeaRs... but I highly suggest pRacticing... I know it seems like a lame answeR, but it just MIGHT do some good. But you'll neveR know until you tRy. And if at fiRst you don't succeed... tRy, tRy again! I'm soRRie if this wasn't what you wanted to heaR, and I'm soRRie I can't be of moRe help to you; but I wish you allllll the best of luck! Hopefully I've made even the slightest bit of diffeRence!! =D
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Hey!
Nothing is wrong with it at all! Just let him know. If you can't take it just keep them short and sweet. who says that the kiss has to last 5 minutes break it off when you are ready. Good Luck!
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well if he trys to kiss you, make it short and just pull away. hes not going to attack yuo again if you pull away. lol
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well if your close, just tell him that. its not that important in the relationship anyway. if kissing on your neck or ear turns you on more, then fine...no harm done. he should understand. if you think he sucks at it, tell him GENTLY. hope everything works out. <3
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yeah most likely one of you kissing wrong, probably him. then again there are some girls that really just dont like the tongue action, my last girlfriend prefered more focus on the lips, light nibbling and stuff you should try that.
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